1. A good man will never pick apart your looks.
“Oh, if only your hair was a little longer.” “If only you lost those couple
of extra pounds.” “If you would only wear more makeup.” A good man
will never take jabs at your appearance in a way that’s demeaning to
you or makes you feel badly about yourself. If he is doing this, he’s
purposely attempting to lower your self-worth so you won’t feel
confident enough to leave him. It’s his way of trying to control you and
it’s emotional abuse. Walk. Away. Now.


2. A good man will never invade your privacy.
In a healthy relationship, there is no need to hide anything. Texts,
emails, facebook messages, whatever. But that doesn’t mean your
partner has the right to snoop through them if you happen to leave your
phone around or your computer open. Someone who does this is
showing a massive insecurity on their part and is likely projecting their
own infidelities and issues onto you. This should not be ignored.
*Note: This is assuming you haven’t done anything that would make him
suspicious or betrayed his trust.


3. A good man will never discourage you.
A sign of a person’s confidence in themselves is how they help to
support the ambition of others. A good man will always be willing to
help and support those around him and will never be discouraging or
insulting.


4. A good man will recognize your value; he will not make you feel the
need to prove it to him.
The minute you feel that you have to prove your worth to the person
you’re with is the minute you’ll know to walk away. A man or woman
should be with you because they value and appreciate who you are, not
what you do or how well you sell yourself to them.


5. A good man will never make you feel like an afterthought.
While a relationship shouldn’t be someone’s entire life, it’s certainly a
large part of it. I’ve heard too many stories about women who
constantly get cast aside for “guy’s night” or something similar. A man
should have have a network and individuality, sure. But there is a
difference between leading an active social life, and knocking the
woman in your life further and further down your priority list. If you feel
like you’re waiting for him to come home more than you’re actually with
him, it’s time to step back and take another look at where your
relationship is going.


6. A good man will never make you feel like you are alone in the
relationship.
Relationships are a partnership. A team. A two-way street. They’re
supposed to enhance your life, not complicate it. If you’re with a man
who is complacent in life and love, puts no effort into you or the
relationship, then it’s time to re-evaluate. Keep in mind, it’s natural for
people to get depressed and unmotivated at times. If this is someone
you’ve been with for a long time, I’m certainly not saying kick him to the
curb at the first sign of a slump. We all go through them. What I’m
referring to here is someone who is simply apathetic and makes you
feel like he doesn’t care. You deserve someone who will wake up every
morning and pledge to do and be the best they can


7, A good man will never cheat on you.
There are plenty of arguments in the world that monogamy is not
“natural” and that humans are not biologically wired to spend an entire
lifetime with one single person. Regardless of the scientific validity of
this statement, one thing remains true: Monogamy is a personal choice
made by two people in a relationship. There is literally nothing physical
binding two people together; just a decision. A good man will never
cheat in a relationship because cheating means going back on his word
or breaking a promise he has made to someone he loves.


8. A good man will never disrespect you.
Easy, simple, basic – but often overlooked. A good man will show
respect to everyone around him. He will not be condescending or put
anyone down, regardless of intelligence level or professional position. As
the saying goes, ‘a man of quality is not afraid of equality.


9. A good man will never avoid important conversations.
Whether it be between family members or in a relationship, a good man
understands that no problem can be resolved until it is faced. The only
thing that avoidance of difficulties will accomplish is delaying the
inevitable and potentially making things worse. There is a difference
between choosing your battles and avoiding conflict altogether – the
important thing is to know when to hold ’em and when to fold ’em.


10. A good man will NEVER abuse you.
There are many different types of abuse, certainly not just physical and
certainly not just in a relationship. Someone can be emotionally abusive
toward a child or pet as well as their significant other. Regardless, they
all have one thing in common: The desire to break another down. A
good man recognizes that his confidence and worth comes from within
himself and never from attempting to place others below him. At any
sign of any type of abuse, walk (run) away immediately. It will not get
better, and you deserve more.
We need to stop making excuses for those who mistreat us and start
lowering our tolerance for this nonsense. Any self-respecting decent
human being will treat you with the love and compassion that you
deserve. If they don’t, then what’s the point of staying with them?


Try to be a good man for your woman

All men r gud in their own ways

And who told you that is the qualities of a good man

Hmmmmm,so who are the bad men here?those that dont add up to that list i supposed...




Anyways,men tend to treat ladies in accordance with their presentation,a man can snoop on a lady especially when her ways turn dodgy.......but that can change if she build up trust... Little wonder a guy that snoop on lady a wouldnt even bother asking lady b who that guy on the phone was...







Talk of discourage,think it depends on the angle you are taking it from...a man can discourage you if your idea those nt seem ok to him that does nt
make him bad...







Talk of cheating....hmmm i rest my case but note that having sex with just another lady does nt mean he does nt cherish you....men will always be men...


In summary,be good and your man will treat you right....