Why do ladies always tolerate so much in relationships? Is it because we are too loving or is it because we are too scared of moving on. We tolerate lies and cheats. Even when he impreginates someone out there, a woman will still be with him. Even if she finds unused condoms under his pillow after her absence for a few days, and he claims that he does not know how they got there, claiming that maybe his brother, who was helping him move the bed, found them under the bed den put the there, even wen she finds crazy messages from his phone, den he claims his friend borrowed his fone. Even wen he hates taking your calls, but always promises married. Are we stupid? Is this how a woman shud be or are we selling ourselves short?whats the real way ladies and gentlemen, plz do tell

No d women folk aren't silly... Its just in the nature of a woman to bear sorrow in her heart and yet still hav a glowing face..



Its called being strong and tolerative

He does WHAT? Sorry any lady that tolerates that should just lay on the floor & let him walk all over her because she just reduced herself to being his doormat. No guy would ever get away with any of that crap with me. He'd kick rocks! Value yourself some more. People treat you how you allow them to treat you. Love yourself & getcho life!

sweetheart you sound pained, like you have experienced everything listed above

yes the op is right,ladies be wise
on a second thought,we are also guilty of the above mentioned things
treat a guy the way you want to be treated

Low self esteem and principles

In my opinion I don't feel cheating is wrong,if a guy doesn't want you why not leave?he shouldn't be compelled to live a life(marriage) of misery by settling with someone he no longer loves. At least he cares for your health well enough not to tell it to your face.

All for love

faithugo64:
sweetheart you sound pained, like you have experienced everything listed above


yes the op is right,ladies be wise

on a second thought,we are also guilty of the above mentioned things

treat a guy the way you want to be treated

I love you for this statement ma'am...
Much respect

Definitely selling yourself short.

I beg to differ,same cases are applicable to the man.

I don't understand why most ladies like to play the victim-card all times.

That the man doesn't come out to talk or cry about it doesn't mean they don't suffer similar fates.

Let's try and be objective as much as possible.

PunkyVeer:
He does WHAT? Sorry any lady that tolerates that should just lay on the floor & let him walk all over her because she just reduced herself to being his doormat. No guy would ever get away with any of that crap with me. He'd kick rocks! Value yourself some more. People treat you how you allow them to treat you. Love yourself & getcho life!

Sister, sorry oo, but atleast a guy has done or is doing dt to u. its just dt u ve not found out. Bitter truth

Sochimaobim:

Sister, sorry oo, but atleast a guy has done or is doing dt to u. its just dt u ve not found out. Bitter truth

Hahahaha. What are you saying? Sorry about what? What bitter truth do you believe you're telling me right now?

PunkyVeer:
He does WHAT? Sorry any lady that tolerates that should just lay on the floor & let him walk all over her because she just reduced herself to being his doormat. No guy would ever get away with any of that crap with me. He'd kick rocks! Value yourself some more. People treat you how you allow them to treat you. Love yourself & getcho life!

Relax bae....it will suprise u many things women tolerate in d name of marriage,my prayer is,we should all be blessed with our own life partner not someone's own

See the rubbish this one typed

nedu2000:
In my opinion I don't feel cheating is wrong,if a guy doesn't want you why not leave?he shouldn't be compelled to live a life(marriage) of misery by settling with someone he no longer loves. At least he cares for your health well enough not to tell it to your face.

misspicy:

Relax bae....it will suprise u many things women tolerate in d name of marriage,my prayer is,we should all be blessed with our own life partner not someone's own

See the rubbish this one typed

I concur. Amen to that.

misspicy:

Relax bae....it will suprise u many things women tolerate in d name of marriage,my prayer is,we should all be blessed with our own life partner not someone's own

See the rubbish this one typed

lol@ rubbish....so what do you think the guy shld do,now that he's no longer into her.Remember they ain't even married

nedu2000:
lol@ rubbish....so what do you think the guy shld do,now that he's no longer into her.Remember they ain't even married

if anyone puts another, under the same situation.shudnt he rather tell her dat he no longer wants her? Instead of always being against deir break up? So dat both can move on

NinaNigeria:


if anyone puts another, under the same situation.shudnt he rather tell her dat he no longer wants her? Instead of always being against deir break up? So dat both can move on

You tolerate all his bullshit cos he lays the pipe good He fùcks you until you curl up into a soaking wet, quivering ball of jelly.
Oya deny it and let me catch you

NinaNigeria:
Why do ladies always tolerate so much in relationships? Is it because we are too loving or is it because we are too scared of moving on. We tolerate lies and cheats. Even when he impreginates someone out there, a woman will still be with him. Even if she finds unused condoms under his pillow after her absence for a few days, and he claims that he does not know how they got there, claiming that maybe his brother, who was helping him move the bed, found them under the bed den put the there, even wen she finds crazy messages from his phone, den he claims his friend borrowed his fone. Even wen he hates taking your calls, but always promises married. Are we stupid? Is this how a woman shud be or are we selling ourselves short?whats the real way ladies and gentlemen, plz do tell

if you need a faithful man then go the broke and ugly ones,don't ever expect a cute rich guy to be faithful.

PunkyVeer:
He does WHAT? Sorry any lady that tolerates that should just lay on the floor & let him walk all over her because she just reduced herself to being his doormat. No guy would ever get away with any of that crap with me. He'd kick rocks! Value yourself some more. People treat you how you allow them to treat you. Love yourself & getcho life!

handsome and rich guys are not supposed to be faithful,they have so many things to offer,if one lady leaves,10 other b!tches will gladly replace her,any lady who needs a faithful man should date the broke ones.

Blizzyblinkzy:
All for love

All for the money, rather

BoboYekini:
You tolerate all his bullshit cos he lays the pipe good He fùcks you until you curl up into a soaking wet, quivering ball of jelly.
Oya deny it and let me catch you

lol she is Dickmatized,that's why she is so helpless,hahahaha naija ladies may you all encounter bad guys that will show you pepper in that so called relationship/marriage...rubbish.

Its not like you're tolerating any sh*t. It is that you are doing what's best for ya . You would retract ur hands when ure in contact wt an hot object impulsively. Not like anybody will hv to tell ya before u do. So, if ure still in that relationship u call abusive, its not abusive as long as you're still sticking wd it. Don't make it seem like you're doing anybody any favor, Its all your choice!

Youngpo413:
handsome and rich guys are not supposed to be faithful,they have so many things to offer,if one lady leaves,10 other b!tches will gladly replace her,any lady who needs a faithful man should date the broke ones.

Rich my azz. Bill Gates is rich but we've not heard of any cheating scandals about him. So just because a dude lets the few coins that he owns, gass up his head into thinking he's now the boss, is immaturity at its best. Little fish in a big pond. Real ballers know the value of things, they know that money can't buy you the priceless things in life eg. genuine love, genuine acquaintances, etc, so they look & settle for it when they do find it. Keeping letting the change in your piggy bank, fool you into thinking you're made & therefore, have your pick of women. They'll only tolerate it just as long as you still have money & offer their fake affections but in the end you'll still be emotionally bankrupt because noone will be liking you for you but for what you have to
give, the money. Now who is fooling who here?

PunkyVeer:
He does WHAT? Sorry any lady that tolerates that should just lay on the floor & let him walk all over her because she just reduced herself to being his doormat. No guy would ever get away with any of that crap with me. He'd kick rocks! Value yourself some more. People treat you how you allow them to treat you. Love yourself & getcho life!

bagger

PunkyVeer:


Rich my azz. Bill Gates is rich but we've not heard of any cheating scandals about him. So just because a dude lets the few coins that he owns, gass up his head into thinking he's now the boss, is immaturity at its best. Little fish in a big pond. Real ballers know the value of things, they know that money can't buy you the priceless things in life eg. genuine love, genuine acquaintances, etc, so they look & settle for it when they do find it. Keeping letting the change in your piggy bank, fool you into thinking you're made & therefore, have your pick of women. They'll only tolerate it just as long as you still have money & offer their fake affections but in the end you'll still be emotionally bankrupt because noone will be liking you for you but for what you have to
give, the money. Now who is fooling who here?

you are not a nigerian,so there is no nEed explaining...but you have a good point sha,I mean you always have...Happy new month or is it November yet over there? Lol.

Youngpo413:
you are not a nigerian,so there is no nEed explaining...but you have a good point sha,I mean you always have...Happy new month or is it November yet over there? Lol.

Hahaha. Happy new month to you too. God bless

NinaNigeria:
Why do ladies always tolerate so much in relationships? Is it because we are too loving or is it because we are too scared of moving on. We tolerate lies and cheats. Even when he impreginates someone out there, a woman will still be with him. Even if she finds unused condoms under his pillow after her absence for a few days, and he claims that he does not know how they got there, claiming that maybe his brother, who was helping him move the bed, found them under the bed den put the there, even wen she finds crazy messages from his phone, den he claims his friend borrowed his fone. Even wen he hates taking your calls, but always promises married. Are we stupid? Is this how a woman shud be or are we selling ourselves short?whats the real way ladies and gentlemen, plz do tell

So in your myopic and generalized mind all women behave this way?. Bloody marvelous!.

NinaNigeria:
Why do ladies always tolerate so much in relationships? Is it because we are too loving or is it because we are too scared of moving on. We tolerate lies and cheats. Even when he impreginates someone out there, a woman will still be with him. Even if she finds unused condoms under his pillow after her absence for a few days, and he claims that he does not know how they got there, claiming that maybe his brother, who was helping him move the bed, found them under the bed den put the there, even wen she finds crazy messages from his phone, den he claims his friend borrowed his fone. Even wen he hates taking your calls, but always promises married. Are we stupid? Is this how a woman shud be or are we selling ourselves short?whats the real way ladies and gentlemen, plz do tell

because the guy is rich, good in bed, they are afraid of what people might say, they might have boasted about how magical their relationship is, etc

NinaNigeria:
Why do ladies always tolerate so much in relationships? Is it because we are too loving or is it because we are too scared of moving on. We tolerate lies and cheats. Even when he impreginates someone out there, a woman will still be with him. Even if she finds unused condoms under his pillow after her absence for a few days, and he claims that he does not know how they got there, claiming that maybe his brother, who was helping him move the bed, found them under the bed den put the there, even wen she finds crazy messages from his phone, den he claims his friend borrowed his fone. Even wen he hates taking your calls, but always promises married. Are we stupid? Is this how a woman shud be or are we selling ourselves short?whats the real way ladies and gentlemen, plz do tell

That's because we fall too deep. When a woman falls in love, she falls in with her heart & soul. She loses her head, hence she is able to tolerate the weirdest of vices.

Patience is virtue...better learn that before its too late

Youngpo413:
handsome and rich guys are not supposed to be faithful,they have so many things to offer,if one lady leaves,10 other b!tches will gladly replace her,any lady who needs a faithful man should date the broke ones.

what about broke guy become rich some will start to cheat it is only by God's grace

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