Imagine a life where friends and family only care about you on the days u look good, God forbid u fall sick everyone starts acting like ur a disease. They run away from ur presence like u are a plague, but say u get well and start looking good again they all come and start playing with u and then u just start having so much hate towards them cuz u start seeing their love for u as only tied to u looking good and u start feeling like ur just an object to these people and trust me it hurts so much. Do u think anyone truly loves me cuz when im not okay they never care about me

do they love you? NO! Do you love them? NO! Thus if u love them u won't start hating on as u claimed regardless of thier flaws.