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Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by HermajestyQ(f): 7:44am On Nov 18, 2015
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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by yomi007k(m): 7:49am On Nov 18, 2015
U really wana know?
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by Hurlstarling: 7:50am On Nov 18, 2015
End Time Question
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by utenwuson: 7:51am On Nov 18, 2015
wifes re scares same way husband re scares too! wen u re a made man! u get "a yes" from almost every lady u woo cos women love made men! n will tag u responsible! now as a comfortable man u ll b totally confuse cos u ll smtym be looking @ over 5 ladies u could marry if they actually love u for u or for ur money.

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by benedictnsi(m): 7:53am On Nov 18, 2015
Because our single girls (spinsters) are now dating married men

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by hertz9te(m): 7:55am On Nov 18, 2015
blame the females

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by Gelengelen: 7:59am On Nov 18, 2015
utenwuson:
wise is scares same way husband is scares too! wen u re a made man! u get "a yes" from almost every lady u woo cos women love made men! n will tag u responsible! now as a comfortable man u ll b totally confuse cos u ll smtym be looking @ over 5 ladies u could marry if they actually love u for u or for ur money.
true......very true


like me I decided to start when I had nothing. she stood by me, advised, encouraged, and love me despite my having nothing.

now am made, surely I am going to marry her. she is a rare gem. the only lady that made me to do 3 days fasting, severally with her.

I love you Happiness. I can't wait to fix that ring on your finger.

yes I do.


men there are still good ladies...just look well.she might just be that lady in your street that you normally ignore.


lalasticlala. front page material

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by zinachidi(m): 8:01am On Nov 18, 2015
u know y?? Its because of the dwinling number of responsible women.

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by Stanleyafam(m): 8:08am On Nov 18, 2015
There are young men ready to settle down but few women willing to settle down with them, owing to the fact that these young men are yet to be made.
we are in a dispensation where ladies go after a guy with a car and lots of money at least, none is ready to build with a man just like our parents back in the days.

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by iPopAlomo(m): 8:08am On Nov 18, 2015
I'm proud of those guys... they are realising that marrying any girl is doing her a favour... grin

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by Fidecoo(m): 8:13am On Nov 18, 2015
utenwuson:
wise is scares same way husband is scares too! wen u re a made man! u get "a yes" from almost every lady u woo cos women love made men! n will tag u responsible! now as a comfortable man u ll b totally confuse cos u ll smtym be looking @ over 5 ladies u could marry if they actually love u for u or for ur money.
. U just hit d nail on d ryt head and spot.
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by ITbomb(m): 8:18am On Nov 18, 2015
The reasons include
1. Why pay for one when many are willing to provide the services for free provided you have a good apartment with a Nollywood subscribed dstv.

2. Many guys who got rejected by girls when they were struggling finds it hard to just invite someone to come when everything don set

3. People like me don't see any reason why I, being the provider, should be begging one small girl for a relationship

4. In the end, guys settled for the average girl while still keeping the side chicks. The married men are chopping the single girls while the single guys are opening threads on nairaland ranting their assz off

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by Rexhenrex(m): 8:20am On Nov 18, 2015
There are 5 reasons.
1,some women are trouble if u marry them then u are finished because they will kill you by giving you high b.p. And nag you to death.

2,responsible women are scarce.this days, some ladies even brag about there sexcapedes with conviction and vigour.guys like such ladies very well just to flirt with them,but not to marry them if u doubt me ask around.

3,ladies want people like *bill gates* they want you be carrying money on ur head before the agree. i swear you go dry because he will treat you like rag.he doesn't need to be too rich for u to say yes bae,just make sure he has a planned future.

4,because guys see marriage as a bondage so they wanna continue flirting...

5,because ladies want a perfect man.which is unpossible no i mean impossible cheesy

6,last but not the least, because of this pics below ...with this few points of mine i hope you are confused and not convince of the reasons stated to answer the aforementioned question... grin

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by Nobody: 8:24am On Nov 18, 2015
Not everyone has it's own soul mate and some men don't want responsibilities and commitments even they are financially stable... cool
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by alterswerve(m): 8:51am On Nov 18, 2015
The problem is WHY WERE YOU WONDERING in the first place?
Well.. People are giving their reasons sha
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by misspicy(f): 8:54am On Nov 18, 2015
iPopAlomo:
I'm proud of those guys... they are realising that marrying any girl is doing her a favour... grin
shocked
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by misspicy(f): 8:55am On Nov 18, 2015
KashyBaby:
Not everyone has it's own soul mate and some men don't want responsibilities and commitments even they are financially stable... cool
true talk grin



very irresponsible boys everywhere grin
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by miqos02(m): 8:59am On Nov 18, 2015
ask google
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by iPopAlomo(m): 9:02am On Nov 18, 2015
misspicy:
shocked

What...?! undecided
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by iPopAlomo(m): 9:04am On Nov 18, 2015
ITbomb:
The reasons include
1. Why pay for one when many are willing to provide the services for free provided you have a good apartment with a Nollywood subscribed dstv.

2. Many guys who got rejected by girls when they were struggling finds it hard to just invite someone to come when everything don set

3. People like me don't see any reason why I, being the provider, should be begging one small girl for a relationship

4. In the end, guys settled for the average girl while still keeping the side chicks. The married men are chopping the single girls while the single guys are opening threads on nairaland ranting their assz off


SPOT ON!!!
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by iPopAlomo(m): 9:06am On Nov 18, 2015
misspicy:
true talk grin


very irresponsible boys everywhere grin

The very same responsible one sharing your nudes after a bad breakup...?!!!

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by misspicy(f): 9:13am On Nov 18, 2015
iPopAlomo:



The very same responsible one sharing your nudes after a bad breakup...?!!!
my nudes shocked for where?
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by Nobody: 9:16am On Nov 18, 2015
I think it's a good thing. Marriage is not for everyone & to avoid having a broken home, they better stay the hell away from it until they are ready to fully settle down. Nobody wants to be married to someone that has one foot in & one foot out.
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by utenwuson: 9:17am On Nov 18, 2015
Gelengelen:
true......very true


like me I decided to start when I had nothing. she stood by me, advised, encouraged, and love me despite my having nothing.

now am made, surely I am going to marry her. she is a rare gem. the only lady that made me to do 3 days fasting, severally with her.

I love you Happiness. I can't wait to fix that ring on your finger.

yes I do.


men there are still good ladies...just look well.she might just be that lady in your street that you normally ignore.


lalasticlala. front page material
yea! d best way to get married is get ur partner b4 u get a work! m a living testimony 2 ds!b my elder bro presently workin wt chevron/texaco is exactly 30 yrs wt over 10 girl frns! he s stil searching 4 a wife, he says he can't marry any of them cos he s sure if he s broke none ll even look. @ him, he says he tk him approximately a week to get any gurl cos they. easily says yes thereby confusing him if actually they love him! m presently tryn my best to find him a wife myself, sm1 who knew nothing about him. I told a gurl about him and she asked me were. he was working and I said local govt n she says God forbid!

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by Gelengelen: 9:22am On Nov 18, 2015
utenwuson:
yea! d best way to get married is get ur partner b4 u get a work! m a living testimony 2 ds!b my elder bro presently workin wt chevron/texaco is exactly 30 yrs wt over 10 girl frns! he s stil searching 4 a wife, he says he can't marry any of them cos he s sure if he s broke none ll even look. @ him, he says he tk him approximately a week to get any gurl cos they. easily says yes thereby confusing him if actually they love him! m presently tryn my best to find him a wife myself, sm1 who knew nothing about him. I told a gurl about him and she asked me were. he was working and I said local govt n she says God forbid!
damn! that's too bad for ladies to keep selecting and searching for already made men. I think you bro should change his appearance when he sees a lady he wants to woo. and maybe tell her he is just a teacher.

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by Tinalex(f): 9:42am On Nov 18, 2015
Its not about a lady not knowing what she wants by whoring around but you see most guys are vain this days. gurls wanna stay but how do you stay with a guy who cannot think for himself,not responsible, seeking attentipn from every lady he meets and to top it all drinks,smoke and keep friends that add nothing to his life! A lady has to dump that kinda guy and get a better person and you realise its most of these guys that shout "these hoes a'int loyal". In short its both ways....when both sexes become responsible then getting married will be a piece of cake!
Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by Tinalex(f): 9:44am On Nov 18, 2015
Its not about a lady not knowing what she wants by whoring around but you see most guys are vain this days. gurls wanna stay but how do you stay with a guy who cannot think for himself,not responsible, seeking attention from every lady he meets and to top it all drinks,smoke and keep friends that add nothing to his life! A lady has to dump that kinda guy and get a better person and you realise its most of these guys that shout "these hoes a'int loyal" while when the lady is sacrificing alot they are busy taking advantage and disrespecting her. In short its both ways....when both sexes become responsible then getting married will be a piece of cake!

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by joseph1832(m): 9:47am On Nov 18, 2015
PunkyVeer:
I think it's a good thing. Marriage is not for everyone & to avoid having a broken home, they better stay the hell away from it until they are ready to fully settle down. Nobody wants to be married to someone that has one foot in & one foot out.
How right you are. Most people don't know this. They think its like a prestige or something glorious for one to be married.

I've even been told my some people (male and female) that "I should go and marry", the funny thing is they who are married have a very nice record of cheating. I never could seem to understand why they can't understand what marriage really is.

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by Nobody: 9:55am On Nov 18, 2015
joseph1832:
How right you are. Most people don't know this. They think its like a prestige or something glorious for one to be married.

I've even been told my some people (male and female) that "I should go and marry", the funny thing is they who are married have a very nice record of cheating. I never could seem to understand why they can't understand what marriage really is.

Exactly. They think marriage is simply about having a wife/husband, neglecting the fact that it also means your playing the musical beds days are over.

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by joseph1832(m): 10:07am On Nov 18, 2015
PunkyVeer:


Exactly. They think marriage is simply about having a wife/husband, neglecting the fact that it also means your musical beds days are over. Y
Its not even about musical days dear. Its about having each other and being true to each other. Knowing that you're there for each other when stormy winds blow.

Many people get married because they see it as something they should do when they've attain a particular age. They are just content with having a woman (wife) at home who takes care of the kids/home while they are free to roam about. While they women are content with showing off their husband and brandishing their children and wedding rings to single ladies.

I've always maintained this position that many marriages collapse or fail because both parties involved failed to understand each other. Tolerance and understanding are amazing qualities in a marriage. If I understand my wife, I see no reason why I will even keep malice with her.

Its a world where people feel their opinion is superior and they try and shove it down other peoples throats. Its all about finding a common ground to walk on.

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by Nobody: 10:24am On Nov 18, 2015
joseph1832:
Its not even about musical days dear. Its about having each other and being true to each other. Knowing that you're there for each other when stormy winds blow.

Many people get married because they see it as something they should do when they've attain a particular age. They are just content with having a woman (wife) at home who takes care of the kids/home while they are free to roam about. While they women are content with showing off their husband and brandishing their children and wedding rings to single ladies.

I've always maintained this position that many marriages collapse or fail because both parties involved failed to understand each other. Tolerance and understanding are amazing quality in a marriage. If I understand my wife, I see no reason why I will even keep malice with her.

Its all word where people feel their opinion is superior and they try and shove it down other peoples throats. Its all about finding a common ground to walk on.

Spot on!

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Re: Why The Growing Number Of Bachelors(single Men) by iPopAlomo(m): 11:04am On Nov 18, 2015
misspicy:
my nudes shocked for where?

I dey tell you nii...

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