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My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by NoLoveLost(m): 3:56pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
I met Precious (not real name) and we started dating around early april 2015, which was a semester ago in my school. We are both from average backgrounds. All through out the previous semester, she was always at my rented appartment off campus (like couples life ) although she has her own apartment which she shares with her sister. We do everything together; walking to school, eating. Playing, enjoying etc. As the guy, i was catering for both of us from my stipend allowances and money i earn from jobs i do for my clients online so i was rarely broke. We didn't have much, but we had enough. Throughout a whole semester, i never could prove that my gf had a bank account, she never talked about visiting d bank or atm, neither did i ever saw a bank sms of any sort on her phone (I just got to observe, i wasn't checking her phone due to suspision). At a point i had to ask her if she wasn't a ghost, cos she had no financial record that i could pick upon. But all these while, she uses money to do some stuffs, which i didn't give to her which made me know that she receives money. There was no problem at all until this semester, when i stopped doing online works due to my academics, and then due to the fact that she stays with me, my allowances no longer have impact on "our" expenses. Now its always like whenever am broke, then she's broke. There aint no remedy of no sort. The allowance for one person is been spent by two, the foodstuff for one person is been consumed by two and now its like we are living from hand to mouth. Although at countable times, she had brought some bit of foodstuffs from her house for us, we always remained broke until i get money. Now whenever she receives money, she plans it and pays all manner of church dues, association due, department and faculty due, dues for church vest etc. Whereas when i receive money, i get foodstuffs and other necessary things we would need, thereby neglecting my own bills and "dues". She even always indulge me on what to do with the money cos she's always aware when i get money but i do not always know about hers. Recently i tried confronting her on the issue, and she was kinda "lackadaisika", telling me that am the guy and its my responsibility and all that. Truth be told, i love this girl, but she's wrecking me financially (at least for now), what can i do about it? Is she a wife material? Say i become fortunate in future, can i still pick on her? Am i been irresponsible? Please relate your opinions in the most sensible manner, no insults allowed. Thanks Cc lalasticlala 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by teemanbastos(m): 3:58pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Itz ur cross na... Bear it My advise is.... Pls wait till she finally wrecks you 10 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by ajasbaba(m): 3:58pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
you sef wreck her nah, thats if you understand me ohhhhhh. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Laitesmart(m): 4:00pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
She is wrecking you financially right? You didnt talk about how you are wrecking hwr physically and intwrnally... Co habiting is wonderful... Aint it 8 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by NoLoveLost(m): 4:04pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Laitesmart:If am wrecking her physically then she is also. Isnt it a mutual affair? 8 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by NoLoveLost(m): 4:05pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
teemanbastos: |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Rukkydelta(f): 4:10pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Speechless |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by misspicy(f): 4:10pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
wreck her too naw...it takes two to tango 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by cheerokee(m): 4:10pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Are you a boko-haram member?? why co-habiting a girl who isn't your wife?? please bring back our "GIRL" 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by donTbone(m): 4:11pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
i'll kick you like a wrecking ball... #singing |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by osazeeblue01: 4:17pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
It happens in school must times even in service(NYSC). Not new at all. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
mumu, na school them send u go 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Leave woman and concentrate on your studies! Too bad for you to start family life now! 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Maybe she doesn't have much money,either...Girls have expenses, u know...and u were indulging her all this time by catering 4 her,so she got used to it. Thank God she has her own apartment, pls,send her back...bcoz as long as she continues living with u,u'd av to take care of most of the expenses. Explain things to her nd send her bk. Why did u allow her stay so long,anyway? U want to get her pregnant,abi? Better save urself the troubles now. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by ClassCaptain(m): 4:33pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
talk to her and pray about it |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by fejikudz(m): 4:36pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
op you see your life..
brb 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
If she doesn't wreck your life, who will 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Nobody: 4:41pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Why are you both even living together? are u married? 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:08pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
This one is strong... First of all, it's wrong for couples who aren't married yet to live together.... You should try talking things out with her concerning the financial issue. As a girlfriend, in fact, as a good girlfriend, a girl is suppose to understand and know when her boyfriend is financially broke even without him admitting it. Just talk to her about it and after listening to her response, you'll know what to do. Communication is the ultimate key to happy relationship. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:12pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by gamaliel121(m): 5:22pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
If you are fuccking her...then no p...
She give u, you give her... |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:29pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Please, she doesnt sound like a girlfriend, dump her |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by DiscodeeFUTA(m): 5:34pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
I wonder what ur still doing with her...dump her sorry azz!! |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by ekundayoalo(m): 5:36pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
She's living with u and you're here complaining about her wrecking u. Excuse me mister, what do u expect when u guys are already living like mr&mrs (couples) and you don't have a job. she's ur responsibility as far as she staying with u. Stop complaining 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by 2dice(m): 5:36pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Ok lalasticla.la for what U can't think with your Brain Or you just need Frontpage Oga op Tell me?? 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by lgboks(m): 5:37pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
@op If you can't cope with the finances and you keep suffering and trying and the said girl can't even assist then am confident she ain't a wife material or even a good girl friend for that matter. What makes you think she won't leave you when you can't cope for a guy who can cope and cater for her A girl who loves you won't act the way she's doing right now. Once had a crush on this girl long time ago...she knows how I feel about her (but was scared to ask her out and even run when she suggest we date) At first thought it was fear until later I realized God was helping me out from a bad situation She always take and don't give. I visit her,and it ends with us @ a booker,fast food etc even while we got admission. It's all about her birthday and the gift and never about mine. She even want me to get her xmas and new year dress Not until I got admision that I saw the light (and noticed how she always take and demand) and even noticed the booker part etc Come see girls when go offer to pay for our bike Would pay for our meal @ the booker or canteen Would invite me over to eat Was shocked and realized my mistakes Yeah women take But the ones who give while taking are the best Guess she gives you just sex (of which you go still give her your strenght and sperm ) Run op I say op run A wife or gf is suppose to be a helper and partner. Guess we all make mistakes learn fast Even me when dey give dis advice still dey learn some stuffs sha Some girls bad sha 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Since she is already living couples life with you she isnt wife material.......but to be honest you also aren't husband material. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Nobody: 6:34pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Op i pirry u,u r living with a lady in school& u r here complaning she is wrecking u She never wreck,still dey live with her okay!But wait u dey enjoy pusssy naw?so stop complaning 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Baddo101(m): 6:38pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
NoLoveLost:Hmmmm.. I have nothing to say but i remeber while i was an undergraduate dat yr, My roomate who co-habited a lady even up till exam time was advised to withdraw from sch after series of warnings and repeat semester so i will advice u Run as fast as ur leg can carry you |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by joseph1832(m): 6:45pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Honestly, with the kind of threads I see and read here and starting to believe all these stories are being made up just for attention or front page sake. Just like Hints and Hearts magazine. Your girlfriend is wrecking you, I believe you don't need a rocket scientist to tell you to tell her to go and kiss and pig!. Instead of coming here and asking for advice. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by AfroKnight: 6:50pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
My friend this is not love. You don't have to take responsibility for her. So forget that nonsense she told you. You are still a student. Ask her to move out of your apartment. Trial marriage in school is simply parasitism and young man, you are the bloody HOST! Stop fooling yourself forming responsible husband to a girl that is not your wife. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Wrecking Me!! What Do I Do? by Ubyj(f): 7:00pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
Op, u r just irresponsible...yes baby, u really are. |
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