Oyind17:







What has fat gotten to do with the husband's bad habit?

Roland17:
Firstly, Woman, if you have never discussed such sensitive allegations with your husband privately before putting him on full blast on social media to be ridiculed and yourself and marriage in larger extension then I must say you are definitely immature, selfish and irresponsible, pray and hope your said husband never stumbles on this piece and the responses as its a definite path to destruction for your marriage as we don't even know his side of the story which might clarify a lot.

In the instance that you have discussed such findings with him then how active is your sexual relationship with your husband? He must definitely satisfy your cravings for you to worry about this selfish act of his, Do you wonder if he is stressed out or depressed about some issues?

Having open discussions with your partner devoid of assumptions and any form of aggression is the best way to resolve marital issues.

Its marriage for heavens sake not a boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship..

Wishing you all the best.

oladeledave:
be sure dat i wud not like to get into war of words with anyone here, cos i knw d actual response to give u.
so u can express ur sef lyk dis and you were saying unserious stuffs b4.
conclusively, i think you lack approach and manner of expression, you nid to work on that

francescainnoce:
Thank God for Nairaland as I am able to learn from so many people and experiences.
I see most comment on the first and second page points to the fact that child birth and weight add might be the possible and likely reason thus my question...
Should we not give birth again? because we fear our PUUUC might be too open and chase our husband from having sex with us...
weight add could be controlled but defo a husband do not expect where a head and a body comes out from should be as close and tight like a concealed evaporated milk... obv there gonna be a huge difference...so?

misshipsy88:
For sometime I have noticed that my husband would rather masturbate instead of having sex with me,even when I try as much as possible to spice up our sex life.please what do I do to stop it?

justmag:


You really have to ask? Don't underestimate the power of excess fat in a relationship

justmag:


You really have to ask? Don't underestimate the power of excess fat in a relationship

misshipsy88:
For sometime I have noticed that my husband would rather masturbate instead of having sex with me,even when I try as much as possible to spice up our sex life.please what do I do to stop it?

ndidibabe:
Hmm. This is serious!! How does he masturbate?

Vanquay:
You better find toyboys or f***buddy ...........Speaking of Toyboys . In all seriousnes Porn has damaged your Husband's REASoning. He cant tell Reality from Fantasy again. Just try to see if you can act some of his fantasies. #LOVEGURU Meanwhile I am dropping my Novella 1:30pm GMT-5 because of mh Reddit fans and Time Difference. Catch it like it's hot on Reddit or Nairaland

I gave a serious advice. What else should I say

mohisi:
is a serious matter n it need a serious solution

Teempakguy:
How fat are you?

bravesoul247:
That's one hell of a creative imagination

Oyind17:








The guy must av been masturbatin before she met him. Fat is not the issue here

islandbreeze:




Lolest!!

sukkot:
well dayum nigga you done met some pretty ' unsavory characters'

hopeforcharles:

Hahahaha you are baddddt.

Mariojane:
baddo. are you related to Olamide?

bigboss80s:
It's clear that they are not compatible. I'm sure the man knew this before they got married. The question is: what is the real reason he married her?

DTOBS:



Lollll...baba u no try oooooo,person talk say im husband dey nastubate,u talk say make im carry am go strip club. Shey u no know say na before she start lap dance the guy go finish everything wey dey im body?

COvo:
Did you become fat after he got married to you? If yes then that's the reason.

sammyj:
Bad girl!!

Houseofglam7:


him case critical be dat

Prodeegee:
chai


You again?

5minsmadness:




All life's a journey...

Plus I engage in a lot of couple counselling. You'd be amazed at what folks try to hide from their spouses and how blind some spouses can be to thier own obvious problems.

MRBrownJ:


giving birth and putting on weight can be fixed by daily excercises and a balance diet, and big vagi.nas can be tightened with Kegel excercises.. but the problem will always be SATISFACTION. a good woman who want to have a healthy sex life with her man will turn into the freak that he desires. You have to do all the nastiness that he longs for, and if you dont, then he will always be lacking in the bedroom. during and after pregnancy then focus on Blo.wjob, handjobs, titjobs, footjobs to satisfy his sexual hunger, AND if your toto isnt tight enough then give him your asssss!!!!! if this is against your religious/ethical beliefs then blame that for the failing of your bedroom act.vities, not your man.

remember, it goes both ways, so you can also tell your man about your own desires, so that he can help you fulfill them too.... and if you are too shy to open up and let him know about them (for fear to be seen as a freak) then the joke is on you!

Houseofglam7:



Yes boss.
Reporting for duty sir.

DTOBS:

Baje...