A friend of mine called me this morning, she went to visit her fiancee who has been in Sudan for peace keeping (as he is a soldier), she went from Edo state to Ibadan to visit him.

Two nights later they had an argument he slapped her, it so got to the point that she had to pass the night in a neighbours house.

She is thinking of quitting the relationship I thought maybe help can come from here..

she is very confused because everybody is now begging her to continue.

u mean fiancè?

back-to-the-topic

YES!, she should quit, cos, it's a single slap that made her starts thinking about quitting, she can be sure more slaps are coming after marriage

He only 'slapped' her but the topic said 'beat'

very misleading


Did you ask what she said to him before he slapped her?

I'm not supporting the guy but before we start criticising him, we should know what really happened.
though, the guy shouldn't have gone to the extent of letting her pass the night somewhere else.


If he has been slapping the lady after every argument,then I think the relationship is not worth keeping. If it's the first time he'd do such, she should forgive him.

Continue wetin Y do we woman like suffering and smiling like dis?. Please my dear sister, zoom out of that relationship it isn't healthy for u. This marriage u people are dying for isn't an easy union, it takes a loving and God fearing man to make it a happy and joyous one for u and of course Gods presence in d life of both partner. Please, my dear sister, leave that man before he disfigure ur remaining face. U need a patient and loving man to bring out d woman in u and not a micheal Tyson of a so called military fiancee. My humble suggestion tho.

Continue wetin?


If i would ever continue with such relationship, he must ...

it is her fault, why did her face slap the hand

Slap ke. Any man dat lays his hand on his wife/ fiancee is a beast.

Pamberry:
He only 'slapped' her but the topic said 'beat'

very misleading


Did you ask what she said to him before he slapped her?

I'm not supporting the guy but before we start criticising him, we should know what really happened.
though, the guy shouldn't have gone to the extent of letting her pass the night somewhere else.


If he has been slapping the lady after every argument,then I think the relationship is not worth keeping. If it's the first time he'd do such, she should forgive him.

Brb.

Jollyjoy:
Brb.

waiting!!!

@topic, OP
1. Do you have a job?
2. How much do you earn?
3. Are you comfortable with your take-home?
Let me stop here for now!

Pidggin:

How To: Identify 'Slappers'

mcchaka:
A friend of mine called me this morning, she went to visit her fiancee who has been in Sudan for peace keeping (as he is a soldier), she went from Edo state to Ibadan to visit him.

Two nights later they had an argument he slapped her, it so got to the point that she had to pass the night in a neighbours house.

She is thinking of quitting the relationship I thought maybe help can come from here..

she is very confused because everybody is now begging her to continue.

Who are those begging her?

MrsPhyno:

How To: Identify 'Slappers'

Any Man d beat His wife is an Animal, only Animal beat their own body

Fiance beat you.. That means when you are married you cant even make a sound.. Well dont be quick to give up he might be blue

ststyreal:
Continue wetin Y do we woman like suffering and smiling like dis?. Please my dear sister, zoom out of that relationship it isn't healthy for u. This marriage u people are dying for isn't an easy union, it takes a loving and God fearing man to make it a happy and joyous one for u and of course Gods presence in d life of both partner. Please, my dear sister, leave that man before he disfigure ur remaining face. U need a patient and loving man to bring out d woman in u and not a micheal Tyson of a so called military fiancee. My humble suggestion tho.

its very easy,tell her to control her mouth thats all,and should not slap any man

mcchaka:
A friend of mine called me this morning, she went to visit her fiancee who has been in Sudan for peace keeping (as he is a soldier), she went from Edo state to Ibadan to visit him.

Two nights later they had an argument he slapped her, it so got to the point that she had to pass the night in a neighbours house.

She is thinking of quitting the relationship I thought maybe help can come from here..

she is very confused because everybody is now begging her to continue.

tell your friend to quit

its always a friend.GOD DEY SEE UNA

thorpido:
Who are those begging her?

the guy's neighbors

Pamberry:
He only 'slapped' her but the topic said 'beat'

very misleading


Did you ask what she said to him before he slapped her?

I'm not supporting the guy but before we start criticising him, we should know what really happened.
though, the guy shouldn't have gone to the extent of letting her pass the night somewhere else.


If he has been slapping the lady after every argument,then I think the relationship is not worth keeping. If it's the first time he'd do such, she should forgive him.

i guess slap and beat are different, right?

Blizzyblinkzy:
Continue wetin?


If i would ever continue with such relationship, he must ...

must do what??

She should continue with that relationship till he beats her to death hun?

Two tinz are involve.learn to knw ur limits in ur arguements or u quit.beta 2 b single dan b a punchin bag to a man

Who DA HELL IS EVERYBODY
I hate it when people beg someone with an excuse called ENDURANCE at the expense of her own Happiness

Well, A soldier who just came back from peacekeeping,,his blood might still be hot and will be aggressive now…

OP,tell your friend to leave him,, if she's chopping Awoof slap as a FIANCÉE by the time she's married she will be Living on ____________ fill in the gap

Pamberry:
He only 'slapped' her but the topic said 'beat'

very misleading


Did you ask what she said to him before he slapped her?

I'm not supporting the guy but before we start criticising him, we should know what really happened.
though, the guy shouldn't have gone to the extent of letting her pass the night somewhere else.


If he has been slapping the lady after every argument,then I think the relationship is not worth keeping. If it's the first time he'd do such, she should forgive him.

Matured soul.

Felt your comment.

You have spoken well.....she shud be careful anyway, I hope he is not the violent type......moreover what did she do to him,

Pamberry:
He only 'slapped' her but the topic said 'beat'

very misleading


Did you ask what she said to him before he slapped her?

I'm not supporting the guy but before we start criticising him, we should know what really happened.
though, the guy shouldn't have gone to the extent of letting her pass the night somewhere else.


If he has been slapping the lady after every argument,then I think the relationship is not worth keeping. If it's the first time he'd do such, she should forgive him.

What if he is not the violent guy but got out of line due to something she said or did that made him react that way. It could be a mistake you know.

ststyreal:
Continue wetin Y do we woman like suffering and smiling like dis?. Please my dear sister, zoom out of that relationship it isn't healthy for u. This marriage u people are dying for isn't an easy union, it takes a loving and God fearing man to make it a happy and joyous one for u and of course Gods presence in d life of both partner. Please, my dear sister, leave that man before he disfigure ur remaining face. U need a patient and loving man to bring out d woman in u and not a micheal Tyson of a so called military fiancee. My humble suggestion tho.