My fellow Romance-landers, In as much as i love to keep my relationship away from people and their advises i haven't found away to conquer my problems. I need your help and advice on this issues.

I am young dude as every guy i have lived a bad life (more so like a play boy) in the past but for years now i have turned a new live. I met this young lady that i love so much she was in a relationship at the time i met her. We got along pretty well then i got to find out that her relationship was crashing i was sad for her because at the moment she was devastated but on the on the contrary i was happy for myself at least an opportunity presented itself. Few months later the relationship crashed two months later i started making my intention know about how i feel about her and all.

She requested that i give her time to heal as she has been dating the guys for 3 years so i said okay that is fine by me. I started acting like a bf to her care buy her stuff literally foot all her bills and take her on dates. But YESTERDAY I reminder about my proposal towards her makes it 4 months now since i asked her out and she is still telling to wait.?

But now am confused How long do i have to wait I have been acting as a bf since breakup and i have waited four good months for her to heal. i have always been at her side every time she was down. but why would she want me to wait for i don't know long again? I have tried to avoid her lately but i can't the heart keeps calling back

Pls guys advise me on what to do because i am confused really and i need your help

Pele OP,she no like you,please stop wasting your resources,i don't want to hear that you rap.ed someone o

give her time

misspicy:
Pele OP,she no like you,please stop wasting your resources,i don't want to hear that you rap.ed someone o

Not mine kinda thing

midehi2:
give her time

How much more time would i give?

Bwon:
How much more time would i give?

what really donu want from her, sex or a real relationship? She gives u ur attention, so what do u call wait?

Bwon:
Not mine kinda thing

Good,i dnt think the girl digs u,u said 4 months?thats a long time

Bwon:
How much more time would i give?

A year or 2 is not much

NONSENSE I HATE THIS

libertyfather:


A year or 2 is not much

a year or 2 my brother kilode, we got flesh and blood when you want to advise us advis us like a brother..

jascon1:
what really donu want from her, sex or a real relationship? She gives u ur attention, so what do u call wait?

there is difference in acting like a Gf and been the gf its a whole different ball game you guys share loads together.

Keep investing. Experience is the bestworst teacher.

Bwon:
there is difference in acting like a Gf and been the gf its a whole different ball game you guys share loads together.

what do u really want? I just believe u put urself together. U need answers to deep hearted questions

O boi! You're already in the relationship take it or leave it. Its nor everytime you ask em out b4 things kickstart . Just calm down and keep your friendship fire wd her burning .