proxillin:
This happened live and direct in my church.

There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.

She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.

The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).

She met her man in the same church. They were both Virgin. Based on Christian doctrine - No sex before wedding.

After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.

She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.

"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"

The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.

That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).

This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.

She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.

Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.

The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.

Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.

To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

Ladies Learn!

dominicnuel:
wat abt if u dealing with a sex maniac?

Richardonald:
rubbish dat may happen once in 100 years..how can a man marry and didnt tell her woman he is impotent....U are trying to say dat our WOMEN shud start fucking around..na mumu girl go follow what u plant here

vislabraye:


So sad. There husband is very wicked. But she too should have spoken out.

But you op, I can never trust ur pastor oh. Why should he disclose such sensitive stuff to you ?

proxillin:
This happened live and direct in my church.

There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.

She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.

The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).

She met her man in the same church. They were both Virgin. Based on Christian doctrine - No sex before wedding.

After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.

She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.

"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"

The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.

That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).

This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.

She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.

Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.

The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.

Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.

To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying.

Ladies Learn!

naijaboiy:
Well the woman is a fool for not divorcing the man and staying that long.

naijaboiy:
Well the woman is a fool for not divorcing the man and staying that long.

stupidity:
Una see why I don't spare any p*ssy that comes ma way? Testing mode#

stupidity:
Una see why I don't spare any p*ssy that comes ma way? Testing mode#

pocohantas:
Why are people saying fertility test?

I think people mistake impotency for low sperm count and all that. Impotency/erectile dysfunction is different from sperm count issues.
The man could be fertile but impotent.

Can a fertility test show if a man can get it up and last for long?
I don't think so

Medical peeps, over to you.

Moonland100:

Abi, a great one ....u have fire on the roof u r saying u can cope with d fire r u not stupid...........d woman too need deliverence for her foolishness

lilmax:
another confused one, are you for or against?

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

banio:
Mr Fact U mentioned Deeper life Church. But I can't remember seeing the name of ur church

proxillin:


My Church is CAC...When we are talking about pre-marital sex, CAC is close to deeper Life



Why exactly do you want to have her address?



Really? So you be FBI or CIA ?



Wait a minute...evidence to prove what? Remind me again? Who will pay me salary for convincing you?



Where in my text/post did I blame the woman for not engaging pre-marital sex? I said if you can't engage in sex, then look for a way to know your partner. You and people like you should please read my post again.



Finally, you gave out something reasonable



Yes...I support



You too

Jbryte:
On this account, I don't support premarital sex. My question is; where are the Marriage Committee and Counseling Department in the church. They're lagging behind, mere questions are not asked now that people are fond of lying. Confirmed medical tests are carried out irrespective of the status of the couple. Simple!

montezz:
D man z wicked! Virgin at 40! I dnt care if any1 bash me on dis,d truth z i cnt marry a man i vnt explored in bed. I v naughty fantasies so a novice z a no 4me! I v 2c d goodies m abt 2 buy.

Naff24:
ClassCaptain awon olodo

Henricarter:
... Simple SAy NO to premarital sEX

1shortblackboy:
Ok so how u want make dem dey check without pre marital sex ? Abi na operation show ur erect1on

eyinjuege:


Pls read the story again, and slowly this time. The woman in question married as a virgin, and that it seems, is the bone of contention. She is being blamed for not knowing her husband is impotent, in short for not insisting on premarital sex.