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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Agu87(m): 9:31am On Feb 19, 2016
CharlesNneji1:





Oh lord, you are so dull. Lol, just kidding.


We are not talking sex here and how to get it from hookers, we are talking attraction and real girls. Epic response

Look at it this way. Let's turn it around.




If a girl who like you, walks up to you and tells you she likes you. Let's assume it's perfectly normal for a girl to do that.



Then the next week, she starts sending you money every two days even though she is boring, she can't hold a conversation for long, she is too insecure. Will that make you fall in love with her.



Like, would you stay up all night thinking of her just because she gives you money or will you be glad you've met a mugu and start thinking how you will take advantage of her.


Saying that money gets love is just like saying that you will fall in love just because a girl gives you sex every time you ask for it.



Think of that. When you use money to go after a woman you become a mugu, not a lover. Attraction is way deeper than what money can buy


If you pay for sex, there are guys - just like you, who don't. They get it free of charge, hommie, just because they have skills.




People like you are the ones who console themselves that money will bring them love because they don't have the nerves or the skills to get the woman they like now. So they hope and pray that it will get all better when they get money.



My guy, with money - you are still the man you are. If you can't handle women, she will marry you with your money and have a guy who can handle a woman outside and then take that money you feel you have and be giving that guy.




But again, I'm sure you are a ladies' man now already with all your money. So don't mind me.



Cheers
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Agu87(m): 9:32am On Feb 19, 2016
CharlesNneji1:





Oh lord, you are so dull. Lol, just kidding.


We are not talking sex here and how to get it from hookers, we are talking attraction and real girls

Look at it this way. Let's turn it around.




If a girl who like you, walks up to you and tells you she likes you. Let's assume it's perfectly normal for a girl to do that.



Then the next week, she starts sending you money every two days even though she is boring, she can't hold a conversation for long, she is too insecure. Will that make you fall in love with her.



Like, would you stay up all night thinking of her just because she gives you money or will you be glad you've met a mugu and start thinking how you will take advantage of her.


Saying that money gets love is just like saying that you will fall in love just because a girl gives you sex every time you ask for it.



Think of that. When you use money to go after a woman you become a mugu, not a lover. Attraction is way deeper than what money can buy


If you pay for sex, there are guys - just like you, who don't. They get it free of charge, hommie, just because they have skills.




People like you are the ones who console themselves that money will bring them love because they don't have the nerves or the skills to get the woman they like now. So they hope and pray that it will get all better when they get money.



My guy, with money - you are still the man you are. If you can't handle women, she will marry you with your money and have a guy who can handle a woman outside and then take that money you feel you have and be giving that guy.




But again, I'm sure you are a ladies' man now already with all your money. So don't mind me.


Epic response to a clueless one
Cheers

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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Yehman(m): 10:24am On Feb 19, 2016
CharlesNneji1:
*phew, it's been long. I miss this section jare. Oya, Let's begin*


Come with me



What I am about to show you right now is one powerful psychological weapon.



As a matter of fact; this one thing I will show you now will dramatically improve your results with women and land them in your bed. That is, by practicing this seduction principle I’m about to show you, you would be able to effortlessly make girl want to have sex with you.




Why I’m I so sure about this? Simple – because I use these same secrets too. And they’ve always worked perfectly well for me and I’m sure it would work for you too.



Without wasting much time. No long story. Here is the secret.




PLAY HARD TO GET



Yes, you read that right. To get a woman to chase you, you have to play hard to get.




Did that confuse you? Don’t worry, I will explain. But first I will show you why playing hard to get works so well on girls, and why it can make her chase you.





Why Does Playing Hard To Get Work.




Let me tell you one main secret about women that most guys don’t know. That secret is that “Women Love A Man They Can’t Have”.




Take a moment to read that line again.




I want you to really get it. You see, when a guy is too easy for them and falls too easy or chase them shamelessly they don’t find him interesting. But when a guy is way above their level they become obsessed about him.




The problem why most guys get dumped by guys, the reason why a girl would never want to date you is if you become way too easy to get and way too easy to control.



Just check it out.



To make it clear, let me give you an instance.




Lets assume you asked a girl you just met today to be your girlfriend, and she agrees – almost immediately. Then in the evening of that same day, you ask for sex and she agrees without any argument. As in, she just resists a bit and then gives in.




Would you ever take that girl seriously?




Think about it. I can bet my last penny that you won’t. You will think she is cheap





Now, still on that same girl. she calls you everyday, she sends you love texts everyday, anytime you ask for sex she just gives in, when she sees you with other women she starts crying, she always tells you that you love her more than you tell her, she doesn’t date any other guy – just you.




Now take a moment to really think about it. Would you not get fed up with such girl fast. My bet is that you might enjoy the attention for two weeks then you will loose interest. I’m very sure about that.




IT HAPPENS THE SAME WAY WITH WOMEN

Don’t you get it?

Damn, I want you to get this.

If you are too easy for a woman, just like that girl in my example then no girl would ever take you seriously.




How do you become too easy; by always trying to impress her. By not standing up to yourself when she does something wrong. By not being funny during conversations. By being too careful not to offend her. By always calling her as if MTN pays you to call her. By begging her for sex. By making a girl become too sure how you feel about her. Etc etc.



See…




…Women want a man that they would fight to have. They want a man who is a Challenge. They want a man who is so unpredictable that they wonder to themselves “What does he really feel for me”




Now, most times many guys I have taught this starts becoming out rightly arrogant to women. I read somewhere online where one guy was saying that he practiced my strategy and started treating a girl harshly.





Now, get this straight – this is not about being arrogant. In fact, nobody likes an arrogant person. Not even girls. The secret is arrogance plus humor.





If you say; “You are fat”. That would be arrogant. But if you see; “You are now fat, my money is really going into all the right places in your body” then that is arrogance plus humor. That is what works.




Let me not digress.





We were talking about playing hard to get. If done well, this is what playing hard to get can do to a woman’s head…




At first it would shock her a little bit in a good way.



Then she would start seeing you as someone who is a challenge. This tricks her mind into thinking “What is he feeling like, I must get him to fall for me. Just to show him”




Then she would start trying to make you fall in love. She would start calling you more often, she would say some things to you to get you to like her.




But the more you play hard to get, the more she tries to make you fall in love with her. And before she knows it, she is chasing you without knowing she is chasing you. it always works. In Fact, using just this simple little trick I have made really pretty girls literary beg me for sex.




But there is an art to this. There is a way to do this well so it would really work



The question now is

How Is The Right Way To Play Hard To Get.

What should you do, how should you do it and when should you do it so you can actually make a girl chase you. What is the right way a man can play hard to get




Have an awesome day!


Bro, thanks for the info but the last time I checked "cash" did all this stuff for my guy. This is 21st century. The only language women understand is money...money...money....
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Nobody: 10:32am On Feb 19, 2016
Oboy! this post is true baje! i do it too. . .altho ion sleep wif em. . . i just play on them like my ex back then did to me. . . .read art of seduction.pdf. make them curious about you, make em think. withdraw from em nd get in again. you dnt nid cash, i tell u, just this strategy.

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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by 4C2215131: 10:46am On Feb 19, 2016
Stale , stale, stale. Get yourself some money and stop wasting your time on mind games!

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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Ghost447(m): 10:49am On Feb 19, 2016
CharlesNneji1:
*phew, it's been long. I miss this section jare. Oya, Let's begin*


Come with me



What I am about to show you right now is one powerful psychological weapon.



As a matter of fact; this one thing I will show you now will dramatically improve your results with women and land them in your bed. That is, by practicing this seduction principle I’m about to show you, you would be able to effortlessly make girl want to have sex with you.




Why I’m I so sure about this? Simple – because I use these same secrets too. And they’ve always worked perfectly well for me and I’m sure it would work for you too.



Without wasting much time. No long story. Here is the secret.




PLAY HARD TO GET



Yes, you read that right. To get a woman to chase you, you have to play hard to get.




Did that confuse you? Don’t worry, I will explain. But first I will show you why playing hard to get works so well on girls, and why it can make her chase you.





Why Does Playing Hard To Get Work.




Let me tell you one main secret about women that most guys don’t know. That secret is that “Women Love A Man They Can’t Have”.




Take a moment to read that line again.




I want you to really get it. You see, when a guy is too easy for them and falls too easy or chase them shamelessly they don’t find him interesting. But when a guy is way above their level they become obsessed about him.




The problem why most guys get dumped by guys, the reason why a girl would never want to date you is if you become way too easy to get and way too easy to control.



Just check it out.



To make it clear, let me give you an instance.




Lets assume you asked a girl you just met today to be your girlfriend, and she agrees – almost immediately. Then in the evening of that same day, you ask for sex and she agrees without any argument. As in, she just resists a bit and then gives in.




Would you ever take that girl seriously?




Think about it. I can bet my last penny that you won’t. You will think she is cheap





Now, still on that same girl. she calls you everyday, she sends you love texts everyday, anytime you ask for sex she just gives in, when she sees you with other women she starts crying, she always tells you that you love her more than you tell her, she doesn’t date any other guy – just you.




Now take a moment to really think about it. Would you not get fed up with such girl fast. My bet is that you might enjoy the attention for two weeks then you will loose interest. I’m very sure about that.




IT HAPPENS THE SAME WAY WITH WOMEN

Don’t you get it?

Damn, I want you to get this.

If you are too easy for a woman, just like that girl in my example then no girl would ever take you seriously.




How do you become too easy; by always trying to impress her. By not standing up to yourself when she does something wrong. By not being funny during conversations. By being too careful not to offend her. By always calling her as if MTN pays you to call her. By begging her for sex. By making a girl become too sure how you feel about her. Etc etc.



See…




…Women want a man that they would fight to have. They want a man who is a Challenge. They want a man who is so unpredictable that they wonder to themselves “What does he really feel for me”




Now, most times many guys I have taught this starts becoming out rightly arrogant to women. I read somewhere online where one guy was saying that he practiced my strategy and started treating a girl harshly.





Now, get this straight – this is not about being arrogant. In fact, nobody likes an arrogant person. Not even girls. The secret is arrogance plus humor.





If you say; “You are fat”. That would be arrogant. But if you see; “You are now fat, my money is really going into all the right places in your body” then that is arrogance plus humor. That is what works.




Let me not digress.





We were talking about playing hard to get. If done well, this is what playing hard to get can do to a woman’s head…




At first it would shock her a little bit in a good way.



Then she would start seeing you as someone who is a challenge. This tricks her mind into thinking “What is he feeling like, I must get him to fall for me. Just to show him”




Then she would start trying to make you fall in love. She would start calling you more often, she would say some things to you to get you to like her.




But the more you play hard to get, the more she tries to make you fall in love with her. And before she knows it, she is chasing you without knowing she is chasing you. it always works. In Fact, using just this simple little trick I have made really pretty girls literary beg me for sex.




But there is an art to this. There is a way to do this well so it would really work



The question now is

How Is The Right Way To Play Hard To Get.

What should you do, how should you do it and when should you do it so you can actually make a girl chase you. What is the right way a man can play hard to get




Have an awesome day!


You're behind time. Tell people how to improve their lives not how to get a woman. This post is meant for people without self confidence like you.

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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by danidee10(m): 11:10am On Feb 19, 2016
CharlesNneji1:



*smiles* When you called the post senseless I clicked your picture, saw your legs and wanted to say something not so nice about them but I changed my mind.



Just for others who might be thinking the same thing, I will address your question - just to make it clearer to them.



So here goes: the phrase "Play hard to get" was merely used to explain the general principle behind the article.



You don't just read to a point, stop and start pulling conclusions from your head. Learn to read, Bae, learn to read.



So, as you read down you will get to see that what I was trying to say was this:



"Men shouldn't be a push over when asking a girl out"



A man should treat a women the way a king should treat a queen and not the way a servant will treat a queen. That's the point.



You look a bit smart, so you should know that the way a man plays hard to get has to differ from the way a woman does.




That was what I explained in the part of the article you were too impatient to read.




@others - before you start playing hard to get, of course, you have to attract her first. Click my moniker and read my other articles to see how you can do this.


perfect example of your post...see as u correct dis girl head as she wan misbehave smiley...... Anytime they want to f up stand up to then and don't get walked over

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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by KINGOZEK(m): 11:28am On Feb 19, 2016
Reading the post with my 3d glasses... Go on and on...
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Pdizzle(m): 11:38am On Feb 19, 2016
Oga charles, you be chairman.

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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by swimcash(m): 12:02pm On Feb 19, 2016
SUGARBEE:


Didn't mean to offend and sorry if I did..

The attraction part comes first before what you posted above

Regardless, it was a great piece. . wink I apologize once again
thumbs ups girl, really love n appreciate wen a lady is humble......cheers
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Lovexme(m): 12:08pm On Feb 19, 2016
shulamitewoman:
Lol I pity d man dat will play hard 2get 4me..u are on ur own man..

You're displaying your pin on NL. If a brother adds you up, you'd start asking jamb questions undecided

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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Frankicent(m): 12:56pm On Feb 19, 2016




Guy. Ur stupid e book made me waste money in buying a girl present flowed all ur stupid steps d girl doesn't just like me she doesn't. U r a fool my guy. And I will deal with you... Bet it

lqkmd grin choi he force you make you buy the eBook? nah car you go buy for the gal next lolz
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by lightdotcom: 1:16pm On Feb 19, 2016
Submit whatever article you have to nairaland, and u will surprised there are always guys out there to run it down

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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by kosiebe(m): 1:17pm On Feb 19, 2016
make i drink my rooster

Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Nobody: 3:39pm On Feb 19, 2016
SirDorianGray:
Story.
All you need is to earn ja good living and have good hygiene.
You must be very neat to add the 'hygiene' part. Can't stand stinking guys; be it alcohol or cigarette or weed! cool
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by SirDorianGray(m): 4:22pm On Feb 19, 2016
Kath5kouture:

You must be very neat to add the 'hygiene' part. Can't stand stinking guys; be it alcohol or cigarette or weed! cool

Yes ooo, Hygiene is VERY important to me.
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by shulamitewoman(f): 4:36pm On Feb 19, 2016
Lovexme:


You're displaying your pin on NL. If a brother adds you up, you'd start asking jamb questions undecided
dude go and learn how 2talk to strangers b4 u approach dem..thanks
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by shulamitewoman(f): 4:47pm On Feb 19, 2016
oloyolo:
Lol I have been reading a lots of this type of comment, I don't know if I should say all of u are dumb Lol I didn't mean that, but seriously you all should try and read the rest of the post before Commenting. he just used those terms to generate traffic and controversy I mean look at the kind of attention it got.
that's actually a blogging strategy

I did not buy his book But I know what he actually means, this things are simple psychology that can be applied both In business

the thing about emotions is that they never make sense, we first feel them then back it up with logics

well I don't expect you to understand, thats y this things will keep working,
because some people never seem to understand it

however if you can pay me I will give you a private tutor, when we are done, you will be able control an Amy of men even if you are not pretty. the fixed price 2mill no bargain ooo, unless you are in Airforce1 fan club
all of us are dumb? like seriously?smh
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by aforti(m): 5:27pm On Feb 19, 2016
It's so funny how Nigerian men spend so much time trying to perfect the art of having sex and getting a girl. I mean did God create you guys just for sex or is there no other creative center working in your brains?. The world is moving fast people are making world class difference the African man is busy worshipping his stick. Have you ever wondered why God kept it inbetween your legs and not on your foreheads? Because your supposed to worship you brains not your prick. Gosh this episode of junk of a trend could actually make a difference a child's live if the op could use his brain in organizing conference to educate children and not how you will crown your dig. Please Nigerian men your dig is not the most important organ in your body. Please and please crown your brains instead of your one muscle inbtw your legs. Gosh

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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Lovexme(m): 7:09pm On Feb 19, 2016
shulamitewoman:
dude go and learn how 2talk to strangers b4 u approach dem..thanks

Have we met before?
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Lovexme(m): 7:13pm On Feb 19, 2016
shulamitewoman:
dude go and learn how 2talk to strangers b4 u approach dem..thanks

Have we met before?

I bet you don't even know how to entertain 'strangers'.

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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by shulamitewoman(f): 8:48pm On Feb 19, 2016
[quote author=Lovexme post=43073840]

Have we met before?

I bet you don't even know how to entertain 'strangers' do I need 2 reply dis? Nah I dnt tink so..*smiles*
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Lovexme(m): 10:53pm On Feb 19, 2016
[quote author=shulamitewoman post=43076227][/quote]
Yea. I thought so too.
Do better. Cheers!

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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Nobody: 5:39am On Feb 20, 2016
aforti:
It's so funny how Nigerian men spend so much time trying to perfect the art of having sex and getting a girl. I mean did God create you guys just for sex or is there no other creative center working in your brains?. The world is moving fast people are making world class difference the African man is busy worshipping his stick. Have you ever wondered why God kept it inbetween your legs and not on your foreheads? Because your supposed to worship you brains not your prick. Gosh this episode of junk of a trend could actually make a difference a child's live if the op could use his brain in organizing conference to educate children and not how you will crown your dig. Please Nigerian men your dig is not the most important organ in your body. Please and please crown your brains instead of your one muscle inbtw your legs. Gosh
We all know sensible men like yourself are very rare to come by. God bless you for this piece of writeup. If only most of this yeye men were like you,this country won't be in the state it is now. Take a look at countries with female presidents, they are far better of than this jungle called Nigeria. Nnamdi KANU shall always be my hero. cry

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Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by splasz: 5:43am On Feb 20, 2016
Things looking bad undecided I'm not sure this trick will work for the types of girls I'm living with
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Nobody: 9:38am On Feb 20, 2016
CharlesNneji1:



*smiles* When you called the post senseless I clicked your picture, saw your legs and wanted to say something not so nice about them but I changed my mind.



Just for others who might be thinking the same thing, I will address your question - just to make it clearer to them.



So here goes: the phrase "Play hard to get" was merely used to explain the general principle behind the article.



You don't just read to a point, stop and start pulling conclusions from your head. Learn to read, Bae, learn to read.



So, as you read down you will get to see that what I was trying to say was this:



"Men shouldn't be a push over when asking a girl out"



A man should treat a women the way a king should treat a queen and not the way a servant will treat a queen. That's the point.



You look a bit smart, so you should know that the way a man plays hard to get has to differ from the way a woman does.




That was what I explained in the part of the article you were too impatient to read.




@others - before you start playing hard to get, of course, you have to attract her first. Click my moniker and read my other articles to see how you can do this.


Charels, u don't knw that she is a bae, and not supposed to be listening to d guyz gists? If this forum can be segregated from the girls, I think the better....coz, trying this on her will be difficult as she knows what her toaster is up to already.

Thanks.
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Nobody: 5:35pm On Feb 21, 2016
sonofananimal:
when one realize that chasing a woman is not worth it, revise always take place.


not encouraging guys to start doing trick to make a woman like them but rather telling ye all guys to stop it and rather use ya natural instinct in doing something.

trick is like a magic! it has an expire date and FADE over time and when it fade, you will start looking for another trick to make it work. trick is also like an addictive drug.

Guess we are on the same page then.
If you don't mind why sonofananimal?
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Nobody: 5:43pm On Feb 21, 2016
andromida:

Guess we are on the same page then. If you don't mind why sonofananimal?
mistake at my end
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Nobody: 5:45pm On Feb 21, 2016
sonofananimal:
mistake at my end

What do you mean by mistake at your end?
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 21, 2016
andromida:


What do you mean by mistake at your end?
wanted to use it as an advertising moniker but the naming was wrong.
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by Nobody: 5:51pm On Feb 21, 2016
sonofananimal:
wanted to use it as an advertising moniker but the naming was wrong.

Oh I see now cheesy lol.
Re: One Thing You Need To Do That Will Make A Girl To Chase You by dastudent(m): 5:55pm On Feb 21, 2016
There are so many principles that there is no right or wrong way. Self confidence is key to everything. You can't get every girl. Sometimes you might have success with ten out of ten women you approach sometimes you will not even get a chance with even one.

Yes you can build yourself to become a stunner because you want to sleep with every girl you meet but then, at the end of the day, that's not the real you.

That's not your true self. I always advice guys that come to me asking how girls are comfortable around me and my answer is always a little more advanced than what every one's aunty has told them (Be ya sef) ....I have realised that it is more about being your best self than just being yourself.

Focus on having a life style that you enjoy, stop asking the question "What will people think.

Wake up in the morning and always ask yourself the question "What do i want?"

To ask what you want and stay beholding to that. It's the greatest thing you can do as a man. it's the greatest gift you can give to others.

Stop making other people comfortable. Including your parents.

Ask what is needed for you. If faced with choosing two paths in life. Always take the path that will give the best memories.

Get confidence, enjoy life, build the lifestyle that you want, be happy and women will chase you.

The moment you realize that it doesn't matter if you get the girl or not by being your best self. You will be surprised how attractive you will become to women.

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