Marriage by deception is no marriage , there was never a marriage between those couple right from the beginning

spacyzuma:


This is hilarious.

Sorry for the woman, but me...I have little sympathy for her. She put herself in that position. And she choose to remain.

I'm not a religious person. It irritates, infuriates and entertains me when I see such cases of how irrational and illogical people can be/do because of their religious beliefs.

Esdb3:


You will suffer if you are ignorant like that woman and a lot of dum-dums like you.

Before marriage you can go for fertility test.

After marriage you can divorce and remarry; it is not a sin that way because, the man hasn't consummated the marriage.

logica:
Not even divorce; the marriage can be invalidated/annulled (meaning it never happened) based on 2 facts: it was based on deception and he was impotent.

So what you guys are saying is that the woman suffering because of her ignorance is the number one lesson to learn from this story.

Hmm. Deeper Life has always been mysterious to me. They do pass God.

Cutehector:
But people get married every saturday. So op I duno wat ur tryna imply. Na me tell d deeper life woman mk she no hv sex till marriage?

OLODO CAN ALSO BE DEFINED AS THE INABILITY TO READ AND UNDERSTAND.

D man z wicked! Virgin at 40! I dnt care if any1 bash me on dis,d truth z i cnt marry a man i vnt explored in bed. I v naughty fantasies so a novice z a no 4me! I v 2c d goodies m abt 2 buy.

AmakaDNBStories:
Hmm. Deeper Life has always been mysterious to me. They do pass God.

Yes I think they also share the blame for what the woman went through.
I mean, in the woman's mind she was following their teachings.

I think a marriage founded on deceit is no marriage and should be annuled. Btw i didnt know that conji could make someone crazy

GogobiriLalas:
Bros You need to try and see that the Lord is good...no homo

My Yansh Is Covered With The Blood Of Jesus!

GogobiriLalas:
Bros You need to try and see that the Lord is good...no homo

My Yansh Is Covered With The Blood Of Jesus!

Op you mean after all these things the pastor still remain in the church and the church didn't do anything about it ? may be is another deeper life but certainly not the one I know. cos I have seen a similar case the man was deciplined by the church and he later left the Church. except if may be the Church was not aware of it

Nigerians and wahala! Ahhh!!!

This small issue, people has started punching themselves!

shut:
Virgin after 20yrs of marriage? Wtf

Feck those sick doctrines,I won't stay in such a marriage built on lies nd won't spare such a husband either.


princeparix come and see
Hope your stuff's battery isn't low

Going celibate doesn't mean I have low battery, that stuff is a god on its own and doesn't require a charger. Preferably a god of thunder .

How are you my love

proxillin:
This happened live and direct in my church.



Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

Ladies Learn!

NL o. Comedy central

It's her fault. She could have had the marriage annulled based on the fact that it was entered under false pretenses.

proxillin:
This happened live and direct in my church.

There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.

She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.

The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).

She met her man in the same church. They were both Virgin. Based on Christian doctrine - No sex before wedding.

After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.

She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.

"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"

The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.

That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).

This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.

She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.

Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.

The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.

Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.

To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

Ladies Learn!

The emboldened got me

Op at 40 that lady can still have babies. Let your pastor deliver the husband too just as he delivered the wife so that rodding will commence ASAP

how can she be a virgin after marriage? even if his dick is dead, is his tongue and mouth dead, are his fingers dead? if all these parts are dead, then the man is actually a living dead. I know you can make your woman climax with anyone of those, I still support no premarital sex. this is simply a case of lack of exposure ,I can understand if they cant have kids due to some issues, they can adopt. one thing I seem to understand about life is no marriage is perfect, there is a price tag for every marriage, just that some are harsher than others, but all can be managed depending on your mental strength. pray to have a problem that you can handle, I cant guarantee you wont have any issues to contend with.

missmary:
I still dont support premarital sex... Her husband wasnt honest with her... I say she divorces him... Even God will understand...

pls explain Ur signature

Religion is a joke.

Kassychuks:
Nawa o!Xo wht wll nw happn 2d lady?......Y ar Men lyk dix naa ehh...

Shatup, if una dey date church member and him want do una go say no, it is a sin and una go go dey give none members. And when una marry the Church member finish, if the thing no free stand attention una go dey yarn "why are men like this"? Make una dey allow us test and tell before marriage and all this no go happen.

Ginaz:
if I were in her position, I won't have known what to do. God please give me a husband that is good in bed o, that can satisfy his wife in everything. amen!

I dey o, you even test and tell.

Okay Atigbo...
I no blame because Reminisce dey no go listen
Q dot dem no go hear...
Badoo won ni gbo...
Now dem dey complain impotence.....
Me I go check my bae before I turn her to Iyawo mi...
I don't mean sex ooo I just mean some necessary.... Reliable step....
And I must know whether she had use Cucumber to Cucumbate herself before I notice to come call her bae turn wifey...

The shocking truth is that you can't be wiser than God.We should not use a one in a million case to justify evil or fornication.Even if you decide test and she becomes pregnant,they child can still die after one year and you will have no child again.The problem to be addressed hear is simply insincerity.NEVER put the lord to a test.

Truth is that marriage is null and void. For a marriage to be completed, it must be consummated with sex.
So a situation where the other party deceived the other, the marriage is not legal both in the court of law and before God. Should the woman divorce, she is legally and biblical free to get married.
She was ignorant of both the law and the bible she read.
Christ has redeemed us from the curse of the law.
Person no go deceived me with that kind thing ohhh. I go kukuma pursue her, carry another woman go marry for the same church the next month

DedeNkem:
Religion is a joke.

what is religion? its what you believe. that's what they believed.

Marriage not consummated can be annulled. Whether it's a day or 20 years. Cause it was built on fraud

proxillin:
...I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying....

that guy swallowed a bottle full of viagra pills as a kid ....

MissSlimbody:
...Very necessary

so u want to. see d man banana.. do u think he will allow u to. see it

two of them are virgins. no one to blame. the man didn't test it. how would he know?

Ginaz:
if I were in her position, I won't have known what to do. God please give me a husband that is good in bed o, that can satisfy his wife in everything. amen!

Satisfaction is really important, with how good you look your man will definitely over satisfy you

GraceInUSA:
wicked human beings all over the place. This is why I insist on fertility test for couples before marriage because nowadays, nobody is a saint. I believe marriage should be built on trust not deciet. Although, I hate divorce but if I were in her shoes, na to divorce the man o. God will understand.

Fertility ke? The impotent guy might be fertile, if you can get the sp.erm out.

Impotence is not equal to fertility.

kingdenny:
Marriage by deception is no marriage , there was never a marriage between those couple right from the beginning

Null & void. Ab initio.

chymystique:
Ladies should learn what from this story? Its the ladies fault though... why didnt they go for fertility tests before the marriage plans?

I still insist that "No Sex Before Marriage" is one of the best things ever for any intending couple

This was 20 years ago, people ere not as enlightened as now.