I read with rapt attention yesterday a post advocating assurance on the sexual ability, before signing the dotted lines, wonderful as it may sound and with sympathy to the so called friend-i wish to state clearly that the word of God is sacrosant. And anyone,myself not exempted nor whoever that defiles(romantic interaction of either partner in any form) is not obeying the command of GOD. As stern as it may sound, i would be decieving myself absolving the believers' failure to cominucate his incapacity to a woman who becomes your best half. In situation as this,what can one do knowing very well that once bitten twice shy, rivert to the author of marriage,GOD. Its a known fact God instituted marriage,meaning that for one to have a succesful marriage,its manual should be sought and made use of. Take for instance, one made all the humanly necessary check and was okay with his/her findings but shortly after 'i do' and it changed, haha are you now going to go out of it? See, we have all strayed, if you really want to enjoy your marriage, go to God to give you your own life partner(tailor made). Testing whatsoever,however will never guarantee fulfilment in any department of marriage, God alone can

If I tell you say I understand the message wey you dey pass, I just dey fool u.

Which message are you passing exactly

Very true,yet it still neccesary in tdays sophisticated world.

It has become pertinent since al the spirikoism have failed

Pressing mangoes to know if e ripe reach inside before you buy is good but there are many things that seem right before men but the end is death.

Message not passed

This should be a counter thread I guess

Nothing guarantees the subsistence of marriage, sex or not. You can test drive and it collapse after a while just like you may not test drive and it packs up too. Some didn't test drive and it went awry, some did and the story was same, negative.

The issue of test driving should be left for everyone to make their choice. Using mythology to discourage those who test drive won't change nada. Just do as you wish and let others make their choice. Kapish?

agarawu23:
If I tell you say I understand the message wey you dey pass, I just dey fool u.

Which message are you passing exactly

trying to say no test drive before,for God dislikes it

Oyind17:
Message not passed

just saying obey God

nseke:
trying to say no test drive before,for God dislikes it

so you have this short form of passing the message before you they prolong issue

Mr man, if I know test drive her before I marry her, make I bend. Forget preaching and the words of God. We aren't 'then' prophets and that's why our present generations can't be like them.

agarawu23:
so you have this short form of passing the message before you they prolong issue

Mr man, if I know test drive her before I marry her, make I bend. Forget preaching and the words of God. We aren't 'then' prophets and that's why our present generations can't be like them.

your opinion is good but better opinion is of God,therefore,HIS words cannot be forgotten sir

lagmostkuit:
This should be a counter thread I guess

not necessarily a counter

nseke:
your opinion is good but better opinion is of God,therefore,HIS words cannot be forgotten sir

I know argue am

nseke:
trying to say no test drive before,for God dislikes it

Is it you or god that'll drive the car. You should have a better reason for not test-driving instead of screaming god.

see ehn OP, for NL we use lay man English to post and comment, e no mean say we no go school o or sabi speak grammar
what am trying to say is this, OP please break down all those things wey you write into lay man English
I sabi say your post make sense wella o na why I wan understand am more, so talk am for layman English biko.

herald9:

Is it you or god that'll drive the car. You should have a better reason for not test-driving instead of screaming god.

well, i try as much as i know and can ,my life is founded on God

henribj:
see ehn OP, for NL we use lay man English to post and comment, e no mean say we no go school o or sabi speak grammar
what am trying to say is this, OP please break down all those things wey you write into lay man English
I sabi say your post make sense wella o na why I wan understand am more, so talk am for layman English biko.

ok, make hear say u no undastand,me just dey try make e bi say i pass the message,no be say i sabi grammer,lia lia

nseke:
well, i try as much as i know and can ,my life is founded on God

Bro, whatever decisions you take should be able to bring a greater happiness to you.

Everything exists for man.... Even gods.