If your GF likes another guy who would you blame him or your GF?

The issue is not in liking another guy.That is as natural as the word natural can possibly depict.
Even as a married woman U are not immune to developing some form of attraction to another man.
Believe me nobody has a monopoly of desirable attributes.
The real issue wld be what she goes ahead to do about it,and the role the guy plays.Only then can the blame game begin.

Bolarge u r too philisophical. If your girlfriend sleeps around is an issue. Nothing wrong with her getting to like another brova.

If you must blame someone, blame your girl. The last thing in a guy's mind before banging a chic is to feel sorry for her man.

@ tonyobj
E gba mi. Ds is the #1 problem in Nigeria.When did like=sex?
  The topic of the thread dt I can see is "If your girlfriend likes another guy" It cld easily have been titled ' If your girlfriend is sleeping with another guy"
  That is why I ended my contribution by sayin "it's what she goes ahead to do dt is the issue".

who is this thickhead,u're not specific enough is it like or sumthing else cos i don't think there anything wrong in someone lykin anybody he/she wishes to.

Myself, for being very slack.

girlfriend of course. and what did the other guy do to you?

Like, Love, admire, whatever. You've got issues if she's is in a position she can express the feeling. I don't want to know my girl "likes" another man. Same as girls don't want know their man likes another girl, even if it's platonic.

na die na 4 the girl na, shuuu, e go RED for am

@ Topic

Ermm. . . .you would most definitely have to blame yourself big time. . . .

I'll say go search yourself and take care of your supposed short comings, . . . . .

Bolarge:

The issue is not in liking another guy.That is as natural as the word natural can possibly depict.
Even as a married woman U are not immune to developing some form of attraction to another man.
Believe me nobody has a monopoly of desirable attributes.
The real issue would be what she goes ahead to do about it,and the role the guy plays.Only then can the blame game begin.

i definitely agree with all u said

Surely, this topic has some life left in it. Let's keep it going a little while longer, shall we?

I wont blame anyone of them, i will simply move on and like someone else!

wat kind of like are we talking abt hia?

true
if its a simple platonis like hell u should be happy for urselt
if not, well go get urself checked
either way its wat she does with her liking that should matter

@poster, if u actually meant 'like' (not lust or love for another dude), gawd! I'll be de most happy b/f.
Na im be say, i go get wahala wif my pple, friends, colleagues, neighbours, etc. if i eventually marry her.