Praise. Men adore women who shower them with adulation. Praise is like candy – good for everyone.

Nagging. Men hate it. Tell them once what you want. You have a 50-50 chance it will be done. Tell them more than that within a 24-hour period and it's called nagging. Complain to your mother. Give him dirty looks. Close the kitchen and the bedroom. But whatever you do, don't nag.

Crying. Men really hate it. They have no defense. You finally get him to have a serious talk and you start crying because you don't like how it's going. Well, girlfriend, you killed that one. Not only is the discussion over, but you put him in a lose-lose situation. If he ignores your emotions, he's insensitive. Finish the talk, then cry to the dog. Or a friend.

Food. His mother knew the way to his heart. And if she didn't, here's your opportunity. Men love to eat. And be served. If you like to cook, you lucked out on this one. If you don't, you're a dummy if you can't find takeout that will look, taste and smell like homemade.

Action Jacksons. Men either love to be on the move or watch other men move, mostly on TV or at a stadium. Either way, they need it. And they'll love you for it if you don't complain about it. He has high respect for a woman who knows the importance of giving him space when he needs it.

Śex. It's good for both of you. It keeps the connection and relieves stress and tension. He'll be putty in your hands. Cook a meal for him after and he'll be so happy he might even cry.

Relinquish the need for control. Worse than anything, a man hates when a woman is constantly trying to control every situation. It's emasculating and it's degrading, both to you and him. You're not very fun or pretty when you're controlling. Until you get a grip on your fears or whatever is making you work this ugly trait, your relationship will suffer. Let him be the man. You're with him for a reason. He's capable. Let him prove it. He'll love you for it.

The power of touch. Touch heals. It's the unspoken word of forgiveness, love, warmth and compassion. We all can use a little. Men crave it. It makes them closer to you and they will touch back.

Love. And more love. Tell him. Hug him. Text him. Laugh with him. Leave love notes in the bathroom or in his car. All the time. You'll get it back in spades. It's contagious and it keeps the special spark glowing bright.

Śex. It's good for both of you. It keeps the connection and relieves stress and tension. He'll be putty in your hands. Cook a meal for him after and he'll be so happy he might even cry.

missbronzy:
Good one, I go try

chipatra:

I no dey joke with this one, babe wey sabi know say na this one b d correct medicine for man

pinceprinz:
Food should be no. 1 on the list. My greatest turn off will be if she can't cook. Even she can she must be better at it cos am such a pro at the art too brags aside. What'll I be gaining from a lady who I don't get to learn a thing or two in the art of cooking from?

or3gon:
nothing much to gain i guess, probably why there's a saying "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach"