Ok. There is this girl am so into.
I met in a Church, of which I attended for the first time. I did some kind of research and got her FB. Where I collected her num. We talked and talked and it was glaring that I was in love. I did the needful and hinted her up by wooing her. She declined saying she's engaged and taken. I was a bit selfish(don't criticize me for that) and was still going on with my plans just to show care and hoping whenever her man goes wrong I will be the next in line. I did that for two months but she insisted that I shouldn't wait for her and find someone else.Since I met her in the church and fell in love almost at first sight. I still continued thinking it was divine. Soon I got tired of the whole situation and just gave up but still maintained a mutual relationship with her. Moved on, got a girl but she was still in my very small heart which selects who it wants there. After some very long months I broke up with the new girl and was single. Forgetting both girls but had their num.
Then, on the first day of this month the girl I talked about which still remained in me messaged me with 'Hey'. was shocked and did the messaging and some teasing saying it was probably my Sunday prayers that made her message me. After some talks I gave up the chat. Another day, I just told her. Hey you, change your dp. Want to see your face. She did and I did the usual comment every girl aspires for.
Then after some talks again I asked How her Big daddy was. She was blunt cos am this sort of guy who believes in word play.
I later told her, I meant her bf and she said he is fine. I said. Is he off the hook? She said No. I was actually expecting that. But for confirmation I asked, You still together. She Said No. Thought she was drunk or something. Said. You mean you no more together. She said Yea. That they have both retired. I smiled but wasn't interested in dating her since I had finished my ND and she now school in Babcock. I asked "How is the new guy" ,She said no new guy oooh. Hmm I thought with something in me saying. Tobeetoe, what's up?. I ignored the self-talker in me and did some chats all through. Of which we ended the chats with some proper Goodnight. She liked me back then but I guess her bf was the issue.
The night we ended our chat. The Boss couldn't sleep. All matter of thoughts came whether or not I should re-open the 2014 case. Do you guys think I should go on with wooing her again? or I should let her find some love elsewhere?.
Note: I really like/love this girl. I regard her as my first love cos I was so obsessed about her. Talk about this. Sorry for the boring story!!

In three short sentences, what do you want nairalanders to do for you?

Go with ur hrt bro

She is lonely and if u make a move on her, u r going to be her rebound. If de guy decides to come back, u r going to get yo heart broken

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Well, at least you know this one isn't a cheat . Dear, most times things happen in relationships to make people realise that they need to move on.If she truly has broken up the relationship with her man, give her time, enough time for her to message you more often . Don't ever rush, just be cool friends with her, say chat her up well this week and lock up completely the next week.Even as a man, you need to be needed.Dont go cheap, afterall you also have a heart to be loved and taken well care of.

My take; she is heart broken. She messaged you cuz she needed a shoulder to lean on and your being frienzoned, you are the best for that job. My bro, give her lil or no attention. Let her do the chasing. Don't ask her for a date this time cuz she's still gonna turn you down. If she wants you, in lil time you'll figure. But for now, let her do the chasing

Thanks guys. That spoke to me.

My guy, for her to chat you ap means she's got the interest in you but never wanted to double date then... Now she's flashing the interest, since you still like her, better man up and go for the ride... If not 2014 case will be closed against you again. But remember never woo her again, just assume a bf position cos she already knows what's ap.

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Yea Xpac. you got it. being acting like am her bf. She still knows I love her though. Been hinting her. Thanks man

Learner ! Keep it cool , She'll be yours.

Concentr8 more on yourself and the vibes you radiate. Let her feel You.

Let her see enougH reasons to fall for you

You'll see it in her attitudes when she's finally under your spell

You can then make your gallant approach like a pro leaving her with no choice than giving you her nod .

She'll salute your general if you want then