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Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Pidggin(f): 6:35pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Send her to live with a relative in the village. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Epatty(f): 6:37pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Am so sorry to say ds but its d truth... Dats d effect of a broken home, n if care is nt taken, she will also b a victim. She will continue to behave d way she do, unless she's beaten n sent to anoda environment entirely. I support wat ur mum wants to do. Its nt ha wish to send ha away bt dats d best tn to do for nw. She's young n wont survive all dat, moreover, she dosn't ve any 'gud' certificate yet, for wok. God will help u all. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by jomoh: 6:37pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen: You need to read this. Politicos: @bold Legally she's still a minor. Take her and the guy to a police station so the guy can know the consequence of having sex with a minor. Legal she's still a minor so she cannot raise a child. Let your mum adopt the child legally thereby taking the baby away from her. Consider sending her to school again and preferably in a very strict environment. Y'all need to be really strong and dump all this western idea of counselling. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by jabojafa(m): 6:39pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
HaneefahRN:leaving to herself isnt d best decision. Our ppl say ''an okro plant can neva be taller dan d owner'' since she suckd ur mum's breast and der is absolutely nothing impossible for God to do den d place of prayer must neva be neglected. Also sending her away since she is nt married or becom an adult yet then u, ur broda n mum have to employ wot eva means to instill discipline into her. You guys hv to be hard on her especially ur elder broda. Dont eva neglect d rod of correction. Finally Shilow is starting on d 8th of Dec, and i think u shd mk it a date with d God of Shilow bring ur sista along to God physically or making her ur only prayer request. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by MrBasketball: 6:40pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
blessedfavoured:You're very funny! 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by dionflex: 6:40pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Take her to Sambisa Forest |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by UniqueGem(m): 6:41pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Now to what to do..... This is not a case to be treated softly, your sister has refused to listen to you and is clinging instead to a guy that abandoned and denied her. Damn! The thought alone is disgusting. Your brother should sit up as the man of the house, he should go to that useless boys house and confront him, call him and his family out and threaten to deal with them if they don't stop taking undue advantage of your sister. The good here is that your sister is still a teen and not an adult. Remind them your sister is kid, a 17years old girl who doesn't know anything. Threaten to involve the authorities(soldiers and lawyers. No police pls) if their son doesn't stop taking advantage of your sister. Go home and let your sister know that since she doesn't want things to be done smoothly, that you are ready to ply that hard route she is suggesting. Re-arrange everything in her life(assert your authority for f sake, she is a kid who knows nothing.). Change her schedule, let her join you or your brother in whatever you are into, no leaving the house without your permission, time her if she has to go out, ask her what she needs money for when she asks for it. Take total charge of her life, she is a kid. If anything goes wrong, people will blame your family and not her because she is still a small girl. You guys have failed massively in raising a child. Unwanted pregnancy, unruly behaviour, unrepentant, late nights, dumb, daft, drop out, nearly useless, et all. All this at 17? Common, i mean common, you guys have failed so far. But the Good news is that its not late. Grab the bull by the horn before she turns 18 oo. Agathabishen |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 6:41pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
cyprus000: Wow ur mum is gangsterrr. I like her |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by lahit14(m): 6:43pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Politicos: Op this is ur ansa, forget abt all those peopl telln u to let her be, they'r joke stars!!! Bigtime! A 17 years old girl, a small spoilt rat becos she has eaten the forbidden fruit and bore a child doesn't hav any right to trouble ya'all. If anytin she should show contrition for shaming ya'all and live what's remaining of her life by ya'alls grace, doing everytin she can to mend her life and makeup for her stupidity. Op dat ur bother sef. Nawa!! |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by haywire07(m): 6:44pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Councelliing won't work anymore . Let her learn the hard way . Send her to her boyfriend's house and she will know wat it feels to be a woman . 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Originalsly: 6:44pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
"You can take the horse to the water...but you can't make him drink it". Talk until you drop.... it goes in her left ear and out the right. You and your family are a big part of the problem. Support your mother in putting her out....let her go live with her baby father and face the full reality if life...the reality that to date you guys are sheltering her from. If she spends the day with her "in laws"....did you ever stop too think why she doesn't stay overnight? One reason....they don't want their sleep be disturbed by the crying baby....nor to be attending to the baby during the night. Let her go stay there....she would have the full responsibility of caring for the baby and would have to follow the rules and instructions of the guy's mother...and no doubt be doing lots of work. In a few weeks she would be begging to return home and you guys can set conditions under which she can return. It's called tough love. 5 Likes |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 6:45pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
A bird that dances in the middle of the road, has its drummer. So goes an igbo proverb. When a child decides to play in a ripe pepper garden, when sweat comes, he will definetly wipe off drips of sweat on his eyes. Your sister is dancing surugede, but don't know such dances belong to evil spirit. Marry her off. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by KanwuliaJara: 6:49pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: How do you deal with a child with a child? With one generation of uselessness glaring, that child has to be saved. DOUBLE JEOPARDY? You wanno throw away the baby with the "toto wota"? The dangers of DADALESS BABY HOMES are numerous. When the presence of a father-figure is minimal in a young girl's life, she becomes EVER-WILLING to open her azzzzze for any "replacement". |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by eightsin(m): 6:50pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
You people make me laugh.. these teenagers are ready to fight you. Do not be surprised that if the op attempt to discipline her, she might run to the kitchen and come back with a knife all in an attempt to stab the op. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by miqos02(m): 6:52pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
hmmmm |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by MrBasketball: 6:53pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
eightsin:That's true! All these teenagers that evil spirits control them easily. She want to live hard life, she will learn her lesson from there. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by UniqueGem(m): 6:54pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
eightsin:As the only male in my family, i'd rather be dead than watch my 17years old sister rot in the hands of a fellow man i'm probably older than(when she's not married to him). Its ridicule to their family. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by diamondzs(f): 6:54pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen:She's a woman & a mother now, since she isn't remorseful over wat she did d best is to send her out to her baby daddy's & stop killing ur mother emotionally... 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Nobody: 6:55pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen:GET URSELF TOGETHER BRO. FIRST I WANT U TO KNOW THAT U CAN'T FORCE HER AGAINST ER WILL. IF U DO, U ARE JUST WASTING UR TIME. GET HER INTO A ROOM WHERE ALL UR IMMEDIATE FAMILY MEMBERS ARE. LET HER KNOW WHY U PPL WOULD THROW HER OUT. THREATHING HER WITH THE EVICTION UNLESS SHE IS READY TO MOVE IN WITH THAT GUY. IF SHE OPTS,LET HER KNOW WHY SHE MUST GO AND MOVE IN WITH D GUY,IF TRULY THEY ARE REALLY SEEING EACH ODA STILL. IF THIS IS TRIED AND YET THE GUY WON'T TAKE HER IN, U ALREADY HAVE AN UPPER HAND BY LETTING HER DOWN AND MAKING HER MARRY D GUY AT ALL COST. IN DSAME VEIN. U GUYS MUST LET HER IN BACK ONLY ON D CONDITION THAT SHE WOULD EITHER FINISH SCHOOL OR LEARN A TRADE. U MUST BE FIRM ON THAT |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by BIDOO(m): 6:57pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
misspicy:And inversely I should as well slap out frivolous from you |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by BIDOO(m): 6:57pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
misspicy:And inversely I should as well slap out frivolous from you |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Lifebender(m): 6:58pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
ministerblessed: Agathabishen,pls pls pls..ignore this idea totally.Dont let her be.Restrict her movement.,seems she's a free bird.And start talking sense into her head with love. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by ewizard1: 6:58pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Agathabishen:If I'm rigth, she's your younger one! Are you scared of her or something? . Like someone said earlier, she think she's matured after having a baby (actually, all lady think luike that). Even my younger sister who is a mother now, them never born am well make I talk, make she grumble. . Let her know she's still a younger one to you. Let her leave the house and go learn like Flashh said. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Seculent: 6:59pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
ClassCaptain:Why the interview? 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by ewizard1: 6:59pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Flashh:Well and Perfectly Said! #YouDeserve1BottleOfOrigin #Ibile 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Seculent: 7:00pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Lifebender:You dey mind that girl. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by Aarenasbaba(m): 7:04pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
The missing dog would never here d whistle of d hunter...... I pity her life cos she wl end of becoming a nuisance to d family |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by daclint(m): 7:04pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
Give her a well packaged Shawn Michael's sweet chin music, Thank me later |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by eightsin(m): 7:04pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
UniqueGem: If it were you, you will find out soon enuf that u are bluffing. How do you think all these hot water bath start? And then she will live with the boy tomorrow while you are disfigured |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by MossLuv: 7:05pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
The only person that can talk sense into her is her baby dad. Invite the guy and tell him why the future of his baby mama is paramount and should be take seriously. I mean u pple must accept the baby dad whole-hearted. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by ewizard1: 7:05pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
diamondzs:Abi ooo... When she's even suppose to be sorry for soiling the family's reputation. |
Re: Help Me My Sister Is Getting Out Of Hand by InvertedHammer: 7:07pm On Nov 15, 2015 |
/ Your family is reaping the fruit of bad parenting. The signs were there but you chose to ignore it. The respect is lost already. Too late. Your sister got pregnant at 16 and your parents let the boy walk free like nothing happened. Your parents failed your sister and your family. She is not a consenting "adult". / 1 Like |
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