good day nairalanders please I Need each and every ones help
I have a girlfriend that was raped some years back thou she was a virgin and was forcefully sexed due to the pain she has Ben scared of sex some times if she is alone she will start crying please how can intake er mind off pain in sex because its making me scared of her and I feel like having sex at times but she doesn't want me to cheat on her and am already lusting after other girls please advice me

humm


wait not gud to have sex before marriage na.....

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blaze2cool:
humm


wait not gud to have sex before marriage na.....

she said even if we get married I will drug her to have sex am just fed up

hidee20:

who die naa? abi y u dey cry?

leave her sorry ass,she is playing hard to get!

ebijimi7:
she said even if we get married I will drug her to have sex am just fed up

just train her on the right path make her see u as that special one and make her feel safe around u i know its not easy but if u do it right she will see that grate man who isnt lost after sex alone but her hero

To help her, that is if you really want to, you have to take your mind of the issue of sex. Can u do that for a friend? Lol

Its going to take a lot of talking and therapy sessions (with a trained certified Psychiatrist), she needs someone she can trust, one who could help her come back to the real world. Right now she has a life but not living the life. Also keep her in your prayers.

No one is perfect, most times our past teaches us to camouflage and we become masters of shutting out pain, sorrow, heart aches etc. and we become numb to joy, peace and love that surrounds us.

I wish you help her as a friend and don't look at what you can get out of it. Could be the reason God made your paths to cross.

Just my thoughts anyway.

ebijimi7:
she said even if we get married I will drug her to have sex am just fed up

Omo,na ur mama head dey help u o...she don get HIV.

Carry her go yabaleft....she get mental

ebijimi7:
good day nairalanders please I Need each and every ones help
I have a girlfriend that was raped some years back thou she was a virgin and was forcefully sexed due to the pain she has Ben scared of sex some times if she is alone she will start crying please how can intake er mind off pain in sex because its making me scared of her and I feel like having sex at times but she doesn't want me to cheat on her and am already lusting after other girls please advice me

..bro truss m.... Mrs Chima & Missclassy gots yor bak on this.. they giv the best advise!

its such a traumatising experience,I feelso bad for her. Please be the Friend she needs,and try to make her understand she has to be willing to heal from the pain. It will take a while but she needs you okay.


I like to share my own experiencs though I've never been raped,but I've come close to been raped four whole times at different times,though I escaped of which I'm still wondering how,the fear is still there though I know I'm getting over and still fighting.

It was affecting my relationships so at a point with the help of a friend who cares I had to take the bull by the horn.

Plz be with her she needs you and forge about sex for now.

All these bloody labe orun storytellers? Those this look like a policeland? See question!

Take her to a clinic for counselling.

ebijimi7:
good day nairalanders please I Need each and every ones help
I have a girlfriend that was raped some years back thou she was a virgin and was forcefully sexed due to the pain she has Ben scared of sex some times if she is alone she will start crying please how can intake er mind off pain in sex because its making me scared of her and I feel like having sex at times but she doesn't want me to cheat on her and am already lusting after other girls please advice me

LET HER SEE A PSYCHOLOGIST.

prettythicksme:
who die naa? abi y u dey cry?

Na my fellow nigga sixth sense.... ...pls,morn with me,will you?