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| 5 Things Real Romance Is Made Of!!! by Nobody: 5:47pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
[b]Want to keep real romance in your
marriage? Take a look at these 5 things
real romance is made of. 1. Romance Is Relationship: First, begin by realizing that romantic overtures will go nowhere if you and your husband don’t have a strong, caring day- to-day relationship; being kind and thoughtful toward each other – asking your husband about his day , how a hobby or special project is going, or even reminiscing together. It’s sharing common interests and just taking the time to enjoy each other’s company, as best friends. 2. Romance Is a Joint Process: Many times a spouse will try to initiate romance with a surprise dinner or a vacation they planned out. But then they’re disappointed when the event isn’t the dream date or getaway they had imagined. It’s not that the recipient isn’t appreciative of the effort, but what is fun or relaxing to one person may not be to the other. Since most people aren’t mind readers, the only way to really know what will impress your husband is to ask. “What is romantic to you?” “What is your idea of a dream date — where would you go, how dressed up would you want to be, what kind of restaurant?” “What kind of vacation would you want to go on — what time of year, where, what kind of hotel, what kind of activities. Find out what your husband likes and take it from there. (Hopefully, he’ll get the hint and ask you what your romantic ideal is. If he doesn’t, find a way to share it with him.) 3. Romance Is a Surprise: Finding out what your husband finds romantic doesn’t mean you still can’t have surprises. Your surprise doesn’t have to be an unexpected date or weekend trip. It could be something simple like a note, a favorite meal or dessert, or offering to take him to that new movie he’s really wanted to see. 4. Romance Is Consistency: As mentioned before, romance isn’t just an event. It’s not putting effort into planning a nice Friday night date and neglecting your husband the rest of the week. It takes a consistent effort. But unless you’re very creative, it may get harder and harder to think of new ways to keep the romance alive. So build up some resources to help you think of ideas. Start by asking your spouse. 5. Romance Is Attention: Focus on each other, not on what else you could be doing. Going to the park for the day? Don’t take the laptop or cell phone. Thinking of baking a favorite dessert for your husband? Don’t wait until you need to ask him for a favor. Are you both going for a stroll on the beach? Talk about something other than the kids, finances, or chore lists. Eliminate the distractions and focus on enjoying your time with each other. Building a romantic atmosphere in your marriage won’t happen overnight or without a continual effort, but the end result is worth it. Keep the friendship in your marriage strong, plan events centered on shared interests, surprise each other with special tokens of love, and give your husband your undivided attention during your romantic times together.[/b] |
| Re: 5 Things Real Romance Is Made Of!!! by Nobody: 5:49pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
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