Breasts! Men notice, admire, imagine and long
for them. Sometimes women reveal very little,
and they muse on what they can’t see.
Yet amid obsessing over what they’re dying to see
and touch, they know very little about breasts as
women themselves perceive them. So to find the
truth, some female s*x experts were consulted and
more than 700 women wee surveyed.
Everything you need to know is here, and it’s
stamped official because it comes from chest
owners.

Women Don’t Think Men Are Total Pigs About
This: Three-quarters of the women asked think
men’s fascination with breasts is harmless.
Seventy percent assume most guys are b**b
men. “I love it when men look at my breasts,”
says Rachel, 23. “It makes me feel powerful, and
there’s something carnal about it.” Of course, this
is neither a ticket to leer nor an invitation to
make crass comments, even in jest. “There’s
really no excuse for not being courteous or
maintaining eye contact with women,” says Debby
Herbenick, Ph.D., a s*xual-health researcher at
Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute and the
Men’s Health s*x Professor. So mind your
manners, revel in breasts privately, respect them
publicly, and revere the women who bring them
into your life. For what would life be without
them?

Many Women Love Their Breasts More than You
Do: Most of the women surveyed consider their
breasts to be key parts of their s*xual identity, as
opposed to fashion accessories or mere body
parts. Sixty-two percent think it’s more exciting
to pull off their tops than their bottoms, and 78
percent prefer the woman-on-top position
because it shows off their breasts better during
s*x. “A woman should be proud of her breasts,”
says Vicky, 23. “They’re miracles of evolution, as
versatile as a Swiss Army knife: baby feeder,
pleasure enhancer, compliment grabber.” They
often use them to their advantage, too—87
percent of women we surveyed think women who
make an effort to show off their breasts receive
preferential treatment.

Women Can Be Deeply Conflicted About Their
Breasts: As women grow up, emotions related to
their breasts may set in. “I happen to love my
breasts now—but growing up, it wasn’t always
like that,” says Levkoff. The fact that breasts are
ever-changing only complicates matters. The
average woman changes cup sizes six times
during her adult life. Monthly cycles, birth-control
pills, weight changes, pregnancy, and
breastfeeding all alter the size, shape, and feel of
breasts. “The sexiest thing a woman can wear is
her self-confidence,” says Elisabeth Squires, the
author of b**bs: A Guide to Your Girls. “If she’s
the least bit insecure, then work to help her feel
good about her body.” All you need, she says, is
genuine enthusiasm, which probably won’t be a
problem.

In Bed, You Know Nothing About Them : Men tend
to have two “touching” defaults, says Herbenick.
“They tend to either touch her the way they enjoy
being touched (which usually means firmer or
rougher), or the way a previous partner liked it.”
In either case, she may not like it that way at all.

“Every woman will feel differently about her
breasts,” Levkoff says. Here’s how to deal: Every
time a woman takes off her bra in your presence,
wipe away all memory of previous breasts. This
works even if she is your partner of many years.
Start over by pretending you’ve never seen them
before. “You learn and relearn how someone
moans, sighs, and squeals when you touch them,”
Herbenick says. “You will never have to slip into
an old routine.”


Breasts Can Intensify a Couple’s Emotional
Bond: “Breasts aren’t just about s*x,” says
Levkoff, “and when you recognize that, we are
very appreciative.” Learn to desexualize moments
of great intimacy. For example, while you’re
sitting on the couch watching TV with her, the
simple act of laying with your head on her chest
can give a woman powerful maternal feelings
toward you (in a good way), says Levkoff.
Another tip: If a woman complains about her
breasts being sore, offer to massage them, says
Squires. Again, in a nonsexual way, if you can,
that is. “chest massage can feel incredible, and
it’s not something we can ask for at the spa,”
she says.

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I concur.

Just making it obvious your looking at and wanting a woman's breast can get her hor.NY no doubt

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