Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,157,927 members, 7,835,093 topics. Date: Tuesday, 21 May 2024 at 03:55 AM

Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) (1227 Views)

SEE THIS: Am I Doing It Right Or Wrongly? [PICTURE] / VIDEO: Muslim Women Caught Doing The One Corner Dance, Shows Off Heavy Assets / What Am I Doing In Her Room-(happening Live) (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply) (Go Down)

Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by helinues: 6:23pm On Nov 17, 2015
I met this lady roughly four months ago through a friend. My friend was dating her friend so I guessed they used to talk about me and her friends confessed to me she really liked me. I decided to give it a trial. Few days before i travelled out of the country, i got her number so that we could be talking while away. We used to chat every day until when something happenned between my friend's relationship (With Her friend) . I didn't want to get involved so I decided to let her be pending till I would be back . I used to tell her that I would be coming back but she never believed me.

To cut the story short, I made a move to contact her when I was so sure I would be returning. She was eager to meet me. When I came back, we started a relationship and everything was fine. I have always believed no perfect person as I don't see my self as one. So sometimes, when she does something that annoyed me, I tried to overlook. It was getting out of hand so I decided to let her know about somethings she had been doing which I didn't like .

To my surpirse, she took it personal. I tried to let her know that I only want the best for her. Actually she told me she would be visiting her family which I agreed .She never told me when she left ( She really traveled cos she took some pics with her relatives)She ignored my calls and text for like 2 days until when I sent her a message that I was sorry. She responded back and told me she was just mad at me. I put that behind me just to start something afresh but she has changed her attitude towards me.

I chatted with her yesterday and she told me she would be coming back to town tomorrow. She promised to call me yesterday night so that we could just sort things out. But later at night, she texted me. Her text is below;

" Hey dear, why don't we chat tomorrow night time while I would be traveling, here most of the time, its my sister, my best friend or my cousins with my phone most of the time. Good night and take care... Don't stress yourself cos we will talk"..

My problem is she only traveled for 3 days but we never talk on phone through out .She hardly reply my text. Does it mean she already made up her mind or she wasn't proud of me? The text got me worry " Don't stress yourself cos we will talk" More or like don't bother to call me while I am still around.. She would be coming tonight, I actually sent her a message to wished her safe trip. I made up my mind not to text her tonight by the time she would be leaving and if she never bother to initiate contact, I think that should be the end of everything.
I do not want to be selfish with my decision, Am I doing the right things please advice
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by falansa: 6:32pm On Nov 17, 2015
shine yah eyes brother... I don't think this gal really loves u. sooner or later she will dump you. But before she do that, guess you know the right thing to do? wink

2 Likes

Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by bronzegoddess(f): 6:33pm On Nov 17, 2015
...In other news, I just got a boyfriend through nairaland smiley
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by bronzegoddess(f): 6:34pm On Nov 17, 2015
falansa:
shine yah eyes brother... I don't think this gal really loves u. sooner or later she will dump you. But before she do that, guess you know the right thing to do? wink
op didn't say he loves her either undecided
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by lasisi69(f): 6:37pm On Nov 17, 2015
End time advice
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Nobody: 6:43pm On Nov 17, 2015
grinBottom line is....She doesn't Like You!undecided

2 Likes

Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Sweetyie(f): 6:44pm On Nov 17, 2015
helinues:
I met this lady roughly four months ago through a friend. My friend was dating her friend so I guessed they used to talk about me and her friends confessed to me she really liked me. I decided to give it a trial. Few days before i travelled out of the country, i got her number so that we could be talking while away. We used to chat every day until when something happenned between my friend's relationship (With Her friend) . I didn't want to get involved so I decided to let her be pending till I would be back . I used to tell her that I would be coming back but she never believed me.

To cut the story short, I made a move to contact her when I was so sure I would be returning. She was eager to meet me. When I came back, we started a relationship and everything was fine. I have always believed no perfect person as I don't see my self as one. So sometimes, when she does something that annoyed me, I tried to overlook. It was getting out of hand so I decided to let her know about somethings she had been doing which I didn't like .

To my surpirse, she took it personal. I tried to let her know that I only want the best for her. Actually she told me she would be visiting her family which I agreed .She never told me when she left ( She really traveled cos she took some pics with her relatives)She ignored my calls and text for like 2 days until when I sent her a message that I was sorry. She responded back and told me she was just mad at me. I put that behind me just to start something afresh but she has changed her attitude towards me.

I chatted with her yesterday and she told me she would be coming back to town tomorrow. She promised to call me yesterday night so that we could just sort things out. But later at night, she texted me. Her text is below;

" Hey dear, why don't we chat tomorrow night time while I would be traveling, here most of the time, its my sister, my best friend or my cousins with my phone most of the time. Good night and take care... Don't stress yourself cos we will talk"..

My problem is she only traveled for 3 days but we never talk on phone through out .She hardly reply my text. Does it mean she already made up her mind or she wasn't proud of me? The text got me worry " Don't stress yourself cos we will talk" More or like don't bother to call me while I am still around.. She would be coming tonight, I actually sent her a message to wished her safe trip. I made up my mind not to text her tonight by the time she would be leaving and if she never bother to initiate contact, I think that should be the end of everything.
I do not want to be selfish with my decision, Am I doing the right things please advice
Op did u Just say u Just came in from abroad? See forget that babe, she's not serious Biko, I'm available, lol cheesy kiss
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Nobody: 6:44pm On Nov 17, 2015
of All the toys in the world, she choose to play with your heart.

1 Like

Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Omotayor123(f): 6:45pm On Nov 17, 2015
Hmmm! cool
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Nobody: 6:46pm On Nov 17, 2015
grin
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by IamLEGEND1: 6:50pm On Nov 17, 2015
Sweetyie:

Op did u Just say u Just came in from abroad? See forget that babe, she's not serious Biko, I'm available, lol cheesy kiss

Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Nobody: 6:51pm On Nov 17, 2015
Sweetyie:

Op did u Just say u Just came in from abroad? See forget that babe, she's not serious Biko, I'm available, lol cheesy kiss
.
.
.
.
Bleep his mind out and he'd give you everything even his return ticket and visa.
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Sweetyie(f): 6:53pm On Nov 17, 2015
[quote author=IamLEGEND1 post=40125862][/quote]
grin
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Sweetyie(f): 6:54pm On Nov 17, 2015
PrimeMinisterr:

.
.
.
.
Bleep his mind out and he'd give you everything even his return ticket and visa.
Trust me
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Nobody: 6:59pm On Nov 17, 2015
Sweetyie:
Trust me
. . . . when you get the dough , come over asap so We can change 'em.
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Shugakay(f): 7:22pm On Nov 17, 2015
That's only what you know how best to do
PrimeMinisterr:

.
.
.
.
when you get the dough , come over asap so We can change 'em.
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Nobody: 7:27pm On Nov 17, 2015
Shugakay:
That's only what you know how best to do
.
.
.
.
Actually there are lots of stuffs I know how to do best.
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Shugakay(f): 7:29pm On Nov 17, 2015
Stuffs like Enlighten me please
PrimeMinisterr:

.
.
.
.
Actually there are lots of stuffs I know how to do best.
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Nobody: 7:35pm On Nov 17, 2015
Shugakay:
Stuffs like Enlighten me please
.
.
.
.
hope you know what you're asking for ?
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Nobody: 7:39pm On Nov 17, 2015
[quote author=IamLEGEND1 post=40125862][/quote]

. . . . she is . broh, she is !
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by Shugakay(f): 8:07pm On Nov 17, 2015
Sure
PrimeMinisterr:

.
.
.
.
hope you know what you're asking for ?
Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? ( Please Advice) by daviesmania(m): 9:35pm On Nov 17, 2015
man-up bro, u dont excite her.

(1) (Reply)

I Masturbate To Photos Of The Woman With The Longest Hairs / Help…..my Boyfriend Is Addicted To Porn / Who Else Noticed This??

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 33
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.