Cutehector:
Lol endin an affiar is a hard one... U just wana stop, buh wen u two see each oda, d attraction justs comes up again

djeezy:
Good thing you understood the topic and modified.

djeezy:
Interesting. I really don't like the title of your thread. It should be something like "how to stop cheating while in a relationship". Affairs flourish in secrecy, I like that part.

pinkpebbles:
Affairs are so difficult to end. Infact some people start affairs with a time frame of when to end it but when that time comes, they cannot because they have been trapped by the power of affairs.
Even when you start feeling guilty and try to end it,you find yourself going back because an affair is like an addiction that is hard to resist. An affair can control and dominate your life until it finally tears you apart.
If you are determined to end that affair today and stop hurting your loved one,we are going to tell you how to go about it the right way.
1). You have to make up your mind to end it. You must be determined to get out of the irresistible affair.
2). Talk to your affair partner about it. Sometimes,he or she might want the same thing too,so both of you can work on ending it together but if your partner is still interested in the affair,you would have to make him or her see reasons why you need to end it. Talk about the guilt you feel and the fear the affair is causing you. Tell them that you do not like who you have become because of the affair and that you can no longer live like that anymore. In doing this,please be firm not rude. You do not want to piss them off into trying to blackmail you.
3). Work on your relationship. An affair must have seemed like an answer to your failing relationship but it is not. It is time to work on your relationship instead of taking the easy way out by finding comfort in someone else’s loving arms. Devote more time to your relationship. If the relationship cannot work,end it instead of getting into an affair.
4). You know all those things that excited you in that affair,bring it into your relstionship. Tell your partner what works for you. Experience the same emotions you had in your affair and you would see no need to go back to your affair.
5). Affairs flourishes in secrecy. Open up to someone. Talking to someone else can be relieving. Tell a close friend or someone you can trust. You could also talk to your partner but that could be tricky because you cannot predict their reaction since they are the victims of your affair.
6). No one is perfect. Capitalize on the flaws of your affair. No matter how exciting a person is, there are flaws. Pick on them and you would find yourself irritated and walking out of the affair.
7). As much as possible,distance yourself from the person. Avoid seeing the person. When he or she calls,firm yourself and stick to the decision of ending the affair.
. Resist all temptations to go back to your affair. Occupy yourself all the time and whenever you have that urge to call or see the person, remember all the efforts you have put into getting out of it. Do not allow it to be in vain.

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pinkpebbles:
Affairs are so difficult to end. Infact some people start affairs with a time frame of when to end it but when that time comes, they cannot because they have been trapped by the power of affairs.
Even when you start feeling guilty and try to end it,you find yourself going back because an affair is like an addiction that is hard to resist. An affair can control and dominate your life until it finally tears you apart.
If you are determined to end that affair today and stop hurting your loved one,we are going to tell you how to go about it the right way.
1). You have to make up your mind to end it. You must be determined to get out of the irresistible affair.
2). Talk to your affair partner about it. Sometimes,he or she might want the same thing too,so both of you can work on ending it together but if your partner is still interested in the affair,you would have to make him or her see reasons why you need to end it. Talk about the guilt you feel and the fear the affair is causing you. Tell them that you do not like who you have become because of the affair and that you can no longer live like that anymore. In doing this,please be firm not rude. You do not want to piss them off into trying to blackmail you.
3). Work on your relationship. An affair must have seemed like an answer to your failing relationship but it is not. It is time to work on your relationship instead of taking the easy way out by finding comfort in someone else’s loving arms. Devote more time to your relationship. If the relationship cannot work,end it instead of getting into an affair.
4). You know all those things that excited you in that affair,bring it into your relstionship. Tell your partner what works for you. Experience the same emotions you had in your affair and you would see no need to go back to your affair.
5). Affairs flourishes in secrecy. Open up to someone. Talking to someone else can be relieving. Tell a close friend or someone you can trust. You could also talk to your partner but that could be tricky because you cannot predict their reaction since they are the victims of your affair.
6). No one is perfect. Capitalize on the flaws of your affair. No matter how exciting a person is, there are flaws. Pick on them and you would find yourself irritated and walking out of the affair.
7). As much as possible,distance yourself from the person. Avoid seeing the person. When he or she calls,firm yourself and stick to the decision of ending the affair.
. Resist all temptations to go back to your affair. Occupy yourself all the time and whenever you have that urge to call or see the person, remember all the efforts you have put into getting out of it. Do not allow it to be in vain.

www.parrothouz.com
Visit blog for more updates on managing your relationship.

pinkpebbles:
The thing is,there is a great difference btw cheating and having an affair. I would rather my partner cheats than have an affair. Affairs are deeper and more scary

MrCork:


..are u lightskin?

pinkpebbles:
Nope, I am purple skinned

djeezy:
To me I think there's no difference. Affairs are done in secrecy and so is cheating. Nice thread by the way.

MrCork:



^^^^atitude....and then she complains she cant find man on nairaland...Goat! (no oofeinse)

pinkpebbles:
Ur name suits u.

watch yor mouth..Goat.

..anyways sinceu ask, did I mention am from Pekam London & I drive £28,000(cash) Range rover spot!!

pinkpebbles:
Thanks, but there is a difference. You can av sex wt jst anybody without any form of attachment. But when you are involved in an affair, my dear it is hard to end oh coz u ar more involved than jst sex

djeezy:
Very well then. Just felt like arguing a little.

pinkpebbles:
Lol, I like to b put in the position to argue oh. Please lets kip arguing jor. I am enjoying it.

djeezy:
Hehehe nope I give up. You've won.

pinkpebbles:
Affairs are so difficult to end. Infact some people start affairs with a time frame of when to end it but when that time comes, they cannot because they have been trapped by the power of affairs.
Even when you start feeling guilty and try to end it,you find yourself going back because an affair is like an addiction that is hard to resist. An affair can control and dominate your life until it finally tears you apart.
If you are determined to end that affair today and stop hurting your loved one,we are going to tell you how to go about it the right way.
1). You have to make up your mind to end it. You must be determined to get out of the irresistible affair.
2). Talk to your affair partner about it. Sometimes,he or she might want the same thing too,so both of you can work on ending it together but i

Jacksparrow0712:
What's an affair BTW?

pinkpebbles:
Dont worry. Wen u are in one,no one wud explain it for you.

Jacksparrow0712:
So you can't explain to me what it means? Your own type of counsellor hard o

pinkpebbles:
I charge na. And you av to book an appointment.

Jacksparrow0712:
Do I need to see a PA or I negotiate directly with you?