Dear All,

Please forgive me in advance for this topic but try and understand my point.

Ok, what do women think of relationships where the guy is not that appealing physically but has all the other stable qualities?
Don't you think it is more reliable when you are the one that looks like a princess don't you find it better for your self esteem.

I have dated in both camps and I have to say, when the guy was just standard I felt like a princess. But when I was with
guys who were as hot as anything - it wasn't just the same. Do you feel you will have to put up with unwanted females
hitting on your man when he is hot? Is he as focused on you versus himself. Ok Victoria Beckham and huzzy are cute but he
has the upper hand. As in I am sure they fight for the moisturiser.

I think a dude should be a masculine manly dude. That means rollon, lotion and a cologne and aftershave is enough for you.

None of this hair braids or weird styles, earrings, top colourful fashion, over the top accessories etc.

Ladies hit this topic with your thoughts.

Take care.

Madam.


which couple do you think is more secure? Close in looks or where the woman shines?

Many pretty damsels are getn married to either fat, ugly, short, half past 4 eyed, stammering, or pot bellied men.......


I pity those girls who stil fantasize abt body stature...

Not-so -good -looking but with a good heart is better

Funny.

God almighty created all things as He likes.

Glory be to God the creator of the created.

A man is never ugly!

People stop taking things so personally and see the wood for the trees,
as in see the question for what it is.

No one is ugly you say. But a woman needs to marry a guy who is lower than
her in looks cause then she shines bright like the delicate flower she should be.

OgaMadam:
People stop taking things so personally and see the wood for the trees,
as in see the question for what it is.

No one is ugly you say. But a woman needs to marry a guy who is lower than
her in looks cause then she shines bright like the delicate flower she should be.

Jesus Christ! This is some serious insecurity and low self-esteem issues.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but attraction is more important than beauty anyway.

You can marry an ugly dude if you feel insecure around handsome men, just pray your kids do not take after him.

OgaMadam:
People stop taking things so personally and see the wood for the trees,
as in see the question for what it is.

No one is ugly you say. But a woman needs to marry a guy who is lower than
her in looks cause then she shines bright like the delicate flower she should be.

okay o

Marry whoever u want it.

@OP:

What should happen to handsome men?

What a wierd topic.....so if you are attracted to a handsome guy, you would rather settle for a not so good looking just because you want to be the one that shines the most?.....Okay continu...diaris God....diaris God..o

Stillfire:


Jesus Christ! This is some serious insecurity and low self-esteem issues.

u just said my mind

What's up with threads in dis section dis week?? So many irrelevant questions coming from peeps u almost think everyone is becoming shallow in their thoughts towards life.
1) how to train kids without yelling or punishment(like dt can ever happen )
2) why men are marrying village girls recently(like they've been to every wedding dt took place from 2014-till date )
3)which spouse shud be on d left or right side when taking pics (as if dt will make d marriage strong or have effect on their love )
4) now it's weda one shud marry ugly guys or hot self centered men (as if dts a major criteria for long lasting union).
To ba ya dey will come on NL and say marriages are overrated,or bad,or doesn't make sense when dey demselves aren't sincere about d myopic choices dey made in choosing a life partner

Like Fkforyou said continu just know there's God o.

How people expressly call others ugly is just...

I'm not against anyone's choice of facial features but that word "ugly"... oh well...

Ugly men should check the next babe. Ain't available Mehn.

How you wan take kiss the face sef.

Ha I! What won't one see on nl?

Trust people to blow things out of proportion.



Read this:
http://elitedaily.com/women/hot-girls-date-less-attractive/728378/

A study reported in Daily News revealed that women who marry uglier men have happier marriages than ones who marry attractive men.

It’s an evolutionary thing. Men are more concerned with the appearance of their mate, ensuring they will have good genes to pass on to their children. Women, on the other hand, are less obsessed with the genetic makeup of their children and are looking for stability in a man, not just strong genes.

Having a hotter wife is also the reason husbands are more attentive and motivated to make their marriage work. Men who are hotter than their wives, however, are more likely to take them for granted.

In a similar study reported in the Journal of Family Psychology, 82 newlyweds were evaluated, and the couples with a wife more attractive than her husband were more content than those couples with equal attractiveness.

It makes sense; women want to be appreciated, and men want to show off their prize. A good marriage is based on compromise: A hot woman can make her man proud, and a proud man can make his wife happy.

will rather go for who's not so cute but has other qualities intact than a cutie who's selfish. its very stressful being with a self centered man.

Ugly man? How will I sign to look at that for the rest of my life? No be me and you.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder... no one is ever ugly, some are just more beautiful / handsome than the other.

lilykach02:
will rather go for who's not so cute but has other qualities intact than a cutie who's selfish. its very stressful being with a self centered man.

thank you gurl. you know whats up.

the topic does not say don't date handsome men, it says dating men who are handsome AND self centred.

women know what I am talking about deep down inside.