Guys in the house, Could you marry a girl that look older and matured than you, even when your friends and relatives are complaining so much about this Although you are older than her as per age concern

If you love her madly and deeply then **** what others are saying and do you

@Poster,
Is that why you don't want her?
Her Looks and Maturity Edge threatens/frightens you

~ 'Looks' more mature? As in Ugly? ~ I think not! ~

IFELEKE:

@Poster,
Is that why you don't want her?
Her Looks and Maturity Edge threatens/frightens you

I want her and love her ,  she has been very caring to me but my friends keep complaining about her look (she is good looking though but she looks older than me while I am older than her as per age)

Czarskit:

~ 'Looks' more mature? As in Ugly? ~ I think not! ~

No ,  she is not ugly but good looking but her look seems older than her age while I have a younger look than her but my friends keeps complaining about her look. If we are going together ,  people usually think she is my elder sister and sometimes eyed her while we are together, There was even a time when a friend told me he will get someone that looks younger than her and someone that her look fits mine.

think of what she wud look like after 3 kids,
and if u can livewith that, fine.

@poster,
Is it ur friends that u will marry or her? See,If ur friends like ur woman,don't be surprised that they will be the ones to complain later if there's a small/slight issue. Y must u look in the direction others r looking?U don't know wat u might meet @ d end of the tunnel they r leading thru, oga be wise and follow ur mind.Let them criticise u “A critic is someone who never actually goes to the battle,yet who afterwards comes out shooting the wounded”Getting into a relationship is very much like going to a restaurant with friends. You order what you want,
then when you see what the other fellow has, you wish you had ordered that.
So my brother,Think before you act and then act decisevely.Fortune favors the brave
have my words

@poster
i really dont have any thing to say

but just a word of advice for you,

please if you know her looks will make you cheat on her when you are married, pls back out

nor beef me o i just dey run my mouth

@IFELEKE
Te echo de menos,
where on earth have you been my sweet amigo

@nethecker
my loff, how are you

y me:

@IFELEKE
Te echo de menos,
where on earth have you been my sweet amigo

@nethecker
my loff, how are you

who is loffing who here?y_me i missed u honey,

@ nethacker

Please that your grammar is too big for me, I beg bring it dowm to my level , O se , lol
I want to understand every bit of what you meant. Thank you

C me o:

I want her and love her , she has been very caring to me but my friends keep complaining about her look (she is good looking though but she looks older than me while I am older than her as per age)

So your friends dictate for you?
No wonder you said she is more matured. . .

y me:


@IFELEKE
Te echo de menos,
where on earth have you been my sweet amigo

My Darling, I miss you too . . . ve been busy @Work_{(u understand)}

But I don't like it when gurls look older than their age

If you truly love her . . what ur families n friends sayz shudnt matter

I wonder what the guy saw on the gurl

^{I don't like old mama youngies o.}

Date and bedroom lectures . . . . yeah
Marry . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .no

@ Izeek, LOL, after three kids, she'd prolly look like a 200 pound whale, with stetch marks, fallin jugs, eyebags,

EWWWWW, that is soooooooooooooo GROSSSSSSSSSS

v3nom4eva:

@ Izeek, LOL, after three kids, she'd prolly look like a 200 pound whale, with stetch marks, fallin jugs, eyebags,

EWWWWW, that is soooooooooooooo GROSSSSSSSSSS

she is not fat but slim and straight , the problem is just her look , she looks older than me

@ c me o, i won't lie to u, i'm in d same "hole" you're in, I have this girl i'm dating and i'm juz a year older than her, but cuz of my babyface, she holds d upper hand and EVEN my mom thinks she's older than me, I love her to death, so i share ur pain, But if you do love her, stick by her irrespective of whatever pple think/say abt the both of you,

Hope it works for you two, all the best

Well dude, I've been in such a situation n it really is a tough decision to make. The truth is time will eventually make u regret the blindness of "love" and u'll wake up to reality at age 50, Lets be wise, notice these features at the beginning of the r/ship and be quick to end it once u start having doubts,

what has what your friend think got to do with who you end up with. forget your friends & think of what you want & whats best for you
if they are really your friend, they'll respect ur choice & your girl

@ poster there is noting bad in that, if truly you are in love

if it bothers u so much, then it not a good idea to marry her. u already know the answer. Stop looking for affirmation

funkyfella:

Well dude, I've been in such a situation n it really is a tough decision to make. The truth is time will eventually make u regret the blindness of "love" and u'll wake up to reality at age 50, Lets be wise, notice these features at the beginning of the r/ship and be quick to end it once u start having doubts,

@ funkyfella ,
You are right , its really a tough decision but please what reality would i wake up to at age 50?? Please share more with me

v3nom4eva:

@ c me o, i won't lie to u, i'm in d same "hole" you're in, I have this girl i'm dating and i'm juz a year older than her, but cuz of my babyface, she holds d upper hand and EVEN my mom thinks she's older than me, I love her to death, so i share ur pain, But if you do love her, stick by her irrespective of whatever pple think/say abt the both of you,

Hope it works for you two, all the best

@v3nom4eva
Thanks for sharing your personal experience with me but would like to know what it eventually leads to? Are you married to her now? how did you cope with what people are saying to you, e.t.c. Please let me drink from your pool of experience.

slimfine:

if it bothers u so much, then it not a good idea to marry her. u already know the answer. Stop looking for affirmation

lol

@ topic
no

@ c me o, We still are dating eachother&10x to God, pple r starting to realise i ain't lettin go&marriage iz ONLY a few clicks away,

Simply put, Dont do somethin you'd live to regret for the rest of your life brova, Be a man for once and make THAT decision, but consult God aka Baba Himself first o!!

All the best bro

izeek:

think of what she wud look like after 3 kids,
and if u can livewith that, fine.

EXACTLY

when you both approach 40yrs hmmmm . I say hmmmm again. What a pity?