Bevy12:
if he is my boyfriend then I'll leave him but if he's my husband then I'll confront him because since he decided to marry me, he should be able to keep his zip up.

Even if he apologises and maybe a first timer? Considering the world we are in now and the sayinhbthat men are polygamus in nature,will u leave d boyfriend go unto.d next and d next cheats also.

misspicy:

Where af u been girl I wanted you to take the first sit

Lol

adedayourt:

ok i dey cum
mke i chop finish

Na rock you dey chop wey u never chop finish?

Revenge/retaliation is a medium for continuous wrongdoings/hatred/bitrerness.. two wrongs can't make half a right.. you cheat, I forgive. We move on

misspicy:

Na rock you dey chop wey u never chop finish?

d beans no don b4 a comot am fr fire so na teeth i take dey finish d cooking

RedCard1:
He's already cheating on you with Lady F and SUGERBEE. What will you do about that? But then again, there's sense in what you said

Lol warrisdis!!!

Behira:
Men and dia wahala is like ice-cream flavours so many trouble....so its beta dey stay in da friendzone and do not extend dat level.

What if the man is your husband, how do you friendzone him?

Well ..
if a man cheats.. then he loses his respect... I can't see that man as the same anymore......


Let's women stop copying the characters of women in the west coast...
We are Africans

Just forgive and Leave him. Why cheat and stoop to his level!

What good does it do for in the long run to retaliate?

I dont give anyone that much power over me. Only God has that power!

I mourn and then i get up and get on with it

I dont know what I would do, I just dont know and I dont wanna know.

misspicy:

I love the way you reason it buh dont u tink that is too harsh? Atleast for a 1st timer who also apologise and will u do same in marriage considering the way many men become randy this days

I don't think I can ever forgive cheating. That's the ultimate betrayal for me. It turns off any loving feelings I might have had for a person. Husband or boyfriend, I don't think it'd matter because the feeling of betrayal feels the same.

nairalife2013:
u never jamb a real guy yet...pray for luck to come yur way...and bring a loaded good looking young dude yur way that would love and spoil u, I MEAN SPOIL U and render u helplessly in love in return...yur perception abt life will change.

Without much experience, some few ladies still tell when a seed is a peascot and act right in comment and action.

Been there, done that & I still walked. Took me YEARS to get over the bitterness, anger etc. Hence I believe I'm not built for it. I'd NEVER tolerate it for a second.

Jollyjoy:
cant help but wonder the number of exes you already have... 17 and still counting Lolll.

I can count them on one hand because I'm not a dyck hopper. Any more curiosities I can answer?

Sadly we cant 100% do Anything to curb men's habit of cheating...Deal with it or Leave it

Some guys cheat without thinking... Some just get trapped.. Ill take first time as a mistake, a second one its over.

misspicy:

Even if he apologises and maybe a first timer? Considering the world we are in now and the sayinhbthat men are polygamus in nature,will u leave d boyfriend go unto.d next and d next cheats also.

Don't you know first times can turn to a habit

PunkyVeer:


Been there, done that & I still walked. Took me YEARS to get over the bitterness, anger etc. Hence I believe I'm not built for it. I'd NEVER tolerate it for a second.

your heart is possessed of inherent bitterness forged by unseen hands since birth...thatz what they say of extremists. U do not see what moderate normal folks see in the long run. It could rob off on other facets of your life indirectly, including motherhood and other social nubs. Soften up. Pls Life is not that extreme.

nairalife2013:
your heart is possessed of inherent bitterness forged by unseen hands since birth. U do not see what moderate normal folks see in the long run. It could rob off on other facets of your life indirectly, including motherhood and other social nubs. Soften up. Pls Life is not that extreme.

Excuse me? My life, my rules. It's that simple, really. And btw, I do have a normal life like everyone one. I just don't appreciate being bleeped with, that's when the chill takes over.

Well am honored to be here u know ave been into different relationship n I think relationship isn't really my thing den am gave up


But now am in a relationship a distance one what am I saying in relationship u need to prepare for the worst likewise in marriage it do come to an end in some cases but we in relationship especially need to prepare for anything dat come our way whether cheating of breaking of trust in some cases when u have a cheating partner n u think u can't stand it or u are too sensitive to cheating QUITING is allowed NOT ALL RELATIONSHIP LEAD TO MARRIAGE n if u can cope with it den it worth trying cus in marriage it worst dan dis so what are my saying it either u QUIT or stick around and turn ur partner to a better man no one is perfect PATIENT,is the key to every successful human in life YES I was patient,am patient and am eating the fruit of my labor LADIES WE CAN DO IT it woeth trying for the man u LOVE


#TRYPA#

Lanicky

Behira:
All this headache abt men......dey are just good to be kept as JUST FRIENDS notin more.

And u tink u ladies re beta off without guys

*shakes head*


Wen u clock 30,32,34,36 without hubby...u wil knw d benefit of kipin us as "Just friends"

luubbish

DharmyYinks:

And u tink u ladies re beta off without guys

*shakes head*


Wen u clock 30,32,34,36 without hubby...u wil knw d benefit of kipin us as "Just friends"

luubbish

Dia is no wia it is written dat Marriage is a gateway to makin heaven.....and moreover dia are lots of marriages dis days dat dont need men. Men are just headaches. To live longer they are beta friendzoned

Ginaz:
I dont know what I would do, I just dont know and I dont wanna know.

And what if it happens to you

Behira:
Dia is no wia it is written dat Marriage is a gateway to makin heaven.....and moreover dia are lots of marriages dis days dat dont need men. Men are just headaches. To live longer they are beta friendzoned

Marriages dat dnt nid men? Wat do dey nid...women


I can fil ur pain....let ur brokenheart be healed

DharmyYinks:

Marriages dat dnt nid men? Wat do dey nid...women


I can fil ur pain....let ur brokenheart be healed

Lol a guy cant break my heart except it is a she

Op, we kids dey vex ooh
This is disguised e-apartheid nah
At least we pick one or two things from you adults abi?

Behira:
Lol a guy cant break my heart except it is a she

Lezbiyan!

Pls gimme ur home/office/church address . You gotta be arrested !

Sabrwahaqqo:


Lezbiyan!

Pls gimme ur home/office/church address . You gotta be arrested !

wud mail it to u

Jollyjoy:
not all women jare,deal with which lady,the lady is not at fault,who knws the kinda expensive lies the guy might have tell just to win her heart...





I dnt even mind colaborating with the lady just to teach him a lesson...

seriously, dis is what comes to my myd when hear dat a guy/lady cheat,esp. when dey are not married.

Behira:
wud mail it to u

Haha ! She dares to be under the circus af my detention
Heart af a tiger hun?

Behira:
Lol a guy cant break my heart except it is a she

I tot so...

This is one deep thread...

PunkyVeer:
Cheating is a very sensitive issue for me, so I'd never waste my energy going after the other woman or try to get even. I'd simply leave the relationship. Once my trust is broken, there's no turning back.

ok, so you leave and what happens, you meet another man and what happens if he cheats? There is a very big possibility that he might cheat and then you leave again because the trust has been broken?

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