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Father's Marriage Message To Daughter by Linus4get(m): 7:34pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
What A Father Told His Daughter A Day Before
Her Wedding
My Daughter, tomorrow you will stop bearing my
name. You will be happily married to the man you
love. Dont miss me because I have fulfilled my
purpose, it is now time for you to start fulfilling
yours.
From your childhood, I have raised you well by
the grace of God but before you say I do, there
are few things I need to tell you about living with
a man and being married.
Do you remember when you wrote your WAEC and
JAMB exams? You came to me and I gave you
20,000 naira for the registration? Well, even
though I gave it to you, the money was not mine.
I know you always thought I paid the fees. The
truth is, I was broke… but your mother gave me
the money. She could have given it to you but
she decided to give it to me to give to you.
Support your husband. Some times things will get
tough… he will be frustrated. Even though he acts
tough, in his mind he has fears… he fear you may
not value him anymore because he has fallen.
That is the time to get behind him and support
him!
The best way to show your husband you love him
is to respect him! You may argue with him, you
may disagree but at the end of the day, let him
know he has your respect.
Do you remember the day I screamed at your
mother? What did she do? She was quiet! Do you
also remember the day she screamed at me?
What did I do? I was quiet! My daughter learn to
be quiet sometimes when your husband is angry.
When one person is hot, the other should be cool.
If two are always screaming at same time, that is
how big problems start in marriage. The first
thing to know about your husband is his favourite
food! If he has more than one then keep them at
the back of your mind. Dont let him ask for it,
always prepare it for him.
There was a day your mother caught me touching
a woman’s hand affectionately. I was lust after
that woman but I was not yet cheating on your
mum. When she saw us… she didnt fight the lady,
she quietly left. I was afraid of going home
because all hell will break lose. But when I got
home she said nothing. She served me my food.
Guilt was taking control over me. I started
begging. From that day, I never looked at a
woman two time. Who knows? If she had fought
and threatened me… maybe I could have run
away from the fight into the arms of the lady.
Sometimes Silent brings better solution than fight.
Forget those romantic novels you read while you
were 21. Remember those Indian and American
love movies? Also remember those too sweet
Nollywood films on African magic? Forget them!
Don’t expect your married life to be that way. Life
is different from fiction
The last thing I want to tell you…. Do you
remember how you were born? After our wedding,
things were tough and your mum had to do two
jobs to support us. I was working as well. I get
home 6 PM while she gets home 8pm tired. But
when we get to bed… she will not refuse me my
night food. That is how you were born. Dont form
a habit of denying your husband of his night
food.
Be a good wife. You will always be Daddy’s girl… |
Re: Father's Marriage Message To Daughter by Omotayor123(f): 7:36pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
Nice one |
Re: Father's Marriage Message To Daughter by mmafhew(m): 7:57pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
As in dope cool... Sum girl go be like shoro niyen.. |
Re: Father's Marriage Message To Daughter by Linus4get(m): 10:56pm On Nov 12, 2015 |
its just for her to learn |
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