By Pastor Daniel K Olukoya
General Overseer Montain of Fire Ministry (MFM)

1. Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime.

2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.

3. Silence can never be misquoted.

4. If you want what no one has had, do what no one has done.

5. When God wants to bless you, he puts a person in your life; when Satan wants to destroy you, he puts a person in your life.

6. It is better to be single and alone, than to be married to the wrong person.

7. Avoid a contentious woman.

8. 3 Men to avoid: a. A womanizer b. A hot tempered man c. A drunkard.

9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.

10. Never be yoked to anyone who refuses to be yoked to Christ.

11. 3 words that echo peace in marriage: a. I am sorry b. Thank you c. I love you.

12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness.

13. Co-habitation is a recipe for marital failure.

14. Deal with anti-marriage dreams.

15. Masturbation is destructive.

16. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without sun.

17. If you rush into marriage, you may end up with a person who will bury your destiny.

18. A successful marriage is always a triangle: A man, A woman, God.

19. Why you marry is as important as who you marry.

20. Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice.

21. A man needs divine wisdom from God in choosing who to marry.

22. Do not place your priority on good looks: no woman is ugly: she only needs 'rebranding'.

23. 3 Major characteristics to look for in a woman: 1. Fear of God, 2. Wisdom, 3. Discretion (Beauty is vain).

24. The best way to enslave a woman is to show love to her excessively-as a rule, women do not run away from where they are pampered.

25. Love is not blind, infatuation and lust is blind.

26. Love puts God first, Lust puts sex first.

27. Test every love with your peace of mind, if peace of mind is absent, God is not in it.

28. If you are a true friend, you will attract true friends.

29. Caring hearts never lack caring hands.

30. Desperation leads to frustration.

31. Bad marriages can be avoided before they begin.

32. Keep yourself pure and your bed undefiled.

33. It is spiritual insanity to plan on converting someone so you can marry the person.

34. Wage war against the devil that fought your parents' marriage.

35. Marriage is a covenant, always look before you leap.

36. It is better to be single and believing God to be married than to be married and believing God to be single.

37. A broken courtship is better than a failed marriage.

38. Do not marry money or property, marry a person.

39. Be presentable.

STORY!

Read this before bit this is a good reminder

Act on the signs your SO gives you so it can save you of a failed marriage in the end.

40) Never starve your husband in his food : Both kitchen and Bedroom

This post is timely. Every sentence there is a fact. I call them principles. So many single fathers, mothers, divorces, failed and broken marriages out there. If only they knew these.

I command you moderator, moves this to the front page now. Tired of seeing junks making the frontpage

*Communication is vital in any relationship.

*When u are seriously pissed to the extent of reacting, take a deep breathe for about 30seconds, yes, 30 seconds is enuf to stop this phrase "had I known"