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Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 3:55pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
ClassCaptain:Are You Nigerian? In Nigeria, We don't Take Stubborn kids to Counsellors...it's A waste Of Time And money.. You take them To Churches, Herbalists, Military Boarding schools, Prophets...They'll pray and flogg some sense into her.. Anyways...I think they should do a bit of ToughLove! like give her 14lashes, Her backward brain should be Able to Re-boot....it works all the time!! 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by tablu: 4:00pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
ClassCaptain:In nigeria prfessional counselor ke? horse whip will be a very good option...black children are born with alot of rythm.Give her like 20lashes she will change. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by HaneefahRN(f): 4:26pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
She is being naive. I think u guys over pampered her though, how can someone who got preg at tht tender age still av the guts to be disrespectful to the pple caring for her, if the family had made her realise was she did was shameful and wld not be tolerated a 2nd time she wldn't try tht rubbish. Don't be surprised when she comes back home with a 2nd preg from tht same irresponsible boy. This same thn happened to a neighbour of mine while she was in sch, the girl had d 1st child, they didn't curb her and she brought another 1 again from a different man, sadly her younger sis followed her step. U av to let her learn the hard way, since she thinks she is matured enof. Trying to severe her bonds wt tht randy boy myt nt work. Since she wants to go to him, call the boy and his family, arrange their marriage, whatever she sees there let her learn from it. It's then she'll appreciate u for trying to make her life better, bt since she wants to be ambitionless leave her. 3 Likes |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by obiak4(m): 4:53pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
ministerblessed:best advice ever also to add to it just let her stay with the baby dad for sometime say 3months,am sure by then she would have seen reason to always obey ur mum, and u, cos she cannot get half the love and care she gets from u and ur mum, if you follow this steps r she does not change aje pee w have to consult ifa lol 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Agathabishen(f): 5:02pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Thanks all for the advice. Am very greatful. God bless you all |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Seculent: 5:04pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen:Lalasticlala can still help you on this. Have faith. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by 4everGrand(m): 5:15pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Khd95: In dis world of ours u still believe contacts can be severed? Forgerrit, if u wanna look for sb, its just a matter of a few clicks. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 5:31pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen:Omo let her chop igbati African style ..... Wahda!!!! If counselling fails introduce doctor do good (koboko) |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by afrikaa: 5:48pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
She needs a change of environment... Some place far from where she presently is. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 5:51pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
I suggest you seperate her and the child, get her a counsellor/mentor, let her know that you are ready to disown if she doesn't follow the laid down rules |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 5:52pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
afrikaa: It might get worse |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by SAMBARRY: 5:52pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
misspicy:nope.beatings and punches will do and issue her curfews.she Must be home latest by 7pm otherwise she's banned from going out |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by bettercreature(m): 5:53pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Logician:You are absolutely right,nothing in this world can stop such lady,one of my sister worst past this one in the 1990s,she is facing the consequences now 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Malakh: 5:53pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen:cast her out let the world deal with her, being blood related don't mean jack, everybody answers for themselves, hate to be blunt, but it is what it is and quit being sentimenal....He who hides the wind.....finish am for yourself e dey scriptures |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by davide470(m): 5:54pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by 9niceguy(m): 5:54pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen:I think she need to learn some lessoN.....I support your mum |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by free2ryhme: 5:54pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen: At this stage the best you can do is to talk to her. Send her away to her baby father cut off from her so she can retrace her steps and reflect on her actions there is chance she can get back to her right senses It is going to be a tough one but it is a decision you must take devoid of emotions and sentiments |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by LockDown69(m): 5:55pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen: She has gone out of hand. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by DOCTORDONE: 5:55pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by ERONX(m): 5:55pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
The enemies in ur family are at work....Take ur sister to d nearest Mountain Of Fire Church she needs serious deliverance |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by SAMBARRY: 5:55pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Kanwuliajara come o.how you see this matter. Especially as it has to do with a delinquent /unnreasonable teen mom |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by onatisi(m): 5:58pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen:there is nothing you can do. Sending her away will worsen the situation and things may even turn bad .and you will later blame yourself .the best teacher in life is experience. When a child is 18. The beat form of correction is to show examples of both sides of the coins to her,show her ppl who have walked the path she is walking and their outcome and show her ppl who have done the right thing at the right time .keep hammering it in her ears. She may not listen but when she reaches the age of 20 or 19 she will start seeing the truth.you can't forcefully bend a dried fish unless it breaks right now she is a dried fish .all her attitude now you are complaining about didn't start last year but years and years before which you and your family failed to correct. 6 Likes |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by kakashi12(m): 5:58pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
I think u should show her wat she is missing. Take her to a university and let her see her mates..that might help |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by leoweblinkblog(m): 5:58pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Na advice de correct person, so just give some advice. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by femiranking28(m): 5:59pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
cyprus000:Respect Respect best advice... 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 6:00pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
cyprus000: You said the truth and my mind! 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by digitalcare: 6:03pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
My Brother there is nothing you can do,let her go to insert finger in her anus and spell,so that she will know the difference of when she inserted finger and when she didn't.the truth of the matter is that she had tasted Adam's aple so it's not easy to do without.just let's assume her case is like that of prodigal son.she will regret it all soon and come down on her kneel. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by flyca: 6:03pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
ClassCaptain: In Nigeria? |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by acegikmoqsuwy: 6:03pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Remember what the book of proverbs says "respect thy father and thy mother and you would live long"...but she has done contrary an definitely she's not gotta live long..........................but for the fact that you love her as a sister and you want her to learn forcely, then I suggest u lock her up in a room and beat her to COMA. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by salveoP(m): 6:04pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
sis, so na my matter u carry come for here bah...we go see for house!! 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by flaky66(f): 6:04pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
17?? Shez young....anyways,my advice is that you just leave her be...if u have to prevent her from entering ur farm,do so....she feels she z an adult so treat her like one....let her go to her baby daddy wheneva she wants to but STOP treating her like a child (i.e cookin for her nd d rest)....let her fend for her self that way she'd learn thru experience nd u cn still keep an eye on her but pls do not send her away....u all myt end up regretting it i hope this hlps 1 Like 1 Share |
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