Xaurel:
guy B is the way to go. never overlook potential and he could always enroll in any university for a part time course anytime he wants to. Remember marriage takes off the rose colored glasses, guy A won't be so dashing when he starts getting physical. people DONT change.

That makes a lot of sense, especially coming from a guy. Will let her know.

LadyBoss1:

If they have both treated her well
Then she should just take a risk and see how it goes .. Whats d worst that can happen .. And if it doesnt work out at least she know she tried .. Y punish both * shrugs*
Oh yh n money n look aint everything so she should use her head not eye.. N if she works n all dat then that should not be a deciding factor ..

ll let her know.

christinie:
Happening to someone I know right now. Guy A is highly educated, very handsome, tall, dark, loaded, claims to love her but can get angry over trust issues for days and come back later to beg that he can't do without her, he's empty without her, bla bla bla. Guy B is handsome too but not as polished and dashing as guy 'A' and is not a graduate, is into business and is doing well financially but not as good as guy A but he has great potentials as he way-bills goods to parts of Africa and within Nigeria. He completely dots on her. She can get away with murder with him as he loves her so much. In fact he's obsessed with her. He pampers her like never before and is so proud of her. Both of them have proposed. Guy 'A' is in Europe while guy B is in Nig. The girl is well-travelled too. She loves guy 'A' hopelessly but guy 'B' loves her totally. She's trained her heart to get over guy 'A' but she feels deep down her that guy 'B' is not good enough for her. She's so confused right now and won't let my phone rest. Always 'whatsapping' me to advise her on what to do. I am of the opinion that she should forget about those 2 dudes and build a new and more fulfilling relationship. #Never_settle_for_less.

none of them

deniyor:


none of them

any reason(s)?

christinie:
any reason(s)?

Your choices are really between feeling inadequate and settling for lower standards. You'd never feel fulfilled.
You'll never be good enough for one and the other never be good enough for you. Recipe for unhappiness.

Interesting

christinie:
Happening to someone I know right now. Guy A is highly educated, very handsome, tall, dark, loaded, claims to love her but can get angry over trust issues for days and come back later to beg that he can't do without her, he's empty without her, bla bla bla. Guy B is handsome too but not as polished and dashing as guy 'A' and is not a graduate, is into business and is doing well financially but not as good as guy A but he has great potentials as he way-bills goods to parts of Africa and within Nigeria. He completely dots on her. She can get away with murder with him as he loves her so much. In fact he's obsessed with her. He pampers her like never before and is so proud of her. Both of them have proposed. Guy 'A' is in Europe while guy B is in Nig. The girl is well-travelled too. She loves guy 'A' hopelessly but guy 'B' loves her totally. She's trained her heart to get over guy 'A' but she feels deep down her that guy 'B' is not good enough for her. She's so confused right now and won't let my phone rest. Always 'whatsapping' me to advise her on what to do. I am of the opinion that she should forget about those 2 dudes and build a new and more fulfilling relationship. #Never_settle_for_less.

Guy A is much more better

That's not guy B real behaviour

Guy A is much more civilised and compatible with your friend who lack manners.

Guy B will require more respect in nearest future which your friend can't give


Tell your friend to work on her behaviours, manner.

You are the lady in question. God bless your marriage.

Nice one op , but not in all cases sometimes even after doing all those things u still cant decide..