So it was reported in the media today that Nigeria’s most controversial actress, Tonto Dikeh has gotten married. Some Ladies are complaining saying that how come it is the bad Tonto that is getting married to the good rich man while the ‘good’ actresses like Empress Njama, Bimbo Akintola, Ebube Nwagbo and more are still in the market.

They say she is a bad girl with loose morals. She jumps from one man to another, she snatched Iyanya from Yvonne Nelson, left Don Jazzy to D’banj. Dated Micheal Awujoola and dumped him. So how come the bad once are getting married. well here are a few things about ‘bad girls’ that should be useful to you if you want to get a good guy.
‘Bad girls’ have well developed social skills. They wear the right clothes, shoes and know how to connect in social settings. I met some ladies a few years ago and I asked them what they were doing for the weekend. They said ‘nothing.’ I reminded them that a good man won’t come looking for them in their bedroom. From the look on their faces, I am sure they understood what I meant.
‘Bad girls’ have well developed emotional intelligence. Some of you very ‘spiritual’ sisters will be disappointed to know that a man is NOT interested in your spirituality as much as he claims to be. Sure, he wants a spiritual lady in his life, but he also has emotional needs. It is the lady who meets those emotional needs who will end up winning his heart.
Emotional intelligence is your ability to connect emotionally with a man. It has nothing to do with your intellect, educational qualifications, your social status or even your physical beauty. There are ladies who are not physically attractive but men are all over them. Why? It’s simply because they understand how to touch the emotional centres of a man’s soul. When you connect with a man emotionally, the rest is easy. Read more at http://judithfrank..com/2015/08/why-do-bad-girls-like-tonto-dikeh-get.html

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And have you personally found out that she's indeed a bag girl?

Well first of all, she is really beautiful. Even in the days when she was still struggling

She seems like a very friendly but fiery person. So she will always have interesting situations happening in her life because of her attitude

Its like she doesn't allow herself to get dragged down by things that she has done or that have already happened to her. So it doesn't really matter because she doesn't place too much importance on it even if other people do

Lastly she doesn't seem to care what anybody thinks of her, which is a very liberating quality. Once you can achieve that mindset its much easier to go for what you want and succeed

I really hail her anyway for managing to get that guy, because people were starting to turn on her for not marrying in time so it looks like they will have to find something else to say

Cuz she's light skinned * in Mrcork's voice**

Jacksparrow0712:
Cuz she's light skinned * in Mrcork's voice**

Choi

Hmm idk

you better be light skinned or

Gurgle:


Choi

Rich guy,yes......good guy,maybe.....maybe not.

And who told you tonto dike is a bad girl?she might have bad habits but could have a good heart and be loyal to her man.Not all these so called “good girls” whom you find out when you come close to them are wolves in sheep clothing,slow poisons etc.And I think the media has also potrayed Tonto in a bad light too.

cos they go to places poor pple cant afford to go...how on earth will they meet poor pple?

Bad belle

And who told you he's a good guy? If he were that good, he won't he getting married a second time abandoning his first wife.

Jacksparrow0712:
Cuz she's light skinned * in Mrcork's voice**

Na ur mouth I hia ds one ooo
Naim make of dem dey rub toothpaste as cream

firstEVA:
And who told you he's a good guy? If he were that good, he won't he getting married a second time abandoning his first wife.

Oh,so he's been married before?I just questioned his being a good guy.

Op i gat 3 questions for U....................
1. How do u rate a gal as bad or good...just cuz u read some stuff online? How ar u sure of d kind of life those other actress u claim to be good live personally.
2. Who told u the guy tonto married is a 'good' man?
3. When did marriage become a lady's reward for being good or well mannered.....so any lady wit good manners should automatically get a good husband abi?

Who told U the guy is good
Just because he puts a ring on it dont make him a saint

Jacksparrow0712:
you better be light skinned or

chocolate coloured

No way! I only echoed Mrcork's sentiment

wordbank:

Na ur mouth I hia ds one ooo
Naim make of dem dey rub toothpaste as cream

Oh! Pakistanis like em chocolate

Gurgle:


chocolate coloured

Jacksparrow0712:
Oh! Pakistanis like em chocolate

what ??

Paki people. They like chocolate girls

Gurgle:


what ??

Jacksparrow0712:
Paki people. They like chocolate girls

lol, and so? I should go and find one?

Something like that. Or let one find you

Gurgle:


lol, and so? I should go and find one?

Jacksparrow0712:
No way! I only echoed Mrcork's sentiment

I no know weda black gehs dey stain dat guy skin
Lmao

Hehehehehehehe. Funny enough, he's dark skinned

But he said he's had bitter experience with black skinned girl that he was so depressed even had to give suicide a thought

wordbank:

I no know weda black gehs dey stain dat guy skin
Lmao

Jacksparrow0712:
Hehehehehehehe. Funny enough, he's dark skinned

But he said he's had bitter experience with black skinned girl that he was so depressed even had to give suicide a thought

[i]Shiat happens!
Whites r more loving but less tolerant [/i]

It's all crap bro. Colour has nuff to do with individual. It's all about who she is

wordbank:

[i]Shiat happens!
Whites r more loving but less tolerant [/i]

Rubbish,who told u the guy is a good guy

Jacksparrow0712:
It's all crap bro. Colour has nuff to do with individual. It's all about who she is

who she is is shaped by her culture and environment