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Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by Nobody: 11:10pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
yougosee: Good as long as it feels good to you. |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by cococandy(f): 11:35pm On Oct 13, 2015 |
Reprehensible? Do you even know the meaning of the words you're using sef? Anyway nothing much to add beyond what other posters have said. If you really believe the woman alone has all those duties you mentioned in your post, then you might as well believe the man had no role at all in the marriage. Because according to your post, the man and wife aren't even partners in the marriage. He's just a bedside decoration. Highcuerayte: 3 Likes |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by bukatyne(f): 7:31am On Oct 14, 2015 |
Funny thread But this is What our society preach na... Why the outcry? OP carry go. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by TooNoisy(f): 7:54am On Oct 14, 2015 |
bukatyne: It is obvious, you and the OP belong to the same 'society'. Both of you should just stay in your 'society'. The rest of us on this thread and most Nigerians belong to another society so no need to discuss a useless topic further! 5 Likes |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by eyinjuege: 8:12am On Oct 14, 2015 |
Highcuerayte: Has it ever occurred to you Sir, that there are equally women who could care less about what happens in their marriages for whatever reasons logical or illogical? It may then rest on the husband to make things work. However, you may force a horse to the stream but you can't make it drink water. Keeping a marriage is a collective effort, where both parties must be actively involved else its just gonna be a painful experience. The message should show the importance of working hard at one's marriage by both husband and wife, and not saying its just one of the partner's responsibility. Believe it or not, times are changing. Saying otherwise will just be like a case of an ostrich burying its head in the ground thinking that the danger is averted. Women do not feel the need to stay in unhappy marriages anymore because they are more financially empowered. Now putting religion into it, how many people actually obey the Holy books in terms of not stealing, cheating, fornication, lying, loving ones neighbor less than oneself,etc. So don't think the preaching on marriage will still change what anyone wants to do in their own marriage. Way forward? practical and feasible tips marriages can be helped in tune with the present times should be proffered 4 Likes |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by Teespice(f): 9:15am On Oct 14, 2015 |
I have a problem with the whole article especially the opening sentence and the ending sentence. shaking my head. saving a drowning marriage should be the collective effort of the couple not just the woman alone. na real wa. |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by Teespice(f): 9:18am On Oct 14, 2015 |
TooNoisy: I guess you missed the sarcasm in her post. 5 Likes |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by GodnGold: 9:27am On Oct 14, 2015 |
The wives revolt by JP Clark. |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by bukatyne(f): 10:07am On Oct 14, 2015 |
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Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by bukatyne(f): 10:07am On Oct 14, 2015 |
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Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by Rukkydelta(f): 11:46am On Oct 14, 2015 |
Kimoni: seconded |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by Rukkydelta(f): 11:54am On Oct 14, 2015 |
When in comes to building up marriage the woman has the greatest responsibility but when it comes to running of the family, the man is the head and has the greatest responsibility to make decisions. If a marriage will work it will work, if it's destined to fail it will surely fail |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by babygirlfl: 1:48pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
bukatyne: I am not surprised at OP's thinking. Honestly this is the result of the society he grew up in. If that's what he has been taught and saw it play out in marriages he has witnessed and was in the audience where someone preached this kind of message, he won't know any better.It is particularly troubling that the OP has an audience who he feeds these kind of information.We might not agree with him but this article of his and his other replies should ideally worry anybody born and bred in the same society. We as a society should be worried that some people actually think like him. We should be trying to do something about it. 1 Like |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by bukatyne(f): 2:32pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
babygirlfl: The truth is people are opposing him because he opened a thread for it in 'peace times' Let a woman open a thread that her husband constantly cheats on her... most of the advices would be 'pray more', 'get closer to him', 'cook fresh fish', 'save your home' etc. How is it any different from what the OP is saying? Isn't 'a wise woman builds her home' a popular verse of the Bible? So what really is the OP saying that is different from what is obtainable? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by bukatyne(f): 2:33pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Rukkydelta: What is the difference between building up marriage and running of the family? |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by omoharry(f): 2:38pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Kimoni:well said....two cannot work together except they agree. |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by TooNoisy(f): 2:55pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
bukatyne: Why don't you open your own thread for "war times". What exactly are you on about? Everybody here has condemned the OP and it is obvious his perspective is different from most people on Nairaland at least. What else do you want? A wise woman builds her own home is in the Bible - you can erase it from your Bible if you don't like it. If anyone advised you to stay with your cheating husband and pray for him more, then that is your problem. Don't make it everyone's problem on Nairaland okay? Drop your advise/comments for the OP and move on. Stop creating imaginary scenarios and simulating how people will respond! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by GodnGold: 10:26am On Oct 16, 2015 |
Op,I want to thank you for this post. It made some women make a U turn,it made some accelerate more even when the traffic light goes red. Howbeit,I learnt a couple o'things from it good or bad, not forgetting your mb,time,etc. Amazing thread. |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by WHOcarex: 1:54pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Women don suffer sha. When will men start take responsibilies of their actions? They cheat, na woman cause am Their marriage fail, na woman cause am They become drunk and wayward, na woman cause am. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by Nobody: 2:00pm On Oct 16, 2015 |
Highcuerayte: You should go back to school so you become useful to your society. Wtf is this crap 5 Likes |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by LordReed(m): 10:20am On Oct 17, 2015 |
Highcuerayte: It is an unrealistic expectation and I pray people stop perpetuating it. Both the man and woman are responsible for keeping the home, if there is a failure in the home then the appropriate steps should be taken by whosoever is involved not unjustly expecting one party to carry the entire burden. If the source of the problem has been identified and is being worked on then it behoves them to have patience and work things out but saying if a home fails then the woman has failed is Cow dung of the highest order. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by babygirlfl: 10:21am On Oct 17, 2015 |
LordReed: The boss has spoken. Nothing more to add. Oga Lordreed, good morning Sir. 1 Like |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by LordReed(m): 2:15pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
babygirlfl: Good 1 Like |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by KanwuliaJara: 4:03pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
What if the marriage don drown tey tey come begin dey "float" with "open belle" like my own? |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by Kimoni: 4:03pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by Nobody: 5:12pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
This is by far the most crappiest, poorly thought out and no common sense thread I have come across this year. On top of all that rubbish, the OP had the nerve to copy Lalastica & Seun like he or she had actually written something worthwhile & meaningful. Common sense is truly not common, every amatuer Tom, Dick & Harry considers himself an expert on relationships these days sprouting idiotic nonsense as advice. |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by dBard: 11:52pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
One of the best articles I've read in a really long while. Kudos@ o.p |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by EfemenaXY: 8:01am On Oct 18, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: You this wacky woman. Good morning. |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by yetseyi(f): 10:58am On Oct 18, 2015 |
I really do not see any difference in the OP's post and most advices given to women whose marriage is in distress. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by bukatyne(f): 11:11am On Oct 18, 2015 |
yetseyi: May your days be long... Nse 2 Likes |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by KanwuliaJara: 3:04pm On Oct 18, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Fine fine morninnnoooooh! OP dey took "drowning"? Wey MOST NIGERIAN MARRIAGES don destroy life support machine kpa kpa! CPR DON "FAAAAAAY" tey tey!!!! Muchechecheche In short, 99 . TEN-TEN don JO-KO-SI for grave without OBITUARY sef! |
Re: Tips On Saving Your Drowning Marriage As A Woman by Stillfire: 7:31pm On Oct 21, 2015 |
bukatyne: Hahahahahahaha! |
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