a friend, a preschool teacher was telling me this week how she caught two young children 6/5 fingeri[i]n[/i]g themselves in the bathroom


when she ask them what they were doing, the girl told her that, it was what HER FATHER DOES TO HER at home. (its safe to say, she was practicing what his sick idiot called father does to her) she immediately called school officials and the child protective agency and police was immediately called, also the mom was also called. she wasnt aware of it(which happens in many cases) and she was more than destruct, she rained curses and abuses on her husband on the phone while still in school before the police could reach their house to talk to the husband, the man had ran away

~Sissy~:

no we havent truly covered the topic and i think now is the time cause this sick crimes are turning up every blessed day. i truly weep of our kids,girls and women. i mean its truly sad.

i cant even read that thread cause the more i try to read it, the more pissed off i become

Jehovah God please us

Lol its not only the female species that are being abused.

I'm always watching LAW & ORDER: SVU, just to understand the type of things that goes on. This type of stuff. Little boys are being r/aped, what's even worse is that ppl dont pay attention to it because they expect the rape to happen to the little girls.


1. Anytime you let your children out of your site, always ask them questions. . . . not directly tho. [Sth like, "So what did you and uncle do?" or "what did you and 'so-so' play and where did you play"?]

2. CHECK for any signs of abnormality on their body. Mothers should ALWAYS check for those signs unless he's a single father.

3. Encourage your child to talk. Learn to listen, learn to learn from them.

4.Let them demonstrate any NEW game they've learned that day

5. Watch for any abnormal physical and mental expression [like flinching/ eyes down/etc/]

6. Watch for any physical change [change in the way they walk or pain when they piss]

7. TALK TO YOUR CHILD

8. Teach them the safety rules.

~Sissy~:

a friend, a preschool teacher was telling me this week how she caught two young children 6/5 fingeri[i]n[/i]g themselves in the bathroom


when she ask them what they were doing, the girl told her that, it was what HER FATHER DOES TO HER at home. (its safe to say, she was practicing what his sick  called father does to her) she immediately called school officials and the child protective agency and police was immediately called, also the mom was also called. she wasnt aware of it(which happens in many cases) and she was more than destruct, she rained curses and abuses on her husband on the phone while still in school before the police could reach their house to talk to the husband, the man had ran away

Shame. She shouldnt have tipped him off. Women should learn to controlt heir anger in this type of situation.
I cant promise that I wouldnt have gone back home to stab him tho.

FL Gators:

Lol its not only the female species that are being abused.

I'm always watching LAW & ORDER: SVU, just to understand the type of things that goes on. This type of stuff. Little boys are being r/aped, what's even worse is that ppl dont pay attention to it because they expect the despoil to happen to the little girls.


1. Anytime you let your children out of your site, always ask them questions. . . . not directly tho. [Sth like, "So what did you and uncle do?" or "what did you and 'so-so' play and where did you play"?]

2. CHECK for any signs of abnormality on their body. Mothers should ALWAYS check for those signs unless he's a single father.

3. Encourage your child to talk. Learn to listen, learn to learn from them.

4.Let them demonstrate any NEW game they've learned that day

5. Watch for any abnormal physical and mental expression [like flinching/ eyes down/etc/]

6. Watch for any physical change [change in the way they walk or pain when they piss]

7. TALK TO YOUR CHILD

8. Teach them the safety rules.

i know boys are also molested and despoiled but females are the usual victims. good tips btw

FL Gators:

Shame. She shouldnt have tipped him off. Women should learn to controlt heir anger in this type of situation.
I cant promise that I wouldnt have gone back home to stab him tho.

Ebony, god knows i would have done worst. a mad woman would be calmer than me i swear. this kind of things are very uncontrollable at that moment. i dont really think any mom would at that moment control her frustration especially when it wasnt something she was previously aware of.

i mean, its very hard to control the anger, disappointment, sadness a woman would feel to know that her own husband who she lives in the same house with, sleeps with etc is molesting their child,his daughter and she wasnt aware of it. i mean, this kind of things, makes you question your parenting ability esp as a mother, who should at least have noticed a cue. but i dont think he will hide for too long

2nd man----started molesting his female relative(FR) when he was 8 and she was 5. this dirty sick man molested her untill he was 20 and she was 17



how it started: according to him, his FR and him were home and watching a cartoon when he saw her va[i]g[/i]ina. she wasnt wearing any pant and was sitting in a 'comprising position'. so, being curious by what he saw, he asked her whether he can touch her there and i will show you mine(his sick prick) and thats where it all started.

it fully progressed to full body touching, her vgaina, and chest and oral copulation(he was around 12/13 when he manipulated her to orally copulate him). and finally it reached to full vaginal penetration. he said one of his friends as a joke gave him a condom(14/15yrs old at this time) and he used it to R[i]A[/i]PE HER while she was 10/11yrs

one day while he was molesting her on her bed, her mother walked in and saw him getting out of the her bed and she asked him what was going on, he said "i was giving her a goodnight snuggle" she thought it was very weird but he completely denied it.

she finally broke her silent and got a boyfriend told him that she was molested thats how the idiot got caught.


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my goodness, he molested this poor girl for a whooping 12 freaking goodness me years am more angry than pissed off .

You all should find answers to your questions at www.childcarebay..com

It's got all the questions you konw and answers to those that you don't!

3rd sick man story. molested 3 girls, his first victim when he was 18, she was 12

brb

~Sissy~:

2nd man----started molesting his female relative(FR) when he was 8 and she was 5. this dirty sick man molested her untill he was 20 and she was 17



how it started: according to him, his FR and him were home and watching a cartoon when he saw her va[i]g[/i]ina. she wasnt wearing any pant and was sitting in a 'comprising position'. so, being curious by what he saw, he asked her whether he can touch her there and i will show you mine(his sick prick) and thats where it all started.

it fully progressed to full body touching, her vgaina, and chest and oral copulation(he was around 12/13 when he manipulated her to orally copulate him). and finally it reached to full womanly penetration. he said one of his friends as a joke gave him a condom(14/15yrs old at this time) and he used it to R[i]A[/i]PE HER while she was 10/11yrs

one day while he was molesting her on her bed, her mother walked in and saw him getting out of the her bed and she asked him what was going on, he said "i was giving her a goodnight snuggle" she thought it was very weird but he completely denied it.

she finally broke her silent and got a boyfriend told him that she was molested thats how the got caught.


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my goodness, he molested this poor girl for a whooping 12 freaking goodness me years am more angry than pissed off .

See oppression, oyinbo no go finish for thread Not to worry, just you wait till i finish the "eze goes to school" i've been reading for the past 7 years, just 3 chapters to go, and i will be on this thread too denge-posing and denge-dazzling with my command of English lingua franca, you will see, you shall see





@ Tgirl

I is not a lost cause yet, aiight Lets blame the full moon for this one time slip-up of my renowned lucidity

Let me guess, Iyalode, you just discovered that smiley abi? I see that you've been using it on every thread.

How you? Omo mi nko? Se e n fun loyan daada [that oyan sef wey look like surf board]

FL Gators:

Let me guess, Iyalode, you just discovered that smiley abi? I see that you've been using it on every thread.

How you? Omo mi nko? Se e n fun loyan daada [that oyan sef wey look like surf board]

What utter disresket How dare you call my dunlop slippers blom blom a surf board, berra go modify that before i open my eyes and

gud opinion (michelin 89)

who do you advice/tell your kid to go to if she mistakenly goes missing while with you in the mall/market or any other crowed place/event?

~Sissy~:



who do you advice/tell your kid to go to if she mistakenly goes missing while with you in the mall/market or any other crowed place/event?

check out counter. . .where else?

netotse:

check out counter. . .where else?

In a market? Counter? Impossible.
At a mall, it might work.

~Sissy~:



who do you advice/tell your kid to go to if she mistakenly goes missing while with you in the mall/market or any other crowed place/event?

At a mall, go to a counter, like netotse said. Then find the nearest security guard and tell him what happened.


Then call the cops IMMEDIATELY.

Dont they have one of those GPS chips for kids. Hide one in the shirt lapel or in their bracelet. I know I'm def getting one of that.

Hello, Champie . didnt see you earlier forgot my glasses

Busy_body:

See oppression, oyinbo no go finish for thread Not to worry, just you wait till i finish the "eze goes to school" i've been reading for the past 7 years, just 3 chapters to go, and i will be on this thread too denge-posing and denge-dazzling with my command of English lingua franca, you will see, you shall see

. you dis woman

at this young age, i prefer her to go to a mother with a little kids and tell her i lost my mommy or am looking for my mommy etc i believe being a mother herself with little kids, she will have that "mothers instinct" in her to help get her help. esp in those crowded mall/places(no  trust ppl this days)but god help me, the day it will ever happen i will be madder than a mad woman, that plus, having a double heart attack, tripled with instant stroke. thats the day Jesus will be doing his second coming . but when she is grown to a certain age, we head the other direction.

might sound ridiculous and crazy but pardon me yall at least i would be more than willing to do it for another mother/parent/guardian/person/man/woman/ and what have you

Ebony, i like the idea of the GPS tracking thing. sounds good and effective


[size=4pt]we never finished our discussion on child sexual abuse[/size]

~Sissy~:

at this young age, i prefer her to go to a mother with a little kids and tell her i lost my mommy or am looking for my mommy etc i believe being a mother herself with little kids, she will have that "mothers instinct" in her to help get her help. esp in those crowded mall/places(no  trust ppl this days)but god help me, the day it will never happen i will be madder than a mad woman, that plus, having a double heart attack, tripled with instant stroke. thats the day Jesus will be doing his second coming . but when she is grown to a certain age, we head the other direction.

pardon me yall

I agree with you. . . but I'm quite worried. How do you describe a "mother"to a lil kid?

1. A woman with a child
2. A grown woman?

Not every woman has maternal instincts, not every woman has a clean intent. What if she's a criminal or a kidnapper? And let me be honest, if a lost child comes to me, the first thing I'd do is find the nearest official or customer service to report a missing child. I, of course, will stay with the lost child until a parent comes by. So with that, I'd just tell my kid to find a customer service table or go and find one of those mall officials.

Ileke-IdI:

I agree with you. . .  but I'm quite worried. How do you describe a "mother"to a lil kid?

1. A woman with a child
2. A grown woman?

Not every woman has maternal instincts, not every woman has a clean intent. What if she's a criminal or a kidnapper? And let me be honest, if a lost child comes to me, the first thing I'd do is find the nearest official or customer service to report a missing child. I, of course, will stay with the lost child until a parent comes by. So with that, I'd just tell my kid to find a customer service table or go and find one of those mall officials.

@  1 bold:

of course the whole idea is for her to help find her find help, call the police or CS.

@ 2bold:

if its a crowed heavy place and also depending on the age of the child, she/him might have a hard time finding the CS or police and might fall in into the wrong heavy hand

preparing ahead for the unexpected unknown, i will tell/show those things. i know not every woman has those instinct, but having little kid/child yourself and  seeing a little child coming to you or roaming around looking a-little lost, you will get that feeling something is wrong because you will somehow imagine your kid/s in that same "lost" position, i mean there are certain fear/emotions IMHO, most mothers cue in on. not that i am placing too many trust on mothers out there, there are crazies/zombies masquerading around quite alright but if she never gets missed up with me, i pray she find the "good kind" Lol

~Sissy~:

@  1 bold:

of course the whole idea is for her to help find her find help, call the police or CS.

So what happened to "DO NOT TALK TO STRANGERS. DO NOT GO ANYWHERE WITH STRANGERS. DO NOT TAKE ANYTHING FROM STRANGERS". I hate to be a kid following a rule with so much exceptions that the kid wouldnt know when to apply an exception and when to ignore it.

~Sissy~:

@ 2bold:

if its a crowed heavy place and also depending on the age of the child, she/him might have a hard time finding the CS or police and might fall in into the wrong heavy hand

preparing ahead for the unexpected unknown, i will tell/show those things. i know not every woman has those instinct, but having little kid/child yourself and  seeing a little child coming to you or roaming around looking a-little lost, you will get that feeling something is wrong because you will somehow imagine your kid/s in that same "lost" position, i mean there are certain fear/emotions IMHO, most mothers cue in on. not that i am placing too many trust on mothers out there, there are crazies/zombies masquerading around quite alright but if she never gets missed up with me, i pray she find the "good kind" Lol

@ 1st bolded, true that. I complained about that in my previous replies.

@2nd bolded; Yes, you can prepare ahead of time. However, a good preschool/ kindergarten should be able to prepare a child for all this. Like familiarizing a KG with legal uniform [such as police, security guard, firefighter's uniform] and when to or when not to follow a stranger.
I get you sha, I also pray he finds the "good kind". My aunt knows anything there is to know about children and technologies, I'd def will be asking her if there's a recent GPS locator out there that can be sown into a kid's shoe, shirt, undies etc

Ileke-IdI:

So what happened to "DO NOT TALK TO STRANGERS. DO NOT GO ANYWHERE WITH STRANGERS. DO NOT TAKE ANYTHING FROM STRANGERS". I hate to be a kid following a rule with so much exceptions that the kid wouldnt know when to apply an exception and when to ignore it.

not all strangers are bad na, sometimes this same strangers save live too . but i do understand your concern though however, in this situation, i still prefer a mother with little kids.

@2nd bolded; Yes, you can prepare ahead of time. However, a good preschool/ kindergarten should be able to prepare a child for all this. Like familiarizing a KG with legal uniform [such as police, security guard, firefighter's uniform] and when to or when not to follow a stranger.
I get you sha, I also pray he finds the "good kind". My aunt knows anything there is to know about children and technologies, I'd def will be asking her if there's a recent GPS locator out there that can be sown into a kid's shoe, shirt, undies etc

you can prepare but then again in a very crowd and busy place, looking up and searching for a certain uniform might prove abortive

i like the idea of those GP tracking thing though

you can prepare but then again in a very crowd and busy place, looking up and searching for a certain uniform might prove abortive

Ah true that.

By the age of 6, I propose to have my children strapped with cell phones. . . or a walkie talkie while we're apart.
To prevent a "Lost and Found" situation, simply use a stroller or a cart in a crowded place.

Ileke-IdI:

Ah true that.

By the age of 6, I propose to have my children strapped with cell phones. . . or a walkie talkie while we're apart.
To prevent a "Lost and Found" situation, simply use a stroller or a cart in a crowded place.

6 i think is too young for a cello or walkie sef but thats just me. GPS might be a better idea

~Sissy~:

6 i think is too young for a cello or walkie sef but thats just me. GPS might be a better idea

Not giving them the cell to use constantly. Just for those moment. Abeg, at 6, my lil sis knew ho to use th phone. If you're worried about their cell phone knowledge, put your number on speed dial, so all they need to do is press *2* and call.
Yea, GPS is a great idea, but who knows how much it costs.

So it is the one behind the ibebe-idi moniker



@ Topic

Yes

Just tell me you've missed me and let's call it a day

@ Ebony. i like this one


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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cgae7sWhy3Y&hl=en_US&fs=1[/flash]

Busy_body:

So it is the one behind the ibebe-idi moniker



@ Topic

Yes

Yes on what Lol

~Sissy~:

Yes on what Lol

Act like you didnt see that. Na too much palmwine cause am See as she called me"it"

~Sissy~:

@ Ebony. i like this one


[flash=400,400]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cgae7sWhy3Y&hl=en_US&fs=1[/flash]

Yea, this is a great Idea. I like.

~Sissy~:

Yes on what Lol

What's funny I can read and I have perfect 40/20 vision too This thread topic asks "Is it the parent's right to bring up a child" and i answered in the affirmative "YES" to show you showoffs that I have a brain and I know something too, so please stop hating and let me revel in the spotlight too Its my time to shine HATER You need glasses because you have been answering the thread incorrectly from page one, no make that goggles


Now if you will excuse me, this sharp brain and sharp eyes of mine is needed elsewhere on nairaland



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aIN'T kuku talking to no one

ibebe-idi owanbe

ROTFLMAO!!!!

Seriously, I wonder sometimes