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Christianity Etc › Re: For Catholics: Who Is Your Favorite Saint? by 25more(f): 11:11am On Dec 15, 2008

[quote author=Sea~Goddes link=topic=204059.msg3225907#msg3225907 date=1229335258]yes, she really need help cause depression is such a hard thing for one to go through alone, here is three that i know

St. Dympna parton of mental illness
St. Jude parton of the helpless and hopeless people or cases
and of course our mother mary parton of all who love and care kiss

here is a prayer of St. jude for relationship problem if that is what is her some hard time

"Saint Jude, we have problems in our relationship. Beg Almighty God to give us the light to see ourselves and each other as we really are. Help us to grow daily in self-knowledge and mutual love, while at the same time developing our potential to love and be loved. Help us, Saint Jude, to see and root out every manifestation of selfishness, vanity, and childish self-seeking -- those hidden enemies of love and maturity. Show us that by learning to love and being filled with love, we may complement and nurture each other as we share our lives together." Amen[/quote]thanks girl , really helpful and what a beautiful prayer kiss

i will definitely show her these so that she can have a fun life again!

Christianity Etc › Re: For Catholics: Who Is Your Favorite Saint? by 25more(f): 10:48am On Dec 15, 2008

great topic!

@ all who is the patron saint of depression cause my friend needs more Jesus right now she is going through some of diffculties in her life, so i need to get her a saint she can really relate to.

Romance › Re: Why? by 25more(f): 8:38am On Dec 10, 2008

i guess cox they are afraid that their power and control will be taken away from them cry

, since society tells them that they ones who should be in control

Romance › Re: Re: What Can U Give Ur Love This Xmas & Sallar? by 25more(f): 12:19am On Dec 05, 2008

[quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=204009.msg3183004#msg3183004 date=1228432532]He's not doing it on purpose.
It's the phone. . . .he's not the first one to do it.
I think he clicked sth on the phone, as he was replying to the threads, that made a new thread

Just hope Deshannel can work on that[/quote]this is not the first time, what can of phone can that be that allows him to repeat this all the time? he just want attention

Romance › Re: Re: What Can U Give Ur Love This Xmas & Sallar? by 25more(f): 12:10am On Dec 05, 2008

seems like u do is go around creating new thread on ppls topic instead of replying to the orginal one. nonsense

Romance › Re: What Can U Give Ur Love this Xmas & Sallar? by 25more(f): 7:20am On Dec 04, 2008

i'm going to give him a dozen red roses kiss

Romance › Re: What Will You Do To Keep Your Relationship Alive? by 25more(f): 7:13am On Dec 04, 2008

commuincate always, talk about things in the relationship that u like and dont, learn to settle conflicts amicable
have an open mind, and be honest, lying helps no one
be trustworthy of each other
try to spend more time together and doing things u both enjoy
learn to forgive and forget pasts omens of the relationship
learn to accept that no one is perfect
learn to give and dnt expect much in return

for now this are few that comes to mind on how to Keep my RA

Romance › Re: Should Woman Propose Marriage To Man? by 25more(f): 5:47am On Dec 03, 2008

SeanT21:
No woman should ask her man for his hands into marriage.Its the man Job.Some things are better left to man!!

Plus if he says NO,That will scar us for life.We woman are Way too emotional!!

not every woman is too emotional, i'm not shocked

, i'm very hard headed, if he says no i move on cool

Romance › Re: If A Guy Or Lady Is Cheating On You The Night Before Wedding What Will You Do by 25more(f): 4:27am On Dec 03, 2008

since it is the day b4 the wedding i will slowly swallow it, cox i dnt want to disappoint my guests coming 4rom far and beyond, then after the wedding we will match to divorce court, if no better reasons are given to justify his actions.

Romance › Re: Can You Catch Yourself Before You Fall In Love? by 25more(f): 4:20am On Dec 03, 2008

i think the first one is true, they sense then block it either cox they are scared of loosing their free single lifestyle, or they want some thing else

Romance › Re: Re: Love, Respect And Protect Our Girls And Women Before It Is Too Late by 25more(f): 12:47am On Dec 03, 2008

Timmmy:
Pele o mr English master. what kind of thing is this for Christ sake? so because you want to mock someone you open another thread. i can see that you are not mature enough to be on Nairaland. Wait o! are you up to 18? so many people are here benefiting something good, you are busy making English. Is english our papa language? c'mon you dey make me vese. go and seat down and think. please behave yoursef next time.

lol

Romance › Re: Re: Love, Respect And Protect Our Girls And Women Before It Is Too Late by 25more(f): 12:24am On Dec 03, 2008

[quote author=T_bag link=topic=203039.msg3173232#msg3173232 date=1228259522]@ Dashannel.

Why would you hae to create a new thread?[/quote]what do u expect from someone who thinks with half brain, nonsense. the only thing he is good at is insulting people and talking rubbish angry

Romance › Re: Re: Love, Respect And Protect Our Girls And Women Before It Is Too Late by 25more(f): 12:08am On Dec 03, 2008

Deshannel:
@chika
R u trying 2 contradict yourself because thats ma point
I simply stated using d word 'think' because kids wit single parents tend 2 grow up smarter n well exposed. Only d stupid ones follow peer presure.
@25
U post like a kid. Grow up. There r other polite way 2 post. Av'nt u had bout d word cheeky.

i dnt have time to waste on someone like u, who is very stupid to understand common sense thinking. i dnt blame u, u never had a breast milk, i guess u were fed with a cow's milk thats why u think and write with half brain cry

Romance › Re: Should Woman Propose Marriage To Man? by 25more(f): 11:58pm On Dec 02, 2008

OgidiBoy:
If a girl loves a guy and wants to marry him, what's wrong with her proposing to him. Although I thinks it's going to far if she gets on her knees to propose. I've been asked by so many Nigerian girls to marry them, but I always turn them turn

who are we going to ask to confirm this ur fairytale story? OR could it be a typo ? maybe u meant to say the opposite grin

Romance › Re: Will You Consider A Divorce If Your Spouse Is Sterile? by 25more(f): 11:54pm On Dec 02, 2008

[quote author=cooldud62* link=topic=202980.msg3172929#msg3172929 date=1228255298]every one knows my stance on this,

for those gurls who "have done alot"
they will be the first to preach adoption,
thats why you should know your patner so well before marriage.[/quote]what if the infidelity occurred in the marriage? u can never know ur whoevers too well everyday is a lesson yet to be learned

Romance › Re: Should Woman Propose Marriage To Man? by 25more(f): 11:47pm On Dec 02, 2008

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=203020.msg3173064#msg3173064 date=1228257042]I would let u make all the decisions if u propose to me. . . . .It's no rocket science.[/quote]yea right! i serious doubt it, i would believed you if u weren't from a patriarchy society called nigeria or u were under a spell

Romance › Re: Love, Respect And Protect Our Girls And Women Before It Is Too Late by 25more(f): 11:41pm On Dec 02, 2008

Deshannel:
@25
How old r u by d way?

what has age got to do with this mister?

Romance › Re: Love, Respect And Protect Our Girls And Women Before It Is Too Late by 25more(f): 11:38pm On Dec 02, 2008

sistawoman:
I don't think we really want to debate whether single parenthood or double parenthood is better because we all know that having two is better than one.

But the truth of the matter is most responsible single parents throw their lives into their children and work doubly hard to make up for the missing parent.

Like in our house my boys cook, clean, wash clothes, take out the trash, cut the grass, etc. They did not learn these things on their own but by doing them side by side with me. All of this quality time is used to teach.

I never let an opportunity slip by w/o teaching them something, even if we are sitting down and watching TV or riding in the car, there is a life lesson to be learned. Because as single parents we know the chips and statics are stacked against us the responsible ones make every effort not to have our kids repeat our mistakes and make sure they have all the knowledge that we were not afforded.

i wasnt arguing about single parents being irresponsible and 2 parent being the other. neither was i condenming single parenthood, as with everything there are always an execption . some single parents are very responsible and have more time to be with their kids. but i still stand my on position kids would learn more from their parents when they have two of them. they are certain things a father can teach his boys and they will listen and understand from him, and the same with the girls and their mothers. and there things mothers would teach their boys that will just listen and dnt apply to their lives and fathers and their girls too. and many other things so this is just one of the reasons i believe in my position.

Romance › Re: Should Woman Propose Marriage To Man? by 25more(f): 11:23pm On Dec 02, 2008

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=203020.msg3172969#msg3172969 date=1228255837]Why not??
In this day and age of sex equality. . . . .I wouldn't mind if u are on one knee at Trafalgar square proposing to me on a sunny afternoon.
Make sure the ring is frostbitten though. wink

[/quote]i would only desperately do it if the man will also allow me to be making all the decision in the marriage not tomorrow he will tell i am the man i make the decisions, then i will tell he i proposed to u , i married u, u have to obey me. and i dnt think any nigeria man would want their wives telling them this, so this chust one of the reasons why the men should propose not the females.

Romance › Re: Love, Respect And Protect Our Girls And Women Before It Is Too Late by 25more(f): 11:10pm On Dec 02, 2008

Deshannel:
@25
Nope.i should av stated this earlier. Single parents might not hav d time. BUT d bond wit his/her child is stronger than that of a two parent.
So he/she more chances to teach kid bout sex because d parent-child relationship is stronger

how can a single parents have more bond with their children than 2 parents? he/she has to work everytime to support the kids/ cook/clean/ i mean do everything whereas, 2 parents one works or two works but they will still have more time to discuss things with their kids. even if the father dnt do it the mum would. i guess maybe we have different views on what constutites a single parents and what they do, but i still think it is the opposite.
i dnt mean to say that single parents dnt have bond with kids, having one parent makes it eaiser for the person to relate to their parent, cox he/she is the only one you have but i think when there 2 parents they learn certain things from each of their parents.

Romance › Re: Love, Respect And Protect Our Girls And Women Before It Is Too Late by 25more(f): 10:58pm On Dec 02, 2008

[quote author=T_bag link=topic=202720.msg3172879#msg3172879 date=1228254673]In as much as your submission is true, I think environment of should be considered and it could sure "up" the reasons for these negative behaviors. . . .[b]moreover, are these responsible for rape and the consequenses of rape as the Initial topic wants to discuss?[/b]To be honestthe law enforcement in Nigeria is quite sad and the judicial system is pathetic too. But it must be made clear that most Nigerians even don't know how to present their cases. The Police guys could be annoyingbut trust me, when you make it clear to them that you are serious about your case , they tend to sit tight.

Moreover, they would want to prosecute the criminal to the latter knowing fully well they will milk "him" too

There is still justice in Nigeria. . . .it's just that it's quite expensive in Nigeria to do than rest of the world.[/quote]i wasnt replying to the poster, as u can see from quoting me, i quoted someone and was replying to that particular reply

Romance › Re: Should Woman Propose Marriage To Man? by 25more(f): 10:52pm On Dec 02, 2008

i'm still very young ,fresh, and sexy too kiss

so thats for women who are old and very desperate for marriage, anywaxs i dnt think any woman should do that no matter how desperate they are. it is a man's job and they should do it. women doing it would seem like they are now begging the man to marry them and then the man would use them as their toys afterall weren't she the one who asked him to marry her

Romance › Re: Love, Respect And Protect Our Girls And Women Before It Is Too Late by 25more(f): 10:38pm On Dec 02, 2008

Deshannel:
I think kids brotup in a single parent family tends 2 know more bout d good n bad about sex than dose brougt up by 2 parents.

it is actually the opposite in a study conducted it was actually girls who were raised in a single family that cited that the most reason for having sex early was due to their father absence in their life. no father figure to caution them and at least direct them on certain things especially boys.

here are some of the reasons why teens dont use contractptions and have sex

1)ignorance 2) guilt related to sexual activity 3) minimal commuication about birth control 4) alcohol use 5) mass media norms of unprotected promiscuity

here are some reasons some of the why teens abstain from sex

1)high intelligence 2) religiosltiy 3) father presence 4)participation in service learning programs

Romance › Re: Love, Respect And Protect Our Girls And Women Before It Is Too Late by 25more(f): 8:59pm On Dec 02, 2008

Janeesa:
ABSTINENCE IS THE KEY NOT CONDOMS!!!! CONDOMS don't DO SHIT, THEY ARENT EVEN 60 PERCENT SAFE TALK LESS OF 80!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

no abstinence wouldnt help, we are in different world if it was in 18 century where sex wasnt glamourous and everyone had same mindset, it would have been alot effective but now things have changed, sex is everywhere and people talk about, sex education is more effective because not everyone can abstain 4rom sex so it is better u teach people how to be safe while having sex.

also condoms are very effective when it is used probably, people just have to learn to wear and use it probably

Romance › Re: Will You Consider A Divorce If Your Spouse Is Sterile? by 25more(f): 8:47pm On Dec 02, 2008

i wouldnt i love him with my life, we will just opt for adoption or we contiune to live life without children afterall not every married couple who are unsterile have kids. it will give us opportunity to travel all around the world

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Drop Your Email Id Lets All Meet Each Other by 25more(f): 7:37pm On Dec 02, 2008

big father:
You don't need to be harsh naa !

wetin dey worri u sef undecided

i drop my email, where is urs?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Drop Your Email Id Lets All Meet Each Other by 25more(f): 5:27am On Dec 02, 2008

dontbesilly angry

@yahoogoat.com

Romance › Re: The Metamorphosis Of A Love Affair by 25more(f): 3:09am On Dec 02, 2008

190:
i can only wait 4 8mins
anyway 25%more--how u dey
i love u ok
i really do

i dey kampe thanks 4 asking cheesy

u nko

how ur relationship de work out? that girl still de give u headache, or everything ok now?

Celebrities › Re: Celebrities With Intergrity That You Really Admire As Role Models by 25more(f): 3:01am On Dec 02, 2008

aze:

wat

u have a problem with dat undecided

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