TheMoonChild:
Mizmycoli asa nwa oma, nwa nlecha babym!! Oyoyo nwa, tomato jos m, asim kam troway salute for your dp, nothing do you baby girl, imaka jare yes ooo

MizMyColi:





Nne Nne o!!
You know you inspire naa.

I so Love you behbeh!!
I don't care about the 14 years agitators

Kimoni:

3 years without work plus full pay
All hail equality!!!!!





Somebody collect that bottle from Chillisauce

Kimoni:
Oh Lordy Lord
See what we've done to this thread

Mizmycoli - I am soo sorry.

cococandy:
Actually chillisauce is right.
It's only because people misunderstand or should I say deliberately refuse to understand feminism when feminists talk, otherwise it's easy to see that those those parts she highlighted have everything to do with it.

The thing is nairaland feminist talks never end well so mizmycoli if you have to call or another name to preach the same message, no qualms.

I still dey your back.

So far the message carries on.

Chillis:


My dear check am now, she has a name for it. Tête a tête

Opoko.

Make una dey Dia dey shout I'm not a feminist.
E no concern moi.
I'm reaping the friut of feminism.
3yrs maternity leave with pay!

All hail feminism .

If na Nigeria you carry belly, the next thing you will see its sack letter.

TWah!

cococandy:
Actually chillisauce is right.
It's only because people misunderstand or should I say deliberately refuse to understand feminism when feminists talk, otherwise it's easy to see that those those parts she highlighted have everything to do with it.

The thing is nairaland feminist talks never end well so mizmycoli if you have to call or another name to preach the same message, no qualms.

I still dey your back.

So far the message carries on.

Kimoni:
Cococandy, you don shift gear for reverse

babygirlfl:


Lets face it cococandy if you don't understand something , you ask. You don't go round condemning something you don't understand and talking about it in a derogatory way and making baseless accusations and generalisations. Then go around trying to cause a fight thereafter.

People deliberating refuse to see when feminism has everything to do with it the call feminism when it has nothing to do with it.

cococandy:
I've not seen mizmycoli cussing or being derogatory towards feminists. As far as I can tell.

Kimoni:


I smell cowards...too tired to face you directly but bold enough for snidal remarks. Low self-esteem issues of the highest level

Babygirlfl, you wanna quote me directly or mention me, let's get this dusted? I see you have not recovered from the last one

babygirlfl:


It's not mizmycoli am talking about. I actually like her post. It's the "non feminists" in this thread who wanted to stir a fight but mizmycoli did not buy it.

Kimoni:

I smell cowards...too tired to face you directly but bold enough for snidal remarks. Low self-esteem issues of the highest level
Babygirlfl, you wanna quote me directly or mention me, let's get this dusted? I see you have not recovered from the last one

Enoquin:
Beautiful! I wanted to open a thread about something like this but you beat me to it and rightly so because I procrastinated.

I love EnoQuin because it is only after I have loved her that I can truly love someone else. And yet it isn't a narcissistic kind where I believe myself above faults.

That is why it unsettles me when I see posts from ladies who believe it all begins and ends with a man. Yes, men have their value but so do women!

Loving your self is also valuing yourself and you will find that in doing that you subconsciously set a standard even for yourself.

[b]An example: I found out last year that whenever my bae came to town I served him/us better than I served myself. If it was a meal like eba. I'd bring the washing bowl, hand wash, hand wipe, put the plates in a tray, open the water and pour in a cup and then we'd both settle down to a meal.
But when I was alone, even though I ate little; I'd use a wide plate, put small eba on the plate. Put my soup plate on the space of the eba plate, neglecting the tray. Sometimes, I'd pick a bowl of water, other times I wash my hands at the sink. An haphazard sort of service. To me it didn't matter, it was me serving me.
But why should me serving me be worse than me serving anyone else? Did I regard others more than I did myself?
And so the change began. I starting serving myself as I would another I loved.[/b]

babygirlfl:


It's not mizmycoli am talking about. I actually like her post. It's the "non feminists" in this thread who wanted to stir a fight but mizmycoli did not buy it.

Kimoni:


You should be ashamed of yourself...you are a disgrace to women everwhere. This idiot cannot face a fellow woman like hersefl and she wants to face men? What are you scared of really that you want feminism to cure you off?

You better deal with your self-esteem issues cuz no movement will cure you of that. Mumucious fellow

babygirlfl:


Please kimoni, leave me alone. I have not insulted you and would not accept you insulting me. Please move on.

babygirlfl:


I am warning you for the very last time or you will regret what is coming to you. Leave me alone.

Kimoni:


Warning me? With your leprous hands or fingers? Which one of the above?

Bitter soul! Next time, you will learn not to carry over issues with me.

cococandy:

Oh wait.
She's a girl.

Lol.

My bad

A beautiful one sef
Lol.
Good evening.

I was going to reply posts where you mentioned me, but on seeing the posts on the thread, I changed gear.
Lols.

I'm glad you get my angle though.

Kimoni:
Oh Lordy Lord
See what we've done to this thread

Mizmycoli - I am soo sorry.

Ma'am, ejoor.
Biiko

Babygirlfl, bikoo, please.

I know how it can be and this is not a command.

I just want to appeal to your divine natures, to that sweet angelic part of you and @Kimoni.

Please let go.
You can rise above.
It is a choice we will all be better for

babygirlfl:


How dare you? Who do you think you are? You are a fool. You represent the word bitterness and hypocrisy is your name. You make mockery of the word woman and should be taken to the leprous home where you belong. I face women and not horrible low life creatures like you.

Kimoni:


Finally, the bastar.d grow some balls. What took you so long?

Just look at yourself and see how a single post has kept you in bondage for 4 days? See how you are being eaten up by a few words?
What did I even write that is eating up this idiot?

Can you see that you are a utter waste of space? You are useless in every sense of the word. Foo.l

cococandy:
My sister in law just recently lost her job in ecobank NIGERIA because she has a baby.
They don't have time for maternity leave. I don't know of it was because she's a contract staff or what.
Same thing with my aunty of late memory. (May she RIP.) She was sacked after she had a baby by the private company she was working for.

I just dey pity her ( that my sis-in-law) but she was the one advising me to curb my support for feminists as they have 'ruined' America.

I'm wondering what kind of security her anti-feminism has been able to achieve for Nigerian women.

Here you can't sack a woman because she had a baby. Pregnant and nursing feminists will come park in front of your company and you will be on the news for so long the damage control will make you grow white hair.

MizMyColi:


Ma'am, ejoor.
Biiko

Babygirlfl, bikoo, please.

I know how it can be and this is not a command.

I just want to appeal to your divine natures, to that sweet angelic part of you and @Kimoni.

Please let go.
You can rise above.
It is a choice we will all be better for

raumdeuter:
Has it occurred to some that a man has a lot of things going on in his mind at every point and is always under pressure to make things happen for his family

Imagine a man works round the clock, thinks of this that to make the family running and happy, he gets home next question you are not emotionally available

Should he just sit at home and be emotionally available while the house runs itself?