This happened to a friend of mine (an office colleague)


They were love birds for few months. They had a heated quarrel that lasted 4 months. One funny thing about the whole stuff is they work in the same office, but they were not talking to each other.

We noticed that the lady was seriously ill for like 2 months and nobody knew the nature of the sickness. Typhoid was her excuse then.

So recently, they settled their disputes and started going out again. One thing led to another, she confessed that it was abortion and not Typhoid that got hooked.

In fact its my friends 3 weeks pregnancy she removed.

My friend was like "Why didnt you tell me you were pregnant?"

"Why did you have to abort my pregnancy?"

The lady said "But we were not talking then and its stupid for me to come and approach you with pregnancy in such a sour relationship"

My friend is mad at her now. He has been behaving funny and not focus since Monday.

I personally think the lady is at fault.

Am I wrong?

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he should make up with another one
veli simples

Am in dxame shoes. I hvnt aborted mine bt my boyfriend isn't financially capable as he is still in his finals. I need help.

Benignasweety:
Am in dxame shoes. I hvnt aborted mine bt my boyfriend isn't financially capable as he is still in his finals. I need help.

She doesn't need your consent to do anything to her body even if you are married. It is the same thing for men who do not have to be father's to their children. They can terminate their parental rights and move on.

It is a risk you take when you are in a relationship and date like minded to avoid conflicts.

Benignasweety:
Am in dxame shoes. I hvnt aborted mine bt my boyfriend isn't financially capable as he is still in his finals. I need help.

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Pls dont think of abortion. There are many ways to go about it

What kind of help again, thought you created a thread about this your ish

Benignasweety:
Am in dxame shoes. I hvnt aborted mine bt my boyfriend isn't financially capable as he is still in his finals. I need help.

Some guys are funny. I'm sure if she'd told him about the pregnancy, he was going to think she was trying to trap him with a baby to remain in their obviously tumultuous relationship. He needs to get over it or end the relationship if he's bothered by what she did. They weren't talking, so maybe she thought there was no chance of a reconciliation & to save herself the stress of single parenthood, she made the decision to terminate. Her choice. Her body. A child deserves a stable environment. Full stop.

MrsChima:
She doesn't need your consent to do anything to her body even if you are married. It is the same thing for men who do not have to be father's to their children. They can terminate their parental rights and move on.

It is a risk you take when you are in a relationship and date like minded to avoid conflicts.

See who we have here. MrsChima

PunkyVeer:
Some guys are funny. I'm sure if she'd told him about the pregnancy, he was going to think she was trying to trap him with a baby to remain in their obviously tumultuous relationship. He needs to get over it or end the relationship if he's bothered by what she did. They weren't talking, so maybe she thought there was no chance of a reconciliation & to save herself the stress of single parenthood, she made the decision to terminate. Her choice. Her body. A child deserves a stable environment. Full stop.

Why this unhealthy assumption ?

Its better to let him know. If something bad happens to her during the process of abortion, she is on her own.

MrsChima:
She doesn't need your consent to do anything to her body even if you are married. It is the same thing for men who do not have to be father's to their children. They can terminate their parental rights and move on.

It is a risk you take when you are in a relationship and date like minded to avoid conflicts.

Ill Literaly kill any girl that tries this with me,did she put the baby there herself..... Listen to yourself ma.

Benignasweety:
Am in dxame shoes. I hvnt aborted mine bt my boyfriend isn't financially capable as he is still in his finals. I need help.

Dont abort d baby!thou shall not kill

proxillin:



Why this unhealthy assumption ?

Its better to let him know. If something bad happens to her during the process of abortion, she is on her own.

I'm making assumptions because it is what it is. Some guys ARE like that. They see pregnancy as a trap. Maybe this one is different or maybe he isn't. It's very easy to claim responsible & "why didn't you tell me" AFTER the fact. However, I digress.

MrsChima:
She doesn't need your consent to do anything to her body even if you are married. It is the same thing for men who do not have to be father's to their children. They can terminate their parental rights and move on.

It is a risk you take when you are in a relationship and date like minded to avoid conflicts.

Is that seriously coming from you? This feminism stuff has gotten into ur head then.
You didn't get urself pregnant, someone did it with you and is actually the donour, and u are telling me you have the right to abort it without his consent?

BOWOTO:
Ill Literaly kill any girl that tries this with me,did she put the baby there herself..... Listen to yourself ma.

Then use a condom...simple!

MrsChima:


Then use a condom...simple!

did I reject the baby? What if I wanted to keep it? So I don't have a say?

MrsChima:
She doesn't need your consent to do anything to her body even if you are married. It is the same thing for men who do not have to be father's to their children. They can terminate their parental rights and move on.

It is a risk you take when you are in a relationship and date like minded to avoid conflicts.

u are very stupid

faith551:



Is that seriously coming from you? This feminism stuff has gotten into ur head then.
You didn't get urself pregnant, someone did it with you and is actually the donour, and u are telling me you have the right to abort it without his consent?

This has nothing to do with Feminism. There are women who are not feminists aborted their babies. Get off the Feminism thing and focus on the matter at hand.

You take a risk when you have unsafe sex with anyone. I am not advocating abortion but I do call a spade a spade.

It is her body and she can do whatever to her body.

smithsydny:
u are very stupid

Same as you.

BOWOTO:
did I reject the baby? What if I wanted to keep it? So I don't have a say?

No, you don't have a say because you are not carrying it.

proxillin:
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Pls dont think of abortion. There are many ways to go about it

plz how wld I go about it?? Am a big disappoint to my parents already bcuz I once had a son. I didn't knw why I made diz mistake twice. I guess mayb itz becuz I felt secure with him cuz of his love for me.. Am confused nd abortion is d best cuz of my parents.

MrsChima:


Same as you.

smithsydny:
u are very stupid

hey no fighting here.

Oya hug each other

Sassybae:
What kind of help again, thought you created a thread about this your ish

aint much satisfied from the ansaz on my thread. Thnx

MrsChima:


No, you don't have a say because you are not carrying it.

Smh you're something else,i pray you never come my way.

proxillin:





hey no fighting here.

Oya hug each other

how she go dey talk like that nah..if nah her pick how she wan do am? ehhkwa

Benignasweety:
plz how wld I go about it?? Am a big disappoint to my parents already bcuz I once had a son. I didn't knw why I made diz mistake twice. I guess mayb diz guy is loves me more dan I can imagine... Am confused nd abortion is d best cuz of my parents.

This is not best discussed here...

How financially bouyant is he? Is he ready to own up?

MrsChima:


Same as you.

people like born kids and live them in dustbin..nah unah way..

PunkyVeer:
Some guys are funny. I'm sure if she'd told him about the pregnancy, he was going to think she was trying to trap him with a baby to remain in their obviously tumultuous relationship. He needs to get over it or end the relationship if he's bothered by what she did. They weren't talking, so maybe she thought there was no chance of a reconciliation & to save herself the stress of single parenthood, she made the decision to terminate. Her choice. Her body. A child deserves a stable environment. Full stop.

Don't mind these fools because there are many single mothers out there raising kids on their own even married women are raising kids on their own while the men can frollick around like rabid hyenas.

Not every man wants children especially by a girlfriend and not every woman wants children so they opt for abortion ( if they have used proper birth control then there would not be a need for abortion).

I don't care what anyone say if push come to shove...the woman is typically the one left with the kids if all else fails. If you are not about to care for your children give up for adoption but what African nation you know freely adopting babies? Exactly.

BOWOTO:
Smh you're something else,i pray you never come my way.

Why would I needs to come your way? I am not interested.

proxillin:


This is not best discussed here...

How financially bouyant is he? Is he ready to own up?

no means of finance just from parents. Yea he owned up to it. Add me on fbk benigna Godwin let's chat more.