How to say “I love you” for the first time and get
it right
Saying I love you for the first time can make it or
break it for you. Here are a few tips to help you give
this milestone the pizzazz it deserves.
#1 No holds barred. When you feel it, you say it.
Right then and there. It’s an instinctive feeling that
most people have encountered. There is nothing
wrong with saying “I love you” when you feel like
saying it. Whatever triggered your emotions to form
these three words inside your head and prompted
your lips to say it must be significant enough to
justify just laying it out there. Don’t hold back.
It may happen in the middle of grocery shopping or
when you’re driving or while you’re showering
together. If you’ve thought it, you’re feeling it, then
there is nothing more beautiful than conveying what
you feel, spontaneously if need be.
#2 It’s sushi and movie night. And it’s about to end,
even though you don’t it want to. Even though you
have been doing sushi and movie night for quite
some time now, you still get that feeling of elation
and bliss, as if you are just on your first few dates.
And you just can’t help but tell your significant other
what you feel.
So you say it. Tell them you love them. After having
spent a wonderful evening or day with them, it is the
best way to cap off the date and also the best way to
begin a long and meaningful relationship.
#3 Snail mails are forever. If you want to be old
school, you can write a long, handwritten letter to
your loved one and say exactly how you feel about
them. And before you end the letter, say ‘I love you’.
Even though you’ve written every possible form of I
love you all throughout your letter, writing down
those three words makes a huge difference. With
written proof of your confession of love, they can
relive the moment again and again by simply
rereading your letter *and beaming to themselves all
the while*.
But don’t forget that when you give this letter to your
significant other, you have to be there so you can still
say it to them in person. Nothing beats hearing it as
well.
#4 Soft and gentle. Like a whisper. You have quiet
moments with your partner where you just lie down,
cuddle, or stare at the ceiling while stroking each
other’s hair. You are both relaxed and enjoying each
other’s company, even though you are not really
doing anything. The ambiance is perfect, both of you
are comfortable and in each other’s solace.
If you are in this scenario, you can whisper the words
in your partner’s ear. Push back some errant strands
of your partner’s hair and whisper, “I love you.”
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