wat do u do if ur boy friend compares u with ur girl friend and wants u to behave like her?

thats just sick . . . you leave him _{at least thats what i'll do}

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komzygirl:

wat do u do if ur boy friend compares u with ur girl friend and wants u to behave like her?

I'd tell him to go mess himself

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tope2000:

I'd tell him to go mess himself

no you wont, you'll take the advice in good stride and try to please him however you can. some guys would simply have dumped you and moved on with your friend.

~ Dump his weak as*! If he ain't cool with u the way u are then he ain't meant to be with you! ~ Change him b4 he changes U ~

well I would find that strange if he did considering im hotter than my friends, lol secretz stop being so vain

But on a level, it means he doesn't want me for me sha, he wants my friend, he can go and have him.!

Secretz:

well I would find that strange if he did considering im hotter than my friends, lol secretz stop being so vain

But on a level, it means he doesn't want me for me sha, he wants my friend, he can go and have him.!

@ Secretz
so ur man na gay aswell

@ poster
i would remind him of better people that i know
and ask him to bhave like them
hopefully he would get my indirect speech with respect

tope2000:

I'd tell him to go mess himself

we arent sisters by mouth

@ topic after telling his sorry punk ass the words of wisdom above,
ill throw in a blow-up doll with the picture of the said friend attached to the face n advice him to feel free to self-service over it anytime  

Secretz:

But on a level, it means he doesn't want me for me sha, he wants my friend, he can go and have him.!

i would gladly tell him to go to hell and burn to ashes

nice1

Dats d reason some girls often have a friend dat is less attractive than themselves thus making them hotter by comparism when visiting their boy friend.It has never happened 2 me before so i dont know what 2 say.

i'd advise any one that this happens2 to put her fucking hands on her head, wail alot and then throw the guy into the atlantic ocean cus e don be

origina9ja:

@ Secretz
so ur man na gay aswell

@ poster
i would remind him of better people that i know
and ask him to bhave like them
hopefully he would get my indirect speech with respect

Yes sha, he can go and have HIM my friend! My male friend, since he has been watching him and comparing us! I go dash him. I don't want gay boyfriend ! God forbid bad ting!

komzygirl:

wat do u do if ur boy friend compares u with ur girl friend and wants u to behave like her?

Basically i believe it all depends on what u mean by the word 'compare' perhaps he never meant to disregard your persons by sighting one good trait in your gurlfirend AND HE FEELS YOU SHOULD EMULATE HER in that instance. I believe its just a feminine trait for a lady to feel the guy preffers her gurlfriend to her,

maray:

Dats d reason some girls often have a friend dat is less attractive than themselves thus making them hotter by comparism when visiting their boy friend.It has never happened 2 me before so i dont know what 2 say.

Its not about your friends being finer than u, some girls just have serious flaws, and if a guy honestly asks u to learn from a friend in a particular behavioural area - it doesn't mean he is attracted to her.

If your man asks u to change and be like your girlfriend, u really should look at yourself.

komzygirl:

wat do u do if ur boy friend compares u with ur girl friend and wants u to behave like her?

Before you shout Blue Murder, have you had time to query your behaviour to see if it's worth it?You might have a terrible behaviour and your man might be doing you a huge favour by pointing that out and going a step further by proffering solutions.
If I were your Man,I'll Dump You If you don't Change.

@ whitelexi,

IFELEKE:

Before you shout Blue Murder, have you had time to query your behaviour to see if it's worth it?You might have a terrible behaviour and your man might be doing you a huge favour by pointing that out and going a step further by proffering solutions.
If I were your Man,I'll Dump You If you don't Change.

But suspicions begin to arise when compared to your girlfriend's friend, no matter how you try to defend it. It would make me feel a bit uncomfortable, why compare? why not just state to your girl that she has ways about her personality or behaviour that you think she should tone down etc as it makes her look like this and that. Why actively/openly compare to the friend?. Sometimes you got to be tactful.

Secretz:

But suspicions begin to arise when compared to your girlfriend's friend, no matter how you try to defend it. It would make me feel a bit uncomfortable, why compare? why not just state to your girl that she has ways about her personality or behaviour that you think she should tone down etc as it makes her look like this and that. Why actively/openly compare to the friend?. Sometimes you got to be tactful.

I will definately point it out to you and if you don't change I will take it a step further by pointing out examples but with tact and if you don't change afterwards, I will gladly do the dumping.
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