Help me,I am fed up of being lonely,I want to start approaching girls, but I
just get a lump in my chest whenever I try to.Its so frustrating, my friends all
have more than one girl,but I am left with none,and the most painful part is
that my friends think I am one big boss that gets all the babe,but no.....i am addicted to porn and pua rantings for 6 years now,help me,my life was better four years from now,i need advice to get rid of porn and stop learning to be a pickup artist(pua)....I am fed up,i have been wanking since last week,am still about to self-service to some priya rai's porn ...its just addictive,I can't get on over it,and also as for pua,I have read all books,from brad p,to Neil Strauss,to vindicarlo,Ross Jefferies, mystery,but I have not used anything advised by these guys because they are just ridiculous, and I think its deteriorating me...I am currently reading vindicarlo's attraction code...its frustrating, I want a girlfriend, a good one,and I want to live like a human again.... And every time I try to approach a girl,I just feel that I don't deserve her,or have a feeling that its gonna get bad,or maybe,its because of the past girls I tried have something with,it always gets abusive,or the have a kinda beef with my sister,I recently have one I am tailing,I asked her out,she said NO,but I feel bad,and I don't want to get abusive with her like my past,I love her,I guess and I thought she loved me too.....pls
help me get my love life handled.Thanks.

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GOD HELP YOU

so because she didn't go out with you,you want to get abusive?

IamLEGEND1:
so because she didn't go out with you,you want to get abusive?

[bro you are not helping my situation

,pls help

Bro 1+1 is not always 2. Even if you plan your moves very well, you may not get the girl you want everytime. That's life. Accept that and move on. Stay off porn too.

I think you should build friendship with a few ladies. Nothing romantic. Just platonic stuff. Be free with them as if they are fellow guys and enjoy their company. Evenyually, you will either attract one of them or their friends and you won't be frustrated in case you don't find a woman on time.

Women are great friends. Have them around you always. They will shape you into a guy whom other ladies will find desirable.

First off, how old r u?

OP, sit back and think... Only you can put an end to whatever u're passing through... Same way the books u've read swhch seems ridiculed to you, is the same way advices here will sound...

It's better u make out plans and ponder on ur ideas daily!...

Be a man! And stop thinking like a gay!

AfroKnight:
Bro 1+1 is not always 2. Even if you plan your moves very well, you may not get the girl you want everytime. That's life. Accept that and move on. Stay off porn too.

I think you should build friendship with a few ladies. Nothing romantic. Just platonic stuff. Be free with them as if they are fellow guys and enjoy their company. Evenyually, you will either attract one of them or their friends and you won't be frustrated in case you don't find a woman on time.

Women are great friends. Have them around you always. They will shape you into a guy whom other ladies will find desirable.

Thanks for the advice

]I am 17 ]am 17

Sabrwahaqqo:
First off, how old r u?

I am 17 ]am 17

darkhorizon:
]I am 17 ]am 17 :-XI am 17 ]am 17

I was planning and working on my admission when I was your age not chasing after pusee this wildly... Place your life on the right track and girls will fall in willingly. You won't have to sweat it this bad there and then

That was my exact response to a 17 year old cousin asking me to help on tips wooing a girl he fancies... A word is enough for the wise

darkhorizon:
Thanks for the advice

You're welcome

No one can assist you to overcome masturbati*n but yourself. You have to determine you want to stop and resist every urge that could make you indulge. From what you said you have read extensively on tips on how help you get over it but you can't seem to stop, which makes me question your resolve and obstinacy to resist it. Here are some suggestions which might help;

First off, never look at ponographic materials and contents that are suggestive in nature, if you have any in your gadget(s) excise them. Never use your hands roughly on your gentitals as this has the capability of arousing mast*rbating urges, when in the shower room do as quickly as you can, the longer your bath session last the likelihood of you stimulating your organ. I also think you should try as much as possible not to stay alone, always seek to stay around people. If you live with parents or relatives whenever you feel the urge leave the room and be with someone. Take up new hobbies if you have lost spark with your present ones; you can take a walk, tune into inspirational songs whenever you feel the urge to mast*rbate. The temptation might resurrect at night when in bed alone and this is where you've to resist and fight it. Engage in purposeful activities when alone in the bedroom at night; perhaps read bestseller novels, purchase religious cd's and listen to motivational teachings until you doze off.You're responsible for your every move and the subject of your thoughts, you must divert them to something useful at any point the urge to indulge sets in.

In regard to your inability to have a girlfriend it could be that you're too forward thereby coming off as desperate or your body language and character when approaching a lady doesn't exude one with confidence. You prolly see a choice lady and think oh she's a godess...how can I win her over? This mindset alone is enough to diminute confidence and sense of purpose. You have to be gutsy, every woman likes a man with great self-confidence.

But confidence towards approaching women doesn't just augment overnight, it's nursed. I personally think the more one dates and mix up with ladies, the more their experience expand and so their confidence develops. In effect, for you to crystallize your confidence you should socialize with as many ladies as possible. With the will, you'd become good friends with one who might find you attractive. It's in every man to make a woman grow to love and feel attracted to them. Once good friends seek to discover what particularly it takes to win her heart and submit yourself to ensuring you fulfill what resonates within her heart chambers. Gain her trust, confidence, be nice, caring and make her smile and laugh even as you keep being yourself. With time, she'd be come fond of you and then you can move to initiate a relationship by asking her out. I'm not a fan of asking a girl who I am friends with and who's fond of me out. I just spot the right moment at the right atmosphere to spontaneously lock lips with hers without her putting up resistance prolly coz she has been anticipating for such moment, and a relationship ensues. I could have expatiate on how to go about this but this is too long already. Hope it helps though. Good luck mate.

IamLEGEND1:
so because she didn't go out with you,you want to get abusive?

i like that woman.. she is very funny. she was explaining how fire burnt her building, to the press...

choi....DJ soapy u again?