This is happening to my friend.

She has been married for six years now with three beautiful kids. Ever since she got married, her husband has been keeping some questionable relationships with women. One day she saw love text msgs between her husband and his girl friend. when it became too frequent, she called the girl in question to ask some peaceful questions and the girl apologized sincerely to her and told her that her husband never mentioned he was married, and that he promised to marry her. The lady caused so much havoc, even to the extent of going to the guyz office to make trouble. She told my friend that the hubby called her that he had an accident on his way to portharcourt and she gave the guy One hundred thousand to fix his damaged car (Note: He really had an accident on dat same day and that was the day of their wedding). He later apologized to my friend and life continued. Later on, he had someone else again (he will always say he does not take them to bed), she began to loose confidence in him and was always searching his phones. fortunately and unfortunately for my friend, she bumps into another love text msgs with anoda girl and when she confronted him, he denied a visible chats. It has been a regular routine. Its been on and off like dat for the past six years. The most recent now is a friend he has since 2005, they have been chatting for sometime now. She calls anytime of the day even when they are together. she began to wonder if the girl was aware that the man is married. But when she called the lady to ask peacefully, she apologized also to her and swore she never knew her husband is married. She said the hubby told her that he has a baby mama. My friend is really worried cos its getting out of hand. Its not once, twice, thrice, infact its a continuous thing. And the worst of all is that he goes about lying to them that he is not married and at the same time promising to settle with them. She has lost her love for him and really wants a divorce. Kindly advise

patience

Refer her to this thread https://www.nairaland.com/2707664/divorce-lawyers-d-house-pls

Cycle of girlfriends....... The woman should fasten her praying belts EKPERE AMAKA

The husband obviously has a promiscuous streak in him. Perhaps your friend didn't notice before they got married.

However it is too late to cry over spilled milk.

She should first of all desist from searching his phone. It's unnecessary and only would increase her agony.

She should engage herself more in her business, career(i'm hoping she's not a housewife) and the children. If they are under age 6, i trust they would be more than enough to keep her engaged daily- their laundry, homework, cleaning the house etc etc .....

She can ensure she's on point as per her weight, dress sense and in meeting his needs in bed.

Good luck to her!

N.B- She should not come and kee herself because of this issue. she won't be the first nor the last with this kind of *crisis*

men and thier waka waka sef mcheeeewwww

Just saw that she's considering divorce.

Is she sure she wants to go that route

There are lots to consider before an eventual divorce decision.

Again i say- Good luck to her

babythug:
The husband obviously has a promiscuous streak in him. Perhaps your friend didn't notice before they got married.

However it is too late to cry over spilled milk.

She should first of all desist from searching his phone. It's unnecessary and only would increase her agony.

She should engage herself more in her business, career(i'm hoping she's not a housewife) and the children. If they are under age 6, i trust they would be more than enough to keep her engaged daily- their laundry, homework, cleaning the house etc etc .....

She can ensure she's on point as per her weight, dress sense and in meeting his needs in bed.

Good luck to her!

N.B- She should not come and kee herself because of this issue. she won't be the first nor the last with this kind of *crisis*

men and thier waka waka sef mcheeeewwww

Just to add,she should get nice lingerie and be sexy.Get some cool red pants and bra.

babythug:


She can ensure she's on point as per her weight, dress sense and in meeting his needs in bed.

Good luck to her!

thorpido:
Just to add,she should get nice lingerie and be sexy.Get some cool red pants and bra.

Lwtmb


Sarcastic much huh

Dyt:


Lwtmb


Sarcastic much huh

works wonders.

thorpido:
works wonders.

Buhahahahaha
I should add this too
she should also pray night and day
Fast for 42days non stop

DIVORCE

thorpido:
Just to add,she should get nice lingerie and be sexy.Get some cool red pants and bra.

Don't knock it
https://www.nairaland.com/2538813/importance-red-pant-bra

Always 'their friend'

Well....karma is a biaaaatch.....[i]..singing and humming my favorite tune.
[/i]Not[b][/b] judging anybody but.........hia hia hia. Boomerang and karma....biaatch.


Wear red thongs and slit throat bra ....it works wonders huo huo huo huo

Concerned Nairalanders, Here's the sequel to this thread.. www.nairaland.com/2708508/wife-beats-me-up-when/

she should calmly ask the man ; what his problem is,if he is willing to overcome it or continue with his lifestyle, or if it is the village witches at work in his life?
HIS reply would determine her line of action.

thorpido:
Just to add,she should get nice lingerie and be sexy.Get some cool red pants and bra.

Lols

53cur3m0d3:
Concerned Nairalanders, Here's the sequel to this thread.. www.nairaland.com/2708508/wife-beats-me-up-when/

This wife beats her husband?

bukatyne:


This wife beats her husband?

We don't even know what to believe anymore. Make them pack themselves dey go customary court Abeg. I taya

thorpido:
Just to add,she should get nice lingerie and be sexy.Get some cool red pants and bra.

Then tie black headgear and start chanting incantations at 2am

Fake story from the pit of hell.

Husband was in the office, side chic called.

Husband had an accident on his way to Port-Harcourt, that again was the day of his wedding.

Husband begged side chic for money. Is it for his wedding, hospital bill or car repair?

Op, receive sense IJN amen.