|Join Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New|
Stats: 2,056,100 members, 4,425,032 topics. Date: Tuesday, 21 August 2018 at 07:06 PM
|This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by franchasng(m): 2:23pm On Mar 21|
Hey ladies and gents, I am here to reveal to you, some of the major reasons rich guys marry rich ladies.
This thread is not talking about some classless guys who by chance or luck or whatever reason stumbled upon big money not really wealth per se because wealth comes with persistent gathering of riches with years.
So before you read further, note that Yahoo boys and their likes are not rich by my own standard!
Truly rich guys don't and will never marry a poor or broke lady, and you know why
1. Their Daily Activities Run Opposite Direction:
In as much as majority of women wish, desire and daydream of getting married to a rich guy, many won't achieve this not because they are not pretty and sexy, but because their daily activities does not match with the daily activities of rich guys, which makes it highly impossible or let me say, difficult for rich guys to get to see them often.
For instance, Paddy Adenuga who we all know is a rich guy, wakes up, prepares and heads straight to his office to start the day's business activities, where he will be probably be meeting with other top company CEOs, directors, top bank marketing executives, brand ambassadors, etc, and maybe during lunch, he drives down to his usual lunch spot at maybe Lagos Atlantic or any other top class restaurant to have his lunch, and probably heads back to his office from there to continue meeting with other top executives and business gurus in his field.
While he is doing all these....Folake, a very pretty girl who has been daydreaming of marrying a rich guy like Paddy Adenuga is at home with her phone logging in from Instagram to Facebook to Snapchat to Badoo to Twitter, changing her best photoshopped and filtered photos hoping to catch one rich guy that will end up marrying her.
Folake refuses to get busy with a career or business that will increase her chances of meeting potential successful guys.
Advice to Folake:
Start a business and be dedicated to it, or get a job, if you can't get one, learn a trade, something like fashion designing, etc, maybe from there, you might get to make a dress that Paddy Adenuga's sister or niece likes and from there, she makes you her regular designer and gets to introduce you to her family members and you may probably get to meet Paddy Adenuga or other of his rich brothers and cousins who may probably fall for your beauty haven get to see you as a dedicated, hardworking, pretty fashion designer and not just a usual fine girl they come across everyday and possibly chop and clean mouth
126 Likes 13 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by franchasng(m): 2:31pm On Mar 21|
2. Their Parents Won't Allow Them to Marry Broke Ladies!
My brothers and sisters, haven suffered so much and later you are able to climb out of that poverty hole, believe me, you will never wanna go back there, neither would you want your children, grandchildren and even siblings to go back there, never!
This is why rich men fix marriage for their sons and daughters to also marry sons and daughters of their fellow rich friends. It is as easy as that, and please don't blame them....blame Mr. Poverty for showing them pepper while poor
By chance, some rich guys, guys especially do come across ladies from broke or poor family background they wish to marry, but most often, these dream gets murdered by their parents who will go extramile to ensure their children dare not make the mistake of marrying a broke lady, its sad, but that's the reality, so if you are a broke lady and you are dating a rich guy, my sister....don't rejoice yet because the doomsday will come...that day he will present you to his family and everyone is like....who is she? what does she do for a living? who is her dad? which school did she finished from?
Don't give up....in every rule, there is always an exception and who said yours can't be the very few exceptions Please don't forget to send me your wedding invitation so I can at least come chow some free chicken and still go home with free wedding box gift, Fatima Dangote's wedding comes to mind
34 Likes 7 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by lefulefu(m): 2:36pm On Mar 21|
Most wealthy people prefer marrying from their class. It prevents the tendency to hook up with a chronic hungry gold digger.
136 Likes 3 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 2:37pm On Mar 21|
13 Likes 7 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by franchasng(m): 2:45pm On Mar 21|
3. Most Broke Ladies Have Disgusting Mentality & Money Attitude That Repel Successful Guys!
How do you explain the life of a lady who is so fixated on her mobile phone chatting with every Dick and Tom trying to hook up to the extent it becomes her habit, such that even while she is still with Jesus Christ, she will still be looking for the Savior
You are with a very promising young man on a date or something, but you are busy chatting and smiling with some unknown Yahoo boys living in Malaysia or some Janitors living in California, who only dresses up after his Janitor work and rushes to pose in front of McDonalds to snap some cool pix and tag it: Lunch Time! Ah my sister, you have joined bad gang
Due to chronic poverty and years of suffering, most ladies' mentality has been raped front and back, they believe taking them to shopping denotes true love and buying them the latest iPhone means you will marry them, ah ah....is that how you used to do Aunty me
Men generally don't like spending much on the lady they truly want to settle with because they know that whatever they have belongs to her, so whats the need trying to impress with what she will still get to enjoy to the fullest
Most times, men spend lavishly when they want a lady; probably a new catch to open legs lavishly and very fast at that, so they use heavy spending within a twinkle of an eye to blind her reasoning and before she knows it, she is screaming....daddy ejoor, egbami o
Most broke ladies want to live Davica Daloca lifestyle at the expense of some mumu guys, and with time, this becomes their way of life, which repels successful young men they want to marry
73 Likes 6 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by StarBukola(f): 2:48pm On Mar 21|
Is that all ?
3 Likes 2 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by franchasng(m): 3:07pm On Mar 21|
4. Being Financially Dependent or A Liability is Not Romantic!
Forget the Yahoo boys who just jam money by chance or crook, hence, their broke guy mentality or poverty mentality is still in them, which makes them run back to their class of ladies....
Truly rich guys and those from rich family backgrounds have been groomed to respect money...they have grown to understand that being financially productive is a major quality every human must possess....for this reason, they tend to dislike people who depend so much on them financially or those who keep running after them for money and material favor....this is one reason many men start keeping distance from their old time friends once they become financially successful.
If you want to sustain your friendship with anybody in life, try not to be a liability to them, especially financial liability or else, they will flee from you no matter how rich they are.
Try and be contributing something meaningful to your rich friends if you want them to stick around you for long or else, they will flee from you.
So as a lady, if you want that rich guy to stay for long and possibly consider you for marriage, then you must stop being a financial burden always begging for one favour or the other....rich guys are so used to people begging them for money and favour, so you being his girlfriend or lover, you are not supposed to become another financial liability to him, or else, you will start to become unattractive to him
90 Likes 6 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by swiz123(m): 3:10pm On Mar 21|
Rich guys have the mindset that all poor ladies are gold diggers, and to some extent, I agree with them in that regard.
Sadly, this mindset of theirs won't change when ladies or rather gold diggers Like theupsetgirl still roams this forum
19 Likes 1 Share
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by franchasng(m): 3:14pm On Mar 21|
5. Broke Ladies Are Very Difficult To Please!
Contrary to what many guys believe, rich ladies are easy to please unlike the broke ladies.
A rich lady may gush over a rose flower you got for her, but a broke lady will never do that but will only be pleased when you buy her reigning expensive clothe or gadget, and this mentality of broke ladies unknowingly to them, distracts rich guys.
A rich guy out of love may feel getting his broke girlfriend a rose flower or something like that as bday present, and to his greatest surprise, the lady was expecting the latest iphone or even a car which she may unknowingly show, and end up making the guy cancel her from his top list of would be
138 Likes 11 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by franchasng(m): 3:15pm On Mar 21|
swiz123:This point is coming sir
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by franchasng(m): 3:23pm On Mar 21|
6. What The Society Will Say!
Against all odds, some rich guys who by nature's making fell deeply in love with broke ladies end up not marrying the broke ladies simply because of what people will say, what his rich friends will say, and what the society in general will say.
It is not that easy for a truly rich and famous young man to marry a poor lady he picked from nowhere, the odds of it happening in today world is very slim.
Especially now that we have social media broadcasting every single step we take in life, most rich guys hate negative media because it may affect their business, career or family reputation and political image.
24 Likes 1 Share
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by horlahsunbo225(m): 3:24pm On Mar 21|
You nail it bro
4 Likes 1 Share
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by franchasng(m): 3:41pm On Mar 21|
7. Rich Guys Believe Broke Ladies Are Gold Diggers!
This we all know is a fallacy of hasty generalisation, but the world in general live by fallacies of generalisation and nobody can change it.
Again, majority of broke ladies are truly gold diggers and this unhealthy attitude of most have ruined the chances of broke ladies getting married to rich guys.
In developed countries like USA, Canada, UK, Germany, France, Japan, Australia, Spain, Switzerland, etc, you can never see a rich guy getting married to a poor lady because they don't want the lady to later divorce them and file for child support and alimony, which usually runs into hundreds and millions of hard currencies.
So in the western world, laws and policies helped in stopping rich guys from marrying broke ladies and in Africa, gold digging, hungry attitude, pressure from the poor girl's family are part of the reasons rich guys avoid marrying broke ladies.
I think broke, average and semi average ladies have a big task to change this bad mentality successful men have about them for things to change for good in future.
26 Likes 1 Share
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by MhizzAJ(f): 3:48pm On Mar 21|
2 Likes 3 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by Papanwamaikpe: 4:05pm On Mar 21|
True. I can't and will never marry a broke lady. God forbid!!! You must be not less than 22, tall, slim, fair and rich!!!
38 Likes 1 Share
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by franchasng(m): 4:06pm On Mar 21|
Papanwamaikpe:ewo, wahala de o
8 Likes 1 Share
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by planetx13: 4:06pm On Mar 21|
I dunno why it is paining some people above me..... (trash) (rubbish)... the simple truth remains that no guy wants a liability no matter how rich you think he is...... o wait o let me even ask, so you want to go clubbing, partying ,sleep with all the men you know their names for chicken and chips and then when you are done , one rich guy (after sweating and hustling) will come and be drooling over you... in fact you deserve a 'made in Russia ' slap. I say it and keep saying it .... any WOMAN that wants money should go and work for it..... get off your lazy a.ss and go hustle..... NOBODY owes you nothing
161 Likes 20 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by Oyindidi(f): 4:09pm On Mar 21|
That rich guy never meet a poor girl him love.
4 Likes 6 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by Ahmed0336(m): 4:16pm On Mar 21|
Hmmmm No Comment.
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by Nobody: 5:42pm On Mar 21|
True words there.
Most broke ladies have a false sense of entitlement which no sane man will want to associate with.
36 Likes 2 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by ImaIma1(f): 6:52pm On Mar 21|
No 4 very true. They are irritated by people that always ask for money
5 is also true. Ladies from poor background who are trying to mingle are hard to please. They are the ones who come up with stupid yardsticks and standards
47 Likes 5 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by Jeferious: 7:36pm On Mar 21|
That class difference between a broke girl and a rich guy is the reason why he won't marry her most of the time. Most rich people are very class-conscious.
Forget G-Boys. There is a world of difference between swag and class. Classic rich people don't throw money away unnecessarily just to impress.
46 Likes 1 Share
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by themaestro08: 7:48pm On Mar 21|
of all the ladies that commented, only 1 was objective, the other bloody idiots were quite pained. Modaf**king feminist, to hell with u all.
30 Likes 3 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by Nutase: 8:04pm On Mar 21|
Where is the sense in that post
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by adetoroamos(m): 8:31pm On Mar 21|
guy u r rit ooo, bfr I bcm a CEO my mentality is to just marry any girl that is beautiful but now even if u r ugly and you get future I will have your hand marriage rather than date poor girl that she's beautiful. I will only date my level now. I will be making my money and you too will be making yours.
37 Likes 2 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by Tonytonex(m): 8:38pm On Mar 21|
Oyindidi:What's love? it's overated.
28 Likes 2 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by adetoroamos(m): 8:42pm On Mar 21|
Tonytonex:very overated my bro.. there is one of my str bro that married recently and every body was like why will this handsome bro marry this ugly girl, him just tell us she's pilot. my code now is if I wan toast any babe. I will ask her maybe she's done with her study if no then I will free her. it doesn't pay dating a student, 2ndly I will ask her what's her plan if she no get any plan I will just free her jejely.
67 Likes 3 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by Tonytonex(m): 8:55pm On Mar 21|
adetoroamos:You re a correct bros.
25 Likes 1 Share
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by franchasng(m): 9:16pm On Mar 21|
adetoroamos:Its mostly money-miss-road guys and Yahoo boys and all those guys that just stumbled upon money that marry anyhow...their only criteria is...is she beautiful...does she have big breast and big bumbum Once she has these momentary features, boom, they fix wedding, and few years down the line, they are back on the street hustling because money isn't entering again like before and wifey is a leech who stays at home 24hrs watching Telemundo, BBN and waiting for hubby to bring in millions and buy her new car gifts while she does nothing but watch TV and gossip....only mumu guys follow these past useless trend....
Marry with your head and your children and generation won't suffer for your mistake
81 Likes 5 Shares
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by Heavance(m): 10:31pm On Mar 21|
franchasng:This one nailed it
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by ruggedtimi(m): 10:42pm On Mar 21|
most rich girls are guilty of all these points. The Koko is try and have a positive attitude and less f*ckng here there. Get a job not matter how small or even start a legit business not matter how small
5 Likes 1 Share
|Re: This Is Why Rich Guys Don't Marry Poor Ladies by Biglittlelois(f): 2:29pm On Jun 13|
I notice that the so called rich guys that are choosy were once dirt poor who suddenly have a stupid entitlement forgeting that those from humble background will one day become wealthy, Bill gates, Mark of Facebook etc were not born rich, they married from humble background.
19 Likes 2 Shares
|Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health |
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket
Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2018 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 163