PunkyVeer:


Well, I don't subscribe to that school of thoughts, fortunately. Lol @ know why he cheated, what happened. It doesn't take rocket science to figure that one out. Marriage is a contract between two people, where each swears to abide by its laws, so when one is in breach, it's no longer valid imo. Kids or not, that's not the reason to stay in a situation you're disrespected in. A kid is better be from a broken home than be raised in one.

xtervaganza:
funny how guys here seem to be blaming this woman for her hubby's madness




would any of you guys stay married with a woman who sleeps around?
Last time he hit me becos a guy say wow u ve a cute wife
And when we came home he said becos i overdressed n lead to argument n he hit me.
What i dont get is his sooo justified in d cheating n abuse. This somebody we started from the scratch..




or how would you feel if someone tries to blame you for your wife cheating on you

xtervaganza:
youre right in a way


i wouldnt stay in a marriage where my woman sleeps around, i cant forgive that

PunkyVeer:


Exactly! And no self respecting person should.

PunkyVeer:


Well, I don't subscribe to that school of thoughts, fortunately. Lol @ know why he cheated, what happened. It doesn't take rocket science to figure that one out. Marriage is a contract between two people, where each swears to abide by its laws, so when one is in breach, it's no longer valid imo. Kids or not, that's not the reason to stay in a situation you're disrespected in. A kid is better be from a broken home than be raised in one.

Sabrwahaqqo:
Sister, just don't look there uhn, concentrate on your life and the lives af ur kids abeg.

One af dese days, He'll locate his lost senses when one af those girls from the hottest part af hell teach him lesson(s).

Or if you're bent on revenge just wait for him till he gets a compulsory retirement from the hands of old age / sickness and begin your own bounce back as a cougar ... I know you won't want to end your life on that note tho

So, the absolute answer is Patience; steadfastness endurance and perseverance . With mild doses af prayers for him yourself and your kids

Milla247:


Thanks
Patience it is.. No matter how hard.
i actually got a text from one girl dunno her that try n control ur dog husband.
Monday to sunday club . Weda new year Christmas. Whenever. That i would always forgive him
Differnt girls
Spends hundreds of thousand there.
Before when he comes back i shout cry etc
Buh now am so numb somehow.. I dnt even say anything anymore.. Which is better for my sanity. He feels justify when he hits me when drunk.

Gboliwe:


https://www.nairaland.com/2354889/please-save-me-myself-husband/11#34398233

My advice, follow his footsteps and even outdo and outpray him

Milla247:

So I should move out wit my kids till he gets some sense
December it is

MrsPhyno:

My dear it's not just in your opinion, thats the freaking law. Simple and short. I'm gonna quote you on this if you don't mind, I like the statement

PunkyVeer:


Now you know I never tell lies

MrsPhyno:

i trust u

PunkyVeer:


As you should. Kikiki. Hope you're well, btw

MrsPhyno:

Aw yes I'm fine thanks. If not for school I would still be the obnoxious, addicted to NL person I normally am

How are things on your side?

PunkyVeer:


Awesome. All the best with that Same old on my side, nothing worth mentioning

MrsPhyno:

lol hope that's a good thing. the fact that things are 'same same'

whats your accent like btw.... seems like it would be nice
I'm practically accent-less, but I have a bit left over from Nigeria. Just telling u mine so it wont be like im jus demanding u to supply info witout telling u anything

PunkyVeer:


Exactly! And no self respecting person should.