What do you think a man/woman should look out for when preparing to get married.
There are many failed marriages and no one wishers his/her marriages fails.
Please your advice is needed urgently to make a life time decision.
Thanks.

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Nairaland!
Trust me!

kinibigdeal:
Your creator

k apart from that what else do u suggest.

lekjons:
Nairaland!
Trust me!

hmm as in

NONSENSE.. Look out for your I.Q 1st

CUM4WHAT:
NONSENSE.. Look out for your I.Q 1st

bros u hash oh.

Drfresh0909:
k apart from that what else do u suggest.

Character and make ups

Everything

Drfresh0909:
hmm as in

after marriage, deactivate ur account and make sure ur wife doesn't have one either, else the 'in and out' of ur marrige'll exposed! (trust women na!), and also to avoid taking advices that can break ur marriage during 'quarrel', from people who don't even know when they'll get married!

@Drfresh0909
a person preparing to get married should look out for EVERYTHING!!!

kinibigdeal:

Character and make ups

that's good thanks

donholy28:
Everything

please be specific.

lekjons:
after marriage, deactivate ur account and make sure ur wife doesn't have one either, else the 'in and out' of ur marrige'll exposed! (trust women na!), and also to avoid taking advices that can break ur marriage during 'quarrel', from people who don't even know when they'll get married!

Thanks

MRBrownJ:
@Drfresh0909
a person preparing to get married should look out for EVERYTHING!!!

is that possible? please what are the main thing we should look out for be specific.

Drfresh0909:
is that possible? please what are the main thing we should look out for be specific.

well pls sit down and ask yourself what are the qualities/character that you want your future bride to possess (or not). write it on a paper and see that your intended partner has them all (or not).

now, every man is different and therefore will have different priorities in a future mate, but i would be very careful about the following:
a rude woman
a jealous woman
a disrespectful gal (especially towards people close to her)
a chica with NO desire, NO passion for life, NO aim/aspiration in life
a lady who doesnt know how to say she is sorry
a partner who doesnt value TRUST/COMPANIONSHIP/COMMUNICATION
low self esteem babes whose entire existence depends on what people think of them
a woman with family members who hate me
a religious fanatic
a lazy woman
someone who does not support you emotionally
a stubborn lady
a conceited/vain person
someone with whom i dont feel 110% relaxed (at peace) around
someone with whom i am not sexually satisfied (or not sexually compatible)
someone who idolises money, and can do just about anything to get it
uneducated women whose sole existence is to get Brazilian hair and the latest gadget, while being unemployed
the "desperate to marry at all cost" type of women
a bitter miserable woman

and thats just the beginning!

MRBrownJ:


well pls sit down and ask yourself what are the qualities/character that you want your future bride to possess (or not). write it on a paper and see that your intended partner has them all (or not).

now, every man is different and therefore will have different priorities in a future mate, but i would be very careful about the following:
a rude woman
a jealous woman
a disrespectful gal (especially towards people close to her)
a chica with NO desire, NO passion for life, NO aim/aspiration in life
a lady who doesnt know how to say she is sorry
a partner who doesnt value TRUST/COMPANIONSHIP/COMMUNICATION
low self esteem babes whose entire existence depends on what people think of them
a woman with family members who hate me
a religious fanatic
a lazy woman
someone who does not support you emotionally
a stubborn lady
a conceited/vain person
someone with whom i dont feel 110% relaxed (at peace) around
someone with whom i am not sexually satisfied (or not sexually compatible)
someone who idolises money, and can do just about anything to get it
uneducated women whose sole existence is to get Brazilian hair and the latest gadget, while being unemployed
the "desperate to marry at all cost" type of women
a bitter miserable woman

and thats just the beginning!

thank you very much