fairlyisabel:
@skii, I love listening to the pastor's message. His messages are highly informative and educative. Between, does love exist? I don't think so. I believe that getting married and staying married has more to do with tolerance and selflessness but that does not mean that you shouldn't run when you see danger signals during courtship.

Enoquin:
What a thread! I rarely come to romance, stumbled on this thread via recent posts yesterday. I do not fit the criteria, so I guess it is the sidelines for me.

Siamia, what a wonderful gift you've got at replying people. Being blunt and still coated with sugar. So, you are from Akwa Ibom? Lol

To the rest: Toks2008, Joebeckz, shi(I can't remember her username but she types so well) and the others...una well done.

Back to the sidelines...

IceDude:
Lol, nvm.....Gud morning

siamia:


@jeffrey,kinglekan and kingtom
Summoning urselves...are u the 3 musketeers? Abeg identify urselves ooo. U sound like ur running a thread inside this thread sef.

Absolutely not . But don't let me bore you with that.

Jeff was only teasing, am not up to 30 and would like to respect the purpose of the thread. Would rather ghost read and watch from the side lines, while I learn a thing or two.

Gracias!!

Dexema:

U dey fear say dem go gbabs @onstelly from u? Hahaha! Dont worry she doesn't seem like such a lady.

siamia:


@jeffrey,kinglekan and kingtom
Summoning urselves...are u the 3 musketeers? Abeg identify urselves ooo. U sound like ur running a thread inside this thread .

richommie:

morning bae..
#YolO

Toks2008:


You are absolutely right friend.

I must confess that i have no reason been single at this point in time and even after i parted with my ex i had and still have many options of ladies to pick from but the truth is that marriage is not what you just rush into.

Yes i had issues with my very lucrative business 3years back and like every human, no one in life is immune against financial downturn so in my view i need to be very very financially buoyant enough to take care of my woman before venturing into any new affair.

In-fact im the type of guy that can marry the daughter of bill gate and will not care about a dime of hers or her father but would even take care of her with what i can afford.

If im the opportunistic guy by now i would be married to one rich lady but GOD forbid i date or marry a lady i do not love just because of money as that will translate to perpetual slavery.

Most especially,my core values and beliefs is a deterrent for me and even if i chose to just get down with any lady that catches my fiance,i will be destroying my relationship with Christ.

To me nothing on earth is worth my eternal life. But nevertheless im praying to GOD to help me curb teh picky nature of mine cos trust me, im very very picky because i believe that marriage is a life long thing and as a man it is important to be with a lady that is pleasing to my eyes because what pleases the eyes apparently pleases the soul.I hate philandering and all my life i have never cheated on any lady in my life so i fear that if i settle for any lady less sexually appealing to me,i just might be tempted greatly to philander.

My believe is that it is the same hole with different casings so why cant i relax and go for my preferred spec rather than settle for less and live my marital life in perpetual bondage fantasizing about another lady while married to another.

This is why im still single and i pray GOD brings that lady that will be what i desire.

onstelly:
I must join oh, not yet upto 30 but I wanna be here oh

Omotayor123:

Toks2008:


With your fine face guys here will welcome you but if you are a year short of 30.... no vex,try agaiin latter.

kaboninc:


Love does exist!

Getting married is one thing. Staying married is another thing and most times it is for love!

Good morning!

fairlyisabel:
akuko. The so called love is nothing but scam. Good day my dear.

Enoquin:
What a thread! I rarely come to romance, stumbled on this thread via recent posts yesterday. I do not fit the criteria, so I guess it is the sidelines for me.

Siamia, what a wonderful gift you've got at replying people. Being blunt and still coated with sugar. So, you are from Akwa Ibom? Lol

To the rest: Toks2008, Joebeckz, shi(I can't remember her username but she types so well) and the others...una well done.

Back to the sidelines...

uchezzz:
Thanks for the compliment. I just hit the big 30 four months ago

fairlyisabel:
@skii, I love listening to the pastor's message. His messages are highly informative and educative. Between, does love exist? I don't think so. I believe that getting married and staying married has more to do with tolerance and selflessness but that does not mean that you shouldn't run when you see danger signals during courtship.

@fairyisabel, Love does exist...its just that we have confused it with "feelings" when in reality its a decision not an emotion! Its tough to still love somebody when, despite your telling them EVERYDAY, they keep pressing the toothpaste tube from the bottom and you would rather have it pressed from the middle!

siamia:
@djphish
First ur younger then the thread permits
Second, if u read thru this thread, u'll discover that the ladies here are of a class. They are very intelligent. So, U don't just walk in and throw ur numbers at them. Stay and chat, make friends. Let people know the stuff ur made off. Being a banker is no more a criteria for marriage or even, a good relationship. Selah.

Dosunmuoflagos:


Thank you ope for your timely responce, would you be ok if we exchange facebook ID? I have nothing to hide from anyone, or would you prefer we do the whatsapp thing? The inbox of NL isn't working atleast for me. Here is my whatsapp number NOT FOR CALLs JUST WHATSAPP 09050174993.Roland here waiting