olajorn:
There is this gal i want to date that keep saying,We can only be friends....Please what can I do?

Am heart brokn

lampardizik:
Just here to find missing rib8)

smsshola:


Just move slowly with her as a friend, since that is what she want for now. Later on u may win her by be a good and trusted friend. Most ladies prefer a guy dey can call friend and trust.

lampardizik:
Just here to find missing rib8)

olajorn:
ok how long should i wait?will a month be ok

smsshola:


My Oga if u really love her and she is urs waiting wl worth it..its not the period of ur waiting that matter. What matter most is that she become urs one day as a wife. So pls wait...Ludlum said in his book mattarase cycle am not sure if I get dt spelling well...dt waiting as a CIA agent is a great weapon.

rawpadgin:
hell is going on here

smsshola:

May u find, i just pray u won't break her heart or vice versa.

olajorn:
lampard,The name of my first son

lampardizik:







How old is he?

olajorn:
i still Never give person belle...But i have known it for a long time that my first son name is going to be lampard

lampardizik:




See this guy

olajorn:
bros i tell You,and my first daughter Will be chelsea

lampardizik:







Then she go dey take a lot of 'pounding'

olajorn:
pounding as in ?.I no understand

lampardizik:




Like how Chelsea Fc dey take pounding now

smsshola:

Just move slowly with her as a friend, since that is what she want for now. Later on u may win her by be a good and trusted friend. Most ladies prefer a guy dey can call friend and trust.

smsshola:

This thread is for the heart broken ladies and guys, those facing one challenges or the other in their relationship. Please note am not a consultant in this ar ea I just feel when we put our experience and stories of pain and gain together som1 out there wl receive the help they need.

There is nothing as powerful as emotions and feelings sometime we have everything of life, the best life can offer but when that space in our heart is not fill or occupy by the special person wl desire is like nothing els in this world matter. As a young man and ladies btw the age rank I believe wl av experienced one heart break or the other, and if not there is tendency one wl do am not praying for that sha, I believe with this thread many heart wl be heal and any relationship at the brink can be restore so pls the rule is a mature advice is welcome and no insult, let respect one another.

Let get the ball rolling....my story...It happened 3yrs ago when I met this lady on the counter then as a cashier in one of Nig.bank...before now I av fasted for 7days following the ODM directive asking God to give me the bone of my bone with d type Of lady with a name that start with B...so u can imagine my happiness when the lady walked to my stance to make a payment to her younger Broda bearing the exact name I desire sharply I collected her number believing she is my heartrob.

Like that the relationship started in Feb 12 2010. I won't bug u wt all d pains and gain I encountered during d relationship but one thing is sure wl ar able to conquered our challenges is like we are meant to be wt family issues and so many we ar bn envy by so many after I met wt her pastor and mine; then golden rule no sex before marriage was also adhere to...so all was going well until Feb 14 2013...on this day her church organized a val program fo d youths and as an exco in the sch fellowship she has to go..my ppu na my ex waka go to church; on return she came with a cake and a bottle of wine from diff guys since den the relationship went from sweetness to sour, we dont longer dance togeda to d same music cos miseries filled our heart, we dt, we are once a victor and conquerors of love become d victims...d rest as we use to say is now history as she quit the rlship as result of one the guy who later i learnt was a pilot,on July 24 2013.

It is not a easy thing to be heart broken..at that stage of life nothing else in life is meaningful..I lost my sense of reasoning it was jus God dt help me out and words of courage from victim of love and those who have pass tru d same stage of life.

So this is d reason behind this thread to help that lady and the guy who ar facing the backside of love and who shed tears every second as a result of heart break...dt sis who has put all she can but yet the guy chose another instead of her...likewise dt guy whose dream is to marry dt pretty and sexy lady but unfortunately she prefer doro rich.