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Breakups And Revenge by 1stworldview10: 8:36pm On Sep 01, 2015
Revenge Your Ex

Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a
variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on.
Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to
vent, and then escalates from there. Now sites like "Get Revenge On Your Ex"
for a fee will help you get pay back or revenge.

So what is the best way to get revenge besides slashing her tires, posting
nude photos of her and so on.

The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your
life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers,
past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and
enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge
that can end up costing you much more. Plus, when you seek revenge, you send
them a massage that you have not gotten over the relationship. It's much
better to show you are indifferent and don't care.

According to Kenneth Agee of A Foreign Affair, a service that specializes in
helping men find young beautiful foreign women, "The best revenge is to date
or marry a women 10 years younger than your ex. This will piss her off to no
end. No woman ever wants to be replaced with a younger, more attractive
woman. Just like a man never likes to get replaced by a guy who is wealthier
or more successful.

I will never forget one of my first clients we took to Saint Petersburg,
Russia." says Agee, "The client told me that two days on our tour was better
than two years of therapy. Having hundreds of attractive women fighting over
you gets your ex out of your mind pretty quick.

I personally went through break up when my ex ran off with another man. But
a short time later, I met a new lady who was ten times better. I ran into
that man who stole my ex and I gave him a big thanks. In fact, I could not
thank him enough. He was stuck with an older nagging women, while I was now
with a young, beautiful, caring women. Plus, my ex had gained about 100
pounds. I don't look at that fellow as any kind of enemy but as the person
who saved me from my ex and years of suffering." This is the best a revenge
when you win without lowering yourself.

Other sites like "Get Over Her Now" give practical advice and tips for
getting over a past relationship.

Top Tips from Get Over Her Now:

Start making platonic relationships with as many women as possible, old,
young, skinny, fat, cute or ugly. This greatly helps you get back in the
game of socializing with the opposite sex. And it opens up lots
opportunities to meet their cute attractive friends in a more relaxed
environment. This also helps you build your game and confidence.

Improve yourself, start working out, get up early every day and exercise.

Buy new clothes. Dressing better makes you feel better and improves your
confidence.

Focus on work and getting a promotion or raise. Don't let a break up effect
your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off
with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence
and help attract better quality women.

Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel
depressed, don't sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do
something that will make you feel like you've accomplished something. Take a
class, go hiking, fix something you've been putting off.

Don't start drinking. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your
life. Don't drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some
one. After all, drinking is for celebrating. So if you are not celebrating
something, don't drink. A quality women is not going to be attracted to
someone who drinks a lot or has a drinking problem.

Don't sleep in; sleeping late increases depression. Get up as early as you
can and go for a walk, take a hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting
up early and exercising can eliminate depression. You will have no game be
depressed.

Don't binge eat. If you start gaining weight, you will feel less self-worth
and lose your confidence. Confidence is a quality that women are extremely
attracted to.

Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she
realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet
someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are
seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place!
Re: Breakups And Revenge by donholy28(m): 8:41pm On Sep 01, 2015
Good post..noted
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 8:44pm On Sep 01, 2015
Ain't nobody have time for that. An ex = none factor. A none entity. Who gives a damn if they see you smile or cry? Their joy or jealousy doesn't matter because they've ceased to exist. End of.
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 8:51pm On Sep 01, 2015
B nd R? ...oK!
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 8:58pm On Sep 01, 2015
PunkyVeer:
Ain't nobody have time for that. An ex = none factor. A none entity. Who gives a damn if they see you smile or cry? Their joy or jealousy doesn't matter because they've ceased to exist. End of.
PunkyVeer it ain't that easy to forget everything Totally if u truly was in Love.Yu made it seem its so easy to 4get one's X but its not especially if it was ur heart that was Broken.
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 9:10pm On Sep 01, 2015
NEPABOY:
PunkyVeer it ain't that easy to forget everything Totally if u truly was in Love.Yu made it seem its so easy to 4get one's X but its not especially if it was ur heart that was Broken.

Well, maybe we operate in different ways but I have a way of "killing off" exs in my mind. They truly do not matter to me. I don't even care what they hear about my current life because their opinion doesn't matter after we're through. But I do get that some people may be different. However my statement wasn't directed at anyone, just me thinking out loud on the topic. No offence intended smiley
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 9:18pm On Sep 01, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Well, maybe we operate in different ways but I have a way of "killing off" exs in my mind. They truly do not matter to me. I don't even care what they hear about my current life because their opinion doesn't matter after we're through. But I do get that some people may be different. However my statement wasn't directed at anyone, just me thinking out loud on the topic. No offence intended smiley
Cool,I knw ur Character.
Re: Breakups And Revenge by divinehand2003(m): 9:19pm On Sep 01, 2015
Nice piece.
It makes a lot of sense
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 9:25pm On Sep 01, 2015
NEPABOY:
Cool,I knw ur Character.

Lol, I hope that's not a "shade". Let me add that I do love. I love very hard too. And after a break up I go through the normal motions like everyone else. But there comes a point where I just do a switch & I no longer care if they breathe or not. How long does it take for you to move on, on average?
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 9:34pm On Sep 01, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Lol, I hope that's not a "shade". Let me add that I do love. I love very hard too. And after a break up I go through the normal motions like everyone else. But there comes a point where I just do a switch & I no longer care if they breathe or not. How long does it take for you to move on?
naarh not a Shade..I understand u Very Well cos dats d same Character of My X.

Well,i'll be very Frank with Yu...i'm like a Cassanova@Home in PH,and a dedicated Bf in Campus cool .

If i break up with 1 of the gals in Ph dat tag me their bf,i'l b very elated i've got a burden off me smiley

But if i dare break up with d 1 i truly Love....it'll take me a veery long time to 4get except my New gf is way better.
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Rukkydelta(f): 11:53pm On Sep 01, 2015
When he breaks your heart break his legs
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 11:56pm On Sep 01, 2015
Na only He de break heart, what of SHE
Rukkydelta:
When he breaks your heart break his legs
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Rukkydelta(f): 12:05am On Sep 02, 2015
ilobasama:
Na only He de break heart, what of SHE
she always shattered the heart

TEAM:Heart shatterer's
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 12:06am On Sep 02, 2015
Later una go de cry angry
Rukkydelta:

she always shattered the heart

TEAM:Heart shatterer's
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Rukkydelta(f): 12:10am On Sep 02, 2015
ilobasama:
Later una go de cry angry
Wetin go make me cry I no be pure water kinda girl
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 12:11am On Sep 02, 2015
Hmmmmm, delta babe abi
Rukkydelta:


Wetin go make me cry I no be pure water kinda girl
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Rukkydelta(f): 12:12am On Sep 02, 2015
ilobasama:
Hmmmmm, delta babe abi
Yes o
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 12:14am On Sep 02, 2015
same here, where from delta.......dont tell me warri grin
Rukkydelta:


Yes o

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Re: Breakups And Revenge by Rukkydelta(f): 12:16am On Sep 02, 2015
ilobasama:
same here, where from delta.......dont tell me warri grin
lol i'm from ughelli north what of you ?
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 12:17am On Sep 02, 2015
Aniocha south cool cool
Rukkydelta:

lol i'm from ughelli north what of you ?
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Rukkydelta(f): 12:18am On Sep 02, 2015
ilobasama:
Aniocha south cool cool
good
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Nobody: 12:20am On Sep 02, 2015
Followed you sis. Abeg commot from that team heart breakers o. No be good team at all. sad
Rukkydelta:


good
Re: Breakups And Revenge by Rukkydelta(f): 8:02am On Sep 02, 2015
ilobasama:
Followed you sis. Abeg commot from that team heart breakers o. No be good team at all. sad

I don't break heart I shatter heart

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