SeverusSnape:
Maybe he just couldn't continue with the long distance relationship, furthermore, He didn't believe the relationship will yield any fruit, I think that was why he opted out.

Parents are also very influential in one's choice, his parents might have influenced him.

solidade:



We had made plans of my visit and I had began processing my visa to visit him and we were going to meet each others family when I went to visit him. His parents passed away but his oldest brother knew about me. I can't think of anything that influenced him other than that he and his ex had made introductions before they had parted ways.

valdes00:
am certain the guys favourite quote is " The devil you know is better than the angel you don't knw "...

solidade:
Hi guys,

I was in a long distance relationship with a man from Nigeria. I am from Kenya but I live in the USA. We were well, dandy and very happy together. This year in July, he told me about an issue that came up. Before me, he had been engaged to a girl. They had misunderstanding and he decided to let go of the relationship with the girl. Now in July she comes back begging him to please take her back that they can talk the issue over. Soon she involved both his and her family in the issue. Soon our communication becomes strained and complicated. He has to make a choice whether he's going to take her back. Ín September he told me he decided to go back to her because he cannot do anything about it that the girls family has taken control of everything. My question is why couldn't he tell his ex fiance that he was with me and end everything before the issue extended to family members? Also are there certain cultures and customs that could have influency his choice. Please help me understand. Thank you in advance.

SeverusSnape:

Hmmm...you may be right, That's very bad of him, anyways, The deed has been done, You just have to pull yourself together and move on.

jcmaiah:

Its because he never loved you like he loved her. All those while you guys were together he had his heart focused on her. He definitely is not worth it.

NinaNigeria:
Honey wat i have learnt abt nigerian men is dat wen wit a foreign lady, dey can love u and all dat, bt never ever trust dem, coz wen it comes to settling down, very few of dem can completely settle wit a foreigner. Dey always go back to deir home girls for dat. Dat is y most of de girls sometimes just date dem for fun, den u find dat u hurt someone who is innocent, bt nw he pays for his brother's faults. Babe be very careful wen dating naija men plz my sweet

solidade:



He loved me. His fiance tells me he gets emotionally down whenever he speaks about me.

solidade:
Hi guys,

I was in a long distance relationship with a man from Nigeria. I am from Kenya but I live in the USA. We were well, dandy and very happy together. This year in July, he told me about an issue that came up. Before me, he had been engaged to a girl. They had misunderstanding and he decided to let go of the relationship with the girl. Now in July she comes back begging him to please take her back that they can talk the issue over. Soon she involved both his and her family in the issue. Soon our communication becomes strained and complicated. He has to make a choice whether he's going to take her back. Ín September he told me he decided to go back to her because he cannot do anything about it that the girls family has taken control of everything. My question is why couldn't he tell his ex fiance that he was with me and end everything before the issue extended to family members? Also are there certain cultures and customs that could have influency his choice. Please help me understand. Thank you in advance.

solidade:
Hi guys,

I was in a long distance relationship with a man from Nigeria. I am from Kenya but I live in the USA. We were well, dandy and very happy together. This year in July, he told me about an issue that came up. Before me, he had been engaged to a girl. They had misunderstanding and he decided to let go of the relationship with the girl. Now in July she comes back begging him to please take her back that they can talk the issue over. Soon she involved both his and her family in the issue. Soon our communication becomes strained and complicated. He has to make a choice whether he's going to take her back. Ín September he told me he decided to go back to her because he cannot do anything about it that the girls family has taken control of everything. My question is why couldn't he tell his ex fiance that he was with me and end everything before the issue extended to family members? Also are there certain cultures and customs that could have influency his choice. Please help me understand. Thank you in advance.

fastguy10:
PLs swt hrt 4get dat guy he is nt serious
Can u date me? I promise 2 settledown wt u when d time reach
U can also start coming now 2 see me I promise 2 take u 2 my mother

If u agree let me no

jcmaiah:

Hmm, is the lady a Nigerian?

solidade:
@PunkyVeer: thankyou

fastguy10:
PLs swt hrt 4get dat guy he is nt serious
Can u date me? I promise 2 settledown wt u when d time reach
U can also start coming now 2 see me I promise 2 take u 2 my mother

If u agree let me no

solidade:


Yes