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My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by DONSMITH123(m): 1:00pm On Oct 13, 2015
A middle age house wife, Mujidat Saliman while pushing for dissolution of her 13-year-old marriage to her husband, Kabir Saliman has told a Grade C Customary Court sitting in Ibadan, the Oyo State capital that her husband beat her and her parents anytime they quarrel.

Mujidat also told the court that Kabir was irresponsible and does not cater for the family.

She said, “My husband has not paid my bride price after 13 years of marriage; I now have five kids for him. He did not allow me to work and only gives me N300 to prepare food for the family.

“When he eventually allowed me to open a shop where I sell engine oil, he accused me of going out with different men who are my customers, knowing the nature of the business I do.
“My husband is so troublesome, he beats me mercilessly several times in a week Most times, I end up being taken to the hospital. He disrespects my family to the extent of beating my mother and recently did the same to my father.


“He has refused to enroll the kids in school and threatened to kill my mother in order to get me back forcefully. This is the third time I am taking him to court. All police interventions have proven abortive, I want a divorce.”

In his defence, the defendant, Kabir told the court that his wife was wayward, promiscuous and a flirt.

“My daughter once told me my wife sent her to an okada man to collect money. I did not react to this until I caught her with a man in front of her shop and I heard an unspeakable conversation between them.
Kabir further stated that when he reported the matter to his mother in-law, she supported her daughter saying it was the nature of her job that warranted her keeping male company.

“Her mother, I am sure, has kept another husband for her as she took her in the very day she left our home and abandoned the kids.

“I had been asked several times if I wanted a divorce, but I said no because of the kids. This is the third time she had sued me to court. My wife is promiscuous, I want to divorce her so that I can take care of my children.”

After hearing both argument, the President of the court, Chief Amusa Makinde consequently adjourned the case till October 21.


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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by kemlily(f): 1:02pm On Oct 13, 2015
He should be sent to life imprisonment shocked shocked

wicked man

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by ibrams(m): 1:02pm On Oct 13, 2015
it has happen again....
you no get brothers far and near.....
relatives nko....
aii kinyi san'iya.... tun yaushe ya sha turmi
Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by OnankpaBa(m): 1:03pm On Oct 13, 2015
Any man that beats woman is nothing but a big foooooooooooooooolllll



"Quote me any where"

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by SmithEnemona(m): 1:04pm On Oct 13, 2015
That man need to be sent to Kuje. lipsrsealed

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by oluwaSmith1(f): 1:06pm On Oct 13, 2015
She said, “My husband has not paid my bride price after 13 years of marriage; I now have five kids for him. He did not allow me to work and only gives me N300 to prepare food for the family.



you sef check am nah.


You bi free products? But no wife beater abeg.

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by oluwaSmith1(f): 1:07pm On Oct 13, 2015
AwesomelyMade:
That man must be something else!
I really do not see any reason why a man would raise his hands to spank his, even though I know some women get sharp mouth, if you look their mouth, you will beat them. But that is what makes you a man; withstanding the pressure from a woman's mouth.



As for the lady in queastion, how will that man rerspect you when he has no paid your bride price for 13 years. You


am asking her same question. Imagine

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by OnankpaBa(m): 1:09pm On Oct 13, 2015
oluwaSmith1:
She said, “My husband has not paid my bride price after 13 years of marriage; I now have five kids for him. He did not allow me to work and only gives me N300 to prepare food for the family.



you sef check am nah.


You bi free products? But no wife beater abeg.

but that does not give room for the man to maltreat her nah

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by oluwaSmith1(f): 1:11pm On Oct 13, 2015
OnankpaBa:


but that does not give room for the man to maltreat her nah


yes, but the lady herself fault up. as for the man, he should be sent to prison

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by oluwaSmith1(f): 1:13pm On Oct 13, 2015
lalasticlala, let join hand to say NO to domestic violence

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by OnankpaBa(m): 1:27pm On Oct 13, 2015
oluwaSmith1:
lalasticlala, let join hand to say NO to domestic violence

grin grin grin

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by California30(m): 2:04pm On Oct 13, 2015
I'm sorry to say this.
You're the reason why he's irresponsible.
You attract what you are.

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by Demmocrats(m): 2:04pm On Oct 13, 2015
grin grin
Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by Flashh: 2:04pm On Oct 13, 2015
Very easy... Just buy a cane and go to his parent's house, make sure you greet them very before starting so that it won't look as if you disrespect them.

Just tell them their son sent you to them. When they ask "what is the gift"?. Just show them the cane with due respect and start your own beating.

No offense in it sister, you're only returning the favor.

God no go vex. cool

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by Leyemoshood: 2:04pm On Oct 13, 2015
This one no normal


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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by damton(m): 2:04pm On Oct 13, 2015
Ahh.no no. That's the height of it , he deserves to be flogged on his joystick.

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by helphelp: 2:04pm On Oct 13, 2015
Jesus..
.
Make Una form voltron find beta beating give am

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by obinnajr(m): 2:04pm On Oct 13, 2015
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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by sexymoma(f): 2:05pm On Oct 13, 2015
nawa oo
Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by Lincoln275(m): 2:05pm On Oct 13, 2015
Only ibadan
Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by dave2meek(m): 2:05pm On Oct 13, 2015
13yrs without paying her bride price nawa o
Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by Nobody: 2:07pm On Oct 13, 2015
silly man
Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by seangy4konji: 2:07pm On Oct 13, 2015
Does he knack you well??
Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by ayo4dworld(m): 2:07pm On Oct 13, 2015
Not only you, beats your parent in addition ....wonders will never end...

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by Pavore9: 2:07pm On Oct 13, 2015
Living with a man who has not paid your bride price for 13yrs!

Were they ever married that they are seeking for a divorce? Well in many Igbo communities as long as the man did not pay the woman's bride price he has no paternal rights over the children!

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by Nobody: 2:07pm On Oct 13, 2015
Barbaric. but how did she give birth to 5 kids, FIVE oo and without bride price. hian

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by dOnLarich: 2:07pm On Oct 13, 2015
Punching bag
Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by killercute16(m): 2:08pm On Oct 13, 2015
Two bloody idio.t

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Re: My Husband Is Irresponsible, Beats Me And My Parents – Woman Tells Court by Nobody: 2:09pm On Oct 13, 2015
oluwaSmith1:



yes, but the lady herself fault up. as for the man, he should be send to prison
go sch...u no gree...sent to prison...na u go raise d kids?

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