First I do not approve of sex before marriage. I am a protagonist of "Total Abstinence". Apart from the testosterone and high libido stuff which pushes sexual drive in males there are some intrinsic reasons that are often neglected.
Teens generally are experimental, so trying new things and wanting to be the alpha male constitutes a very large percentage of the reasons why teens engaged in sexual relationships.
My focus is on Matured adults. I have had a couple of sexual relationships in the past (though not proud of it ) and then I try to evaluate my experiences based on the need for sex. I will like you to understand that in most Marriages, the male ask for sex quite often same as other sex permitted relationships. Some people may antagonise and say females feel just the same as male only that they are not bold enough to speak.
I will like to trash the antagonism. We have seen scenarios where the wife controls the husband. Do you want to say that in such cases the woman will be too shy to demand for sex? Of course not but in that same scenario the frail man will still demand for sex more than the domineering female.
The reason is simply emotion. Females have lots of ways of showing nd releasing their emotions and are even encouraged to do so. For instance I knew of an Ex who prefers cuddling to every other form of intimacy. But a guy cannot tell you cuddle him even if he is longing for it. A guy cannot cry publicly it is a taboo instead he prefers to pay a hooker and then vent all his frustration on her during sex. Guys cannot express how they feel because it is a form of weakness. Guys who are laconic are tagged "Matured". But talking is a way of letting out emotions. Those things that keeps ladies emotionally stable are taboos for male so the best way he let's out his emotions is Via sex......I do not encourage a guy who is emotionally down to seek for sex. What am advocating is for the ladies to try to make ur guy loosen up, that way he can share his emotions with you without opting for sex. That way you can have a sex free relationship...It is not by saying No Sex at the nascent stage of the relationship but my meticulously taking steps to manage his emotions. Am talking about a cool headed guy nd not you seeing a player who wants to kill and then you flaunt abstinence sign or you thinking you can manage his emotions....some of us are too damaged only God can heal those type not you.......

So OP you are accusing ladies of not allowing their men to express their emotions in word right?

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And the point is?

Story for the gods! Konji the last time i check is still a BLOODY BASTARD!!!

misspicy:
So OP you are accusing ladies of not allowing their men to express their emotions in word right?

A guy will normally not want to express his emotions in words. It makes him look weak...only very few guys can

starlingslimnet:
And the point is?

You go sabi fail comprehension passage that year o

Is the OP suggesting men begin crying and asking to be cuddled in order to abstain from sexual immorality? How crazy can people get!

Hannysmilez:
Is the OP suggesting men begin crying and asking to be cuddled in order to abstain from sexual immorality? How crazy can people get!

It is quite patent that you really do have difficulty when it comes to comprehension......

SSpeter:
It is quite patent that you really do have difficulty when it comes to comprehension......

Okay,if you say so.

I am not a proponent of abstinence....but you do have a solid grasp of things..i'd still smash tho.