Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,156,214 members, 7,829,356 topics. Date: Thursday, 16 May 2024 at 04:28 AM

What Is A Date? - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / What Is A Date? (1569 Views)

Guys, As Any Lady Ever Drain Your Pocket On A Date Before? / Photo : I Took Her Out On A Date What She Ordered For Left Me Speechless / Why Do Girls Avoid/Ignore Me? It Is Impossible To Get A Date! (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply) (Go Down)

What Is A Date? by sweetlove(m): 11:52am On Oct 10, 2006
what is a "date"?

Let me ask you something, what is a "date"?

What do you think that the purpose of a "date"
is?

Now, I call my material "Double Your Dating",
but what I DON'T mean is "take women out to dinner
twice as much as you used to".

The word "Dating" is simply a word that all of
us guys understand to mean as "romantic
interactions with women".

So I use it.

But if you want to have more romantic
interactions with women, that does NOT mean that
you need to "take women out on dates" in order to
do it.

Are you with me?

I mean, what do couples do a year after they
get together, ?

They stay home most of the time, do normal
things like go shopping, and generally behave like
they did before they met.

This whole "going out to dinner" ritual is
really an amazing concept.

It's awesome how powerful it is, and how guys
really believe that they need to do it (or similar
things) in order to get a woman's attention in a
romantic way.

Here's the bottom line:

If you want a woman to think of you as a
"lover", then BE ONE.

If you want her to think of you as a provider,
then just BE ONE.

What you haven't quite realized fully yet is
that when you know how to trigger ATTRACTION in a
woman, all the "normal" rules go away.

If a woman feels that powerful emotional
ATTRACTION for you, then she'll do ANYTHING with
you, just to be in your presence and have your
attention.

If you have dialed up the ATTRACTION, then all
you need to say is "come over here".

No dates required.

Now, if you buy her dinner 10 times, call her 3
times a day, and chase her around, then it will be
EXPECTED that you continue this pattern, and
provide for her.

NOTE: If you're buying a woman dinner twice a
week, giving her flowers, calling her every day,
and basically "chasing" her, then you can be about
80% sure that there's another guy in the
picture, but guess what? He's the one who SHE
calls, and he's the one who says "Come over later,
I'm busy now", no dates required.

If you want to be a LOVER to a woman, then DO
IT.

You don't need to wait until the third time out
for coffee or tea.

You'll learn that ATTRACTION doesn't have a
timeline.

It happens VERY QUICKLY, if you know how to
trigger it, and you don't need a lot of "date
ideas" once you do.

And now that I've avoided your question for a
page or two, let me answer with this:

I often take women to do "regular" things with
me. I'll take them to the grocery store to shop
with me, out to the mall to pick things up, and
down to the bookstore to buy a book.

First, start BEING the LOVER immediately.

Then, notice how women DON'T CARE what you do
together, as long as she's with you.
Re: What Is A Date? by Free(f): 1:11am On Oct 13, 2006
duh!!
Re: What Is A Date? by Ferlie(m): 12:20am On Mar 15, 2007
u no know date for calendar again?
Re: What Is A Date? by iice(f): 5:19pm On Mar 15, 2007
I dont date
Re: What Is A Date? by t00cUTE(f): 10:49pm On Jun 20, 2008
going to Mr biggs and tantalizers grin grin grin grin
Re: What Is A Date? by tope2000(f): 10:51pm On Jun 20, 2008
t00 cUTE:

going to Mr biggs and tantalizers grin grin grin grin
lmao, once again una no go kill me 4 dis forum with laughter grin grin
Re: What Is A Date? by Tetchiness(f): 10:59pm On Jun 20, 2008
*yawn*
Re: What Is A Date? by Esss(m): 11:05pm On Jun 20, 2008
A date

This is simply planning on taking a girl to
t00 cUTE:

Mr biggs and tantalizers grin grin grin grin
on an agreed day and time.

Example;

Phone call from a guy to a chick.

Guy; O girl how na!
chick; Hey Atutupuyoyo how are you??
Guy; Fine O and u??
Chick; I'm alryt. \
Guy; I was wondering, Are you busy tomorrow evening?
Chick; It depends. why??
Guy; I was hoping to take you out to dinner.
Chick; Where?
Guy; Tantalizers for starters, Mr. Biggs for the main course and Kilimajaro for dessert.
Chick; O.K. I'm not busy. Sure.
Guy; Alryt then, i'll pick you up prolly around 4 - 6 in the evening depending on the hold up situation.
Chick; Alryt then. I'll be waiting.
Guy; It's a date then, see you tomorrow.


Classic example of a date or check your calender.
Re: What Is A Date? by tope2000(f): 11:07pm On Jun 20, 2008
roflmao, esss u are ban for 2 much jokes grin grin
Re: What Is A Date? by 2dye4(m): 11:11pm On Jun 20, 2008
iice:

I don't date

seriously, u don't date? then how do u do it? pardon my curiousity cheesy
Re: What Is A Date? by t00cUTE(f): 11:59am On Jun 21, 2008
Esss:

A date

This is simply planning on taking a girl to on an agreed day and time.

Example;

Phone call from a guy to a chick.

Guy; O girl how na!
chick; Hey Atutupuyoyo how are you??
Guy; Fine O and u??
Chick; I'm alryt. \
Guy; I was wondering, Are you busy tomorrow evening?
Chick; It depends. why??
Guy; I was hoping to take you out to dinner.
Chick; Where?
Guy; Tantalizers for starters, Mr. Biggs for the main course and Kilimajaro for dessert.
Chick; O.K. I'm not busy. Sure.
Guy; Alryt then, i'll pick you up prolly around 4 - 6 in the evening depending on the hold up situation.
Chick; Alryt then. I'll be waiting.
Guy; It's a date then, see you tomorrow


AGREED ONE TIME grin grin
Re: What Is A Date? by shylladear(f): 12:55pm On Jun 21, 2008
@ess

am in grin
Re: What Is A Date? by shylladear(f): 12:56pm On Jun 21, 2008
t00 cUTE:

going to Mr biggs and tantalizers grin grin grin grin


very funny cheesy

(1) (Reply)

Dumped By Your Girlfriend! Ladies (especially) Please Comment On This / I / Should I Let Go Of Him?

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 21
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.