Hello pals....there's dis issue ve been pondering about for quite some days now n i need sincere advise n opinions on it.....i wld be as precise as i can cos am not an apostle of long epistles n i also observe most Nigerians ve a phobia for reading long write-ups.......ve been in and out of several relationships for trivial reasons...i walked out of my last relationship some months ago (based on d fact dat i needed to re-evaluate myself n locate my dream wife) n i observed dat ever since den,dat"love or romantic part"of me has gone cold or almost dead,i no longer develop feelings for ladies,i jst look at dem n dats it,notin like dating any of dem comes to mind,its been going on for like 6months n counting....my worry now is dat i plan getting married next year by Gods grace yet no prospective wife in view....i must mention dat life has realy been tough for quite somtime now but being an optimist,i beliv its jst a passing phase,(am armed wt an hnd in civil engineerng,so d future is quite bright wt God's favor as my shield).....worthy of mention is d fact dat,in d past,i always ve dis xperience of loving ladies widout feelings for me n ignoring dos dat wld do anytin jst to be wt me.....pls pals,how do i revive d "romantic part"of me n love again...i mean give love n get loved in return cos am not getting younger..seems i ended up writing an epistle..lolz..sorry bout dat n thanks for taking time to read thru my plight... Eagerly anticipating ur comments

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Bros, u need wife? I hav a wife for u!

epistle of life..
If this is your first letter to nairalanders,I wonder how the second one go long

Anyways I will come back to advice u wen av my bath,eat breakfast and watch football... hmmn dat will be 8pm

May God help u out of ur plight

Crap

Relax, it happens as such, as we grow older we tend to realize that romance and all that issh are nothing but fairy tale, yoy need to reevaluate yourself first and start loving yourself as well.
You can't give love when you don't love yourself

Been in this situation before

Hmmmmm....I guess i shdnt ve posted dis here......

Hmmmmm....I guess i shdnt ve posted dis here......tnx niggi