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7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Olasco93: 5:21pm On Oct 15, 2015
We don’t want to downplay the
importance of those three little words
that two weeks or two years into a
relationship still have the power to make your heart skip a beat. But while saying “I love you” is essential, so are other phrases, each with their own positive ripple effects in your relationship. Here are seven things we all want to hear (sometimes) more than “I love you.”

1. “You Can Do It.”

Perhaps one of the most important roles a partner plays in our lives is cheerleader.
So whether you’re ready to tap out and leave unswallowed that last delicious bite of gelato or preparing to lead a huge work project solo, it’s time for your S.O. to break out the pom-poms and cheer you on.


2. “I’m proud of you.”

When you finish that last bite of a healthy salad instead of your usual doughnut or kick butt at your work project, the best thing your man can do is swell with pride and express just how he thinks you rock.
Knowing you impressed yourself is great in-and-of itself—but blowing his mind is a new level of awesome.


3. “You’re Beautiful.”

We’ve all been the recipients of insincere compliments, and because of that, too often this phrase only elicits an eye roll.
But there’s nothing like the feeling we get when a man we love drops this doozy as we wake up, our unwashed mascara smudged along our puffy eyes—and knowing he means it.


4. “I Appreciate You.”

We take out the trash because that’s
what you do when it’s full. We fold their socks into pairs because we can’t stand the thought of another stray, lonely argyle without its mate. It’s nothing special—and it’s certainly not about recognition. But a man can turn the mundane into something more when he recognizes our acts of service are acts of love.


5. “Let Me Take You On a Date.”

Routine is the silent killer of passion,
people. So when a man wants to break free of binge-watching Netflix and take you out for a night on the town—or even for a candlelit, home-cooked meal on your patio—he’s saying he wants to keep the spark alive and roaring.

6. “I Support You.”

If your man’s got your back, it’s akin to having the full force of HGTV behind you when you purchase that fixer-upper: You know there’s nothing you can’t do.


7. “I’m Sorry.”

We don’t mean the insincere variety
tossed out mid-argument meant only to shut you up. We’re talking about the “I’m sorry” whose subtext is, “I understand where you’re coming from, I feel bad that I contributed to this situation, and I’m going to do my best to make sure it never happens again.” When it’s said that way, is there anything more loving?


This article was originally published at Glamour. Reprinted with permission from the author and
Culled from Sunday Idika.
I hope it helps.

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Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by OZAOEKPE(f): 5:24pm On Oct 15, 2015
8. Baby give me your 'anal'".

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Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Nobody: 5:25pm On Oct 15, 2015
Will this unromantic naijaboys listen

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Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Vinshu(f): 5:27pm On Oct 15, 2015
smiley
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by ShutTheFhuckUp: 5:33pm On Oct 15, 2015
Oyind17:
Will this unromantic naijaboys listen
undecided undecided
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Nobody: 5:36pm On Oct 15, 2015
ShutTheFhuckUp:
undecided undecided
What I do
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Slimzjoe(m): 5:48pm On Oct 15, 2015
The most Romantic Words you can say to a Woman is "Gimme your Account Number" angry angry

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Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by giffty(f): 7:12pm On Oct 15, 2015
Slimzjoe:
The most Romantic Words you can say to a Woman is "Gimme your Account Number" angry angry

What makes you think its all about the money??
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by giffty(f): 7:13pm On Oct 15, 2015
Slimzjoe:
The most Romantic Words you can say to a Woman is "Gimme your Account Number" angry angry

What makes you think its all about the money??
Nigerian guys and their wrong way of thinking.
you've made it seem like every girl is after the money..
That's bad..
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Slimzjoe(m): 9:20pm On Oct 15, 2015
giffty:
What makes you think its all about the money??
Nigerian guys and their wrong way of thinking.
you've made it seem like every girl is after the money..
That's bad..

Try to read my signature undecided

Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by giffty(f): 9:31pm On Oct 15, 2015
Slimzjoe:

Try to read my signature undecided
Okay
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by steadynana: 10:08pm On Oct 15, 2015
OZAOEKPE:
8. Baby give me your 'anal'".
so we are not quoting you this time?
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Slimzjoe(m): 10:59pm On Oct 15, 2015
giffty:
Okay

Hope you didn't take my Reply Personal grin

Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Rapaltar(m): 1:03am On Oct 16, 2015
OZAOEKPE:
8. Baby give me your 'anal'".

One minute silence for this brother... *sobs

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Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by hardeymorlar(m): 3:33am On Oct 16, 2015
Olasco93:
We don’t want to downplay the
importance of those three little words
that two weeks or two years into a
relationship still have the power to make your heart skip a beat. But while saying “I love you” is essential, so are other phrases, each with their own positive ripple effects in your relationship. Here are seven things we all want to hear (sometimes) more than “I love you.”

1. “You Can Do It.”

Perhaps one of the most important roles a partner plays in our lives is cheerleader.
So whether you’re ready to tap out and leave unswallowed that last delicious bite of gelato or preparing to lead a huge work project solo, it’s time for your S.O. to break out the pom-poms and cheer you on.


2. “I’m proud of you.”

When you finish that last bite of a healthy salad instead of your usual doughnut or kick butt at your work project, the best thing your man can do is swell with pride and express just how he thinks you rock.
Knowing you impressed yourself is great in-and-of itself—but blowing his mind is a new level of awesome.


3. “You’re Beautiful.”

We’ve all been the recipients of insincere compliments, and because of that, too often this phrase only elicits an eye roll.
But there’s nothing like the feeling we get when a man we love drops this doozy as we wake up, our unwashed mascara smudged along our puffy eyes—and knowing he means it.


4. “I Appreciate You.”

We take out the trash because that’s
what you do when it’s full. We fold their socks into pairs because we can’t stand the thought of another stray, lonely argyle without its mate. It’s nothing special—and it’s certainly not about recognition. But a man can turn the mundane into something more when he recognizes our acts of service are acts of love.


5. “Let Me Take You On a Date.”

Routine is the silent killer of passion,
people. So when a man wants to break free of binge-watching Netflix and take you out for a night on the town—or even for a candlelit, home-cooked meal on your patio—he’s saying he wants to keep the spark alive and roaring.

6. “I Support You.”

If your man’s got your back, it’s akin to having the full force of HGTV behind you when you purchase that fixer-upper: You know there’s nothing you can’t do.


7. “I’m Sorry.”

We don’t mean the insincere variety
tossed out mid-argument meant only to shut you up. We’re talking about the “I’m sorry” whose subtext is, “I understand where you’re coming from, I feel bad that I contributed to this situation, and I’m going to do my best to make sure it never happens again.” When it’s said that way, is there anything more loving?


This article was originally published at Glamour. Reprinted with permission from the author and
Culled from Sunday Idika.
I hope it helps.
is OP gay or it's a wrong profile undecided
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by kathykathy(f): 7:06am On Oct 16, 2015
Slimzjoe:
The most Romantic Words you can say to a Woman is "Gimme your Account Number" angry angry

my 15yrs old brother thinks dis way
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Nobody: 7:14am On Oct 16, 2015
OP, I've been telling Tashaamania all those stuffs....... Works like Magic!!! cool cheesy
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Tashaamania(f): 10:11am On Oct 16, 2015
rexkexmilan:
OP, I've been telling Tashaamania all those stuffs....... Works like Magic!!! cool cheesy
Stop mentioning me unnecessarily. Like, what's the problem?
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Olasco93: 12:24pm On Oct 16, 2015
hardeymorlar:
is OP gay or it's a wrong profile undecided

How can you be saying such thing?'Some' people just come online and post any comment they like without realizing the impact.
Remember what you post online stays online. Change your mentality dude and grow. I don't think you learned A B C D... To insult and make a mockry of everything.

Is there anything wrong or negative about this thread Sir?

If it doesn't help or give you insight, i think i helped hundreds of people out there...

Further more, wetin you find go my profile? Anyway ''I Handsome completely'' God no make mistake when creating me dude!!!
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by hardeymorlar(m): 1:10pm On Oct 16, 2015
Olasco93:


How can you be saying such thing?'Some' people just come online and post any comment they like without realizing the impact.
Remember what you post online stays online. Change your mentality dude and grow. I don't think you learned A B C D... To insult and make a mockry of everything.

Is there anything wrong or negative about this thread Sir?

If it doesn't help or give you insight, i think i helped hundreds of people out there...

Further more, wetin you find go my profile? Anyway ''I Handsome completely'' God no make mistake when creating me dude!!!
okay sir,all i'm just trying 2 say is next time u 'copy and paste' try changing some key words...dat's all *drops mic*
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by GoldenJulius(m): 2:16pm On Oct 16, 2015
hope it work for my next babe
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Nobody: 3:13pm On Oct 16, 2015
Tashaamania:

Stop mentioning me unnecessarily. Like, what's the problem?
Oh! There's actually no problem.

It Seems you are pretty bad at ignoring You've got to Learn it anyways.
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by clemz85(m): 3:54pm On Oct 16, 2015
Oyind17:
Will this unromantic naijaboys listen

yes, and good news for you, we are most romantic boys in the face of universe now
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by lilmax(m): 4:00pm On Oct 16, 2015
giffty:
What makes you think its all about the money??
Nigerian guys and their wrong way of thinking.
you've made it seem like every girl is after the money..
That's bad..
nice, now we have girls that can date broke dudes wink
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Nobody: 4:09pm On Oct 16, 2015
clemz85:


yes, and good news for you, we are most romantic boys in the face of universe now
I doubt
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by clemz85(m): 4:11pm On Oct 16, 2015
Oyind17:
I doubt
I may just have to hand you over to the universe right now.
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by giffty(f): 10:00pm On Oct 16, 2015
Slimzjoe:

Hope you didn't take my Reply Personal grin
Nahh,,cox not
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by giffty(f): 10:01pm On Oct 16, 2015
lilmax:
nice, now we have girls that can date broke dudes wink
gringringringrin
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by lilmax(m): 10:08pm On Oct 16, 2015
giffty:
gringringringrin
all I need you to do now is to say amen, it's not about the money remember wink
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Olasco93: 12:32pm On Oct 17, 2015
hardeymorlar:
okay sir,all i'm just trying 2 say is next time u 'copy and paste' try changing some key words...dat's all *drops mic*
Noted. I will do that next time. Thanks!
Re: 7 Things You Should Be Telling Her Other Than ''I Love You'' by Olasco93: 12:39pm On Oct 17, 2015
Imagine how people thinks. Some posters above (no name) are turning Educative and Informative thead that gives insight into a place of insults, mockery and the rest.

Sometimes, infact All-times it's good to behave, show some maturity and responsible.

#No wonder there's is still no youth in Goverment...

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